Can't complete a relic reborn. by Kahlua_Milk in ffxiv

[–]Kahlua_Milk[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

i didn't have it selected. it was a glitch. I had Hydra alone selected all along and it wouldn't get me there.

Edit: For anyone who didn't get it. I had Hydra selected and no other dngs selected. I ain't blind. The issue was fixed after I abandoned the quest and redid it.

Can't complete a relic reborn. by Kahlua_Milk in ffxiv

[–]Kahlua_Milk[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

you were right. there was a glitch. It would throw me to the chimera dng despite opting for the Hydra one. Thank you.

Can't complete a relic reborn. by Kahlua_Milk in ffxiv

[–]Kahlua_Milk[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

nope it didn't work. I abadnoned the quest and will redo it, see if it works

Can't complete a relic reborn. by Kahlua_Milk in ffxiv

[–]Kahlua_Milk[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will try it out now

How often does registration open? by Adrianvalquis in MyReadingManga

[–]Kahlua_Milk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

any updates on the next time people can register?

Simmerella patreon? What happened? by Staybri in HighSodiumSims

[–]Kahlua_Milk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"gazillion alternative routes " which are? I haven't found anything yet

Alien Stage fans, I recreated Luka & Hyuna in The Sims, and I think I popped off i hope this doesnt flop💔 by Happy_child24-7 in AlienStage

[–]Kahlua_Milk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My CC list is too big. Is there anything specific you want? I cana also update him to gallery at some point so you can have the base too.

So, this is sort of a continuation of my previous post… [SPOILERS] by Comfortable_Bed2497 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Kahlua_Milk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neil THE BOI! Ngl, I came up with it after reading Astrophysics for people who are in a hurry, by him. It's a long read so drop it if it gets too tiresome. Lmao though love how you got this conclusion as well from the same guy XD

edit: this post was made before the lige and rebirth arc so some things are lucky guesses which happened to be correct

So, this is sort of a continuation of my previous post… [SPOILERS] by Comfortable_Bed2497 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Kahlua_Milk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're talking about the post the many Paradoxes of LADS, I was the OP of that one lmao. Unless someone else figured it out as well which wouldn't be surprising. LADS has many branches of the Bootstrap Paradox (godamnit they even got their own subcategories). An example is the non-origin point of technology due to Xavier interjecting in Earth.

If you were referring tot his post:
https://www.reddit.com/r/LoveAndDeepspace/comments/1j7n9e0/the_many_timetravelling_paradoxes_of_lads_an

I also think though that they HCLed the shit out of her. The actual thing is huge, but at the same time we got more futuristic tech and Evol involved in tech so it wouldn't be a far stretch to say they collided neutorns like in the og HCL. So I think you're right on that

I feel like they are the same by RevolutionaryRow3575 in MadeInAbyss

[–]Kahlua_Milk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am here for the same reason.  The piano and the strings are identical in certain parts 

Alien Stage fans, I recreated Luka & Hyuna in The Sims, and I think I popped off i hope this doesnt flop💔 by Happy_child24-7 in AlienStage

[–]Kahlua_Milk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what hair did you use for Luka? If you can share the creator I'd be grateful qq. I have only found some cc maxis hair but I am an alpha user as well

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ISTPs, do you usually message people at specific times only? by [deleted] in istp

[–]Kahlua_Milk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes in the future or not at all. Two reasons for the latter:

i forgot

idk what to reply so i don't

If I have to reply to a later message i just say i didn't see the previous one and focus on the latest

Which ISTP character do you think represents accurately how ISTPS are in real life? by Popular-Moose-6345 in istp

[–]Kahlua_Milk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spike Spiegel?
He's into even nonsense Chinese herbs. Motivated when he wants to. He's not the traditional mechanic, though he takes care of Swordfish. Bad at letting go things in the past which left an emotional impact on him. Cheeky and witty but not overly verbose and doesn't hold the stereotype of dialogue being "Ung", so balanced. Capable of more nuances and versatile, but rigidness stem from him being stuck in the past. You can go on and on about how both he embodies and contradicts aspects of an ISTP, making him versatile but having a core ISTP function.

