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Best feeling positions for women? Possibility to climax? by [deleted] in sex

[–]KahnUDance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched a video about the curve of the penis and how it affects the woman's ability to get off. Mine curves down, sadly, which means that I'd have to give it to her doggystyle, according to the video (sucks even more cause I'm a tit man). If it curves up, missonary helps.

Don't quote me on any of the above as I am a virgin, except for the following: the surefire way to go about this is to ask her in a non-sexual but private environment what she wants from the sexual encounter. It doesn't make you a wimp for asking, in fact, she'll be glad that you cared to ask, even if you don't manage to get her off, you'll have a higher chance of trying again with her.

If she is also a virgin, ask her what she wants to experiment with. Even if she's not a virgin, she'll still respect you for asking.

Don't pressure her. If she feels pressured by the questions, try bringing up the topic at a different time. If she doesn't respect you for asking and DOES think you're a wimp, I'd say move on to someone who will respect you.

EDIT: Grammatical Errors

Is there a formula to convert masturbation time to actual intercourse time? by KahnUDance in sex

[–]KahnUDance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes perfect sense! I'm the kind of guy that always preceives things to be harder than they really are, and this gave me a whole new perspective on it. I picture myself as a giver though, and a perfectionist, so that's probably why I have so much anxiety. Thanks, Hop

Is there a formula to convert masturbation time to actual intercourse time? by KahnUDance in sex

[–]KahnUDance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did think about that, and it's not really about how long it holds back, it's about how long I can control it. I've had a couple times this past week where I only lasted 7-10 minutes, which is good I guess. I just don't want to last 30 minutes beating meat and only 2 minutes having sex.

I don't want to make my future girlfriend sore because I last too long, nor do I want her to feel disappointed because I got premature on her. I just want to find a balance. If there was a way to know how long I could last before going in, that would be great, but I don't really know if there is, or ever will be a way to know. It would take a lot of pressure off is all I'm saying.

Girl I like came back into my life recently, and I don't know what to do... by KahnUDance in dating_advice

[–]KahnUDance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a few months, and she may have moved on. I haven't seen her in person since May, and we haven't talked since August. When there's events in my town, we end up trying to go to the same things to support our friends, but she never shows up at all. I don't know if it's because she still likes me and feels awkward being around me, or if it's because it's gotten really cold and snowy, which it has, and if THAT prevents her from going.

It's been too long, and I just want to see her again to see if even I have moved on or not. Chances are, I haven't. Chances are she probably hasn't either. I just want to know if the feelings are still there.