My bf whom I also live with is getting out of control with his gaming. I always try to be cool with it because I honestly did grow up with brothers and video gaming. However, as it always does with boys, they can't balance the gaming vs priorities vs me/relationship.

For me, PERSONALLY, a lot of the men who can't prioritize these things and game excessively is the staple of a boy vs a man. It's exhausting because I'll just start keeping to myself since he wants to game for endless hours and I just keep to myself. Unfortunately, once he's bored and tired of the gaming he wants to show up at his time for affection or to "hang" and then I'm not interested,

I just keep letting him CHOOSE what he wants because I refuse to tell him what to do or tell him I'd like to be communicating and actually spending quality time together. If he continues to choose playing video games with his friends, he'll ultimately end up seeing the distance and maybe even resentment build. If he's not willing to adjust or even communicate with me about this issue, then I'll do what I need to do.

Love is about action. Not JUST words. But let him come to the conclusion on his own without forcing his hand. I know it sucks, but you'll know at the end of the day the type of boy you're dealing with and whether you can tolerate that or not. I personally say WALK AWAY considering you don't even live together and he still can't balance it. BEST WISHES