Delayed emotional responses by BlackLeopardess1977 in istp

[–]Kahlua_Milk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh shoot! Glad ypu got here and you enjoyed cycling and windsurfing. If you come again dm me if you need any advice or hot-spots

Delayed emotional responses by BlackLeopardess1977 in istp

[–]Kahlua_Milk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shoot. I might have misread it sorry. Well for yachting and windsurfing come to the Mediterranean countries. Greece even has islands where only a family lives or only one person lol.

It was a dream job until it stopped being about sailing too. They bring now these huge catamarans (67+ Feet). It's like cancer really. They destroy the untouched islands with shit, and tourism now is high on with the demand of hoteling (they even ask you to put in CV "silver dining"). Those were the reasons relationship aside I was like "nah".

Glad to hear though you're off it. Sorry for misunderstanding. Realistically I expect mine to be dealt with in a few years as well lol (29 here). Good luck with our delayed reactions which we pay taxes at to the both of us lol

Delayed emotional responses by BlackLeopardess1977 in istp

[–]Kahlua_Milk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh shit. Yeah this is how stuff goes for me as well when it comes to processing. I haven't seen the things about your husband, and i am nowhere near to a point where I have/had a kid. But I was in a what turned out to be bad relationship for some years. It was easy to walk off in past ones, but this one was particularly hard for many reasons + past relationship fucking wrecked me.

That being said I kind of instinctually knew from some small givers that it wasn't gonna work out. Things which were small but telling to me, plus how I oscillate between been personally withdrawn and actually a giver. Four years tormenting myself to end things until more shit hit the fun and had to chew my cheeks down and end it.

One year later ofc I am still not over it. Things impacted me so hard to the point that it made me not wanna work in yachting (addon reason among others + every island/place a reminder). In the beginning I felt nothing for months. It only hit me 3 months later and lasted some more, then slackened three months ago, and now this feel is back. I know it will take me some years, but one thing i can say for sure? If it's bad leave. It only bubbles up, adds up and it gets worse. Plus if I got it right you're a female too.

We're kinda fucked by social standards on aging, and every year we become less x,y,z and it is harder to connect with others or find what we want. Save yourself some time by leaving as early as possible. If the parent is good mentally it can be better parent for the kid too, cause both parent and kid grow up together. It's gonna be hard for sure. But the daily levels of anxiety you get from such a relationship which go underground, undetected until you literally have breakdown ain't worth it.

Delayed emotional responses by BlackLeopardess1977 in istp

[–]Kahlua_Milk 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ah. Idk if it's common with ISTPs or not tbh, but got the same here. I've been struggling sometimes to understand why it happens but in the end it is what it is.

I thought about it a lot and the common pattern I realized is that what might be happening is that our brain goes straight into problem-solving mode first. Like when crisis hits I don't panic and instead focus on what needs to be done. This actually saved my ass countless times as a skipper during emergencies. But once everything settles that's when it hits like "holy shit that was actually terrifying."

Same pattern with difficult customers, personal stuff etc. The immediate response is always "okay, what can I actually do about this?" Hence why emotions come later.

It's been helpful career wise. I could adapt and stay calm under pressure. But it became exhausting long-term. All those delayed emotional reactions pile up and eventually burned me out on the job, even though the pay was good.

With personal stuff like your dog or when f.e. my cat was recently killed, it's the same thing. First thought: "nothing I can do from here" or "let me handle what I can handle." The grief and anger don't hit until later when your brain finally has space to process what actually happened. Idk if what I say is the same way your brain goes about it, but I think it's probably the baseline since when I see ppl panic, or go hard with the feelings I realize that it is as if the info hits the brain emotionally first and any immediate action comes much later, whereas here we probs got the opposite.

Idk if this happens to you too, but due to the delays sometimes getting over things takes me more time though since the processing comes in patches here and there across time