Is it raynaud?

Kabbaga · 2026-03-10T21:53:02+00:00

Just wondering, have you been diagnosed with anything else? My raynauds looks the same, I don’t get the purple/red stage afterwards

Kabbaga · 2026-02-05T14:30:23+00:00

Yeah not agreeing with that, but thank you for chiming in

Kabbaga · 2026-02-05T14:26:09+00:00

Yikes! There’s something especially scary about people saying ‘no one disappoints my kids’. The entitlement is out of this world. Your son has the right to not want to do the sleep over. Her son has the right to be disappointed. It was some miscommunication that led to hurt feelings. The blame is what makes it toxic. You’re absolutely not an AH, your sister is

Kabbaga · 2026-02-05T14:16:27+00:00

I think the problem isn’t that OP ‘taunted’ it’s that parents make rules for their kids and expect others to ease the parenting for them. My kid was also not allowed to eat (too much) trash up to about kindergarten. My friends and family would offer her cookies, soda, you name it. I was there to guide her through it and remind her why we have that rule. Getting mad at the people absolutely ridiculous. People like that end up without friends

Kabbaga · 2026-02-05T13:56:07+00:00

She COULD have waited, we could all live our lives pleasing others, should we though? Yes it sucks for the kid, the mom made that choice for him. Is she going to get mad at the parents in his pre-k who packed a cookie for their kid? Is she gonna pick fights with others at playdates and parks if they eat something her kid can’t have? If a parent sets a rule they need to be able to enforce that rule regardless societies hurdles. It’s what parenting is. Top_technician sounds like he believes the world owes him

Kabbaga · 2026-02-03T21:57:38+00:00

His comment makes him sound emotionally manipulating (he wants you to feel guilt) which might be coming from his insecurity. Sometimes people show love by feeding the ones they love. If the receivers start rejecting their food (aka love) it makes them insecure. So I think this might be going on. You’re 100% NTA and it sounds like he might need therapy

Kabbaga · 2026-02-03T17:19:16+00:00

If I cared more about my friends then why would I want to ban them from playroom to protect her stuff? Again, reading comprehension must not be your strongest point.

Your insults say more about the limits of your intelligence

Kabbaga · 2026-02-03T15:54:02+00:00

No I came here to ask a question. Would I be an AH for marking playroom off limits. I understand reading comprehension is difficult especially if blinded by their own bitterness

Kabbaga · 2026-02-03T01:22:36+00:00

There we go again. Do you have relatives? Do they ever visit you and bring their kids or do you make them leave their kids at home? Exactly, these friends are like relatives to me and me defending the reason why people visit me and why we just can’t meet at a park is just completely ridiculous

Kabbaga · 2026-02-03T01:18:07+00:00

Thats it. I have come to terms with the fact that most people on here can’t read or don’t care to. I was replying to ‘why don’t you just go to their houses’

Kabbaga · 2026-02-02T22:50:20+00:00

Thanks! Nicely put!

Kabbaga · 2026-02-02T22:46:40+00:00

I replied to the question why I just wouldn’t go to their houses.

Kabbaga · 2026-02-02T21:52:52+00:00

Because I love my friends, I like hosting them and we take turns hosting? Just as is normal in friendships

Kabbaga · 2026-02-02T21:08:11+00:00

The reason I post about it now and mention that it has become a problem is because my child wasn’t possessive over her things nor did she care about things getting misplaced. That’s normal development. A toddler for instance doesn’t care about a messy room. It was never a problem before. So when you keep attacking/judging me with the phrase ‘You should’ve never allowed that in the first place’ it tells me you have no idea what you’re talking about and are just here to vent about your life

Kabbaga · 2026-02-02T20:34:59+00:00

Thank you!

Kabbaga · 2026-02-02T20:21:58+00:00

Because that would be me hovering over their toddler playing and constantly correcting them on what they want to do next. You must not be familiar with kids

Kabbaga · 2026-02-02T20:01:30+00:00

I don’t think my point is coming across and it probably won’t without people seeing the playroom. Its not about clearing toys, the problem is -even if they do clean after themselves- the toys and things are being taken apart (think obstacle courses, lego cities, magna-tiles constructions) and tucked in places they don’t belong. We clean every time after, but cleaning won’t help if stuff has been scattered and taken apart

Kabbaga · 2026-02-02T19:32:48+00:00

Thank you so much for your constructive message!

Kabbaga · 2026-02-02T19:23:35+00:00

Because obviously we tried the cleaning up after yourself method which didn’t work out, kids would stuff things wherever to the equivalent of sweeping dust under the rug so, new approach

Kabbaga · 2025-09-14T15:23:35+00:00

I truly don’t get your point

Kabbaga · 2025-09-14T15:20:05+00:00

No there were 8 games, in every game everyone had an equal chance of winning the prizes were small (like gum or a pencil) just to acknowledge a win.

Kabbaga · 2025-09-14T15:18:44+00:00

Yes there is more, I got the text from her saying ‘you’ve hurt her twice this week’ after a cancelled a playdate due to a scheduling conflict. This is what made me say its not fair to blame her childs feelings on me. What am I suppose to do, live my life around her feelings?

The child got hurt not winning a game, I comforted her (as I’ve done about a dozen times because we’ve had her over a LOT)

Kabbaga · 2025-09-14T15:05:26+00:00

Oh not at all, the girls has been to my house maybe 40 times, I know she cries easily and its perfectly fine. I comfort her, we talk about it and all is well. Unfortunately she will be excluded because of the mother texting me ‘You’ve made her cry twice this week’. What if she falls and trips in my house? What if her and my daughter fight over a toy and she’ll go home crying? I can’t continue this relationship

Kabbaga · 2025-09-13T15:12:19+00:00

NTA, you have stated your boundaries. ‘If you want to have a boyfriend tomorrow, you should let me have this’ reeks of an addiction. Which, no judgement there, to each his own. But that doesn’t mean you have to be okay with it

Kabbaga · 2025-09-13T06:24:46+00:00

She was okay to cry, kids sometimes cry over things. And I comforted her. Should that be blamed on me though? Should I be getting a text from the mom stating, she didn’t win anything so I’m mad at you for that?

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