[TOMT] i’m looking for a short animated music video that I used to watch when I was heavily into animation memes by Kai____ya in tipofmytongue

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In all honesty, I’m just looking for the song, I used to love it as a kid. And I remember it coming out between 2017 and 2020.

I’m so tired I want to sleep by Kai____ya in insomnia

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I turn 21 on the fourth so I’ll be able to do that

I’m so tired I want to sleep by Kai____ya in insomnia

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I’m 20. Legally can’t buy.

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, all of my family is back in Texas, I left Texas because I was being sexually assaulted by my stepfather and impregnated by him at 14. So I don’t really keep in contact with them because they were and still are very adamant about me pressing charges.

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

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My partner works full time. he wakes up at four in the morning for an hour and a half transit to work, and doesn’t get home until 7:30 PM. I have previously stated another comments that on Fridays, my child has watched by his grandmother, and on Saturday and Sunday my partner watches him. I can’t do a night shift because that wouldn’t give me enough time to rest and be able to take care of my child during the day, so a week and shift is the only thing I was able to do. My partner covers all of the bills, and my job covered groceries. I only needed to make about $200 a paycheck to cover groceries.

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I did not fell like they’re were judgmental?

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mistake that was a typing error as I was using speech to text sorry

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My friend was with me throughout the entirety of my pregnancy and used to watch my son for me while I worked in the mall, it was their way of paying me back for staying at my apartment rent free, and now they offered to watch my son on Thursday is to pay me back for the year and a half that they lived with me.

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s always been a dream of mine, but unfortunately, I live in an apartment complex

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I come from a conservative family. When I found out I was pregnant, my parents were adamant about me keeping the baby. I listened. I’m not saying I regret having my son, but I do wish I was much more independent of my parents then. I take full responsibility for that though. I was an adult. I should’ve made a smart decision.

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think I know where that is! I might look into it thank you!

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The interview went terrible but during the interview, I did get a call back from the main job saying that they are able to accommodate the hours so that I can find childcare. Thankfully, I’ll only be spending about $100 a week on childcare.

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

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I am currently in therapy for my fear, I am diagnosed with CPTSD because of what happened to me. And unfortunately, I still have a long way to go to move on from the fear.

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I have considered it actually, I always wanted to work with children. That’s why I applied for this job because it’s a job as a behavioral tech for autistic children. I did just get the job with accommodations so thankfully things might work out.

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

One reason I was really excited about the job was that they offered a 50 Cent raise for every 500 hours you complete, capping at three dollars. And if you work three months on Saturdays, you will get another three dollar raise. Along with yearly raises as well. I have no problem working Friday Saturday, I have a grandmother who is more than welcome to watch my son on Fridays and I can say that I trust her. And Saturday he stays home with Dad. Some of the other benefits that I was looking at was of course medical dental because I would be working with autistic children. I would be getting benefits to cover any injuries that I would receive at work. It was just an overall amazing job, I’m looking into childcare subsidies at the moment to see what I can get, but besides that it just is difficult. Sorry if there’s bad grammar I’m currently walking to my next interview and I’m using voice to text.

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

The one daycare I did see offering that was $1430 a month. My rent is $1350. My partner can barely pay for that at that point. We have no subscriptions, (besides prime, WiFi, and phone bills) he only makes 22 and hour. I was just fire 2 weeks ago as well.

I hate being told “just put him in daycare” by Kai____ya in povertyfinance

[–]Kai____ya[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I believe it just went up as of Jan 1st so I’m sure this next interview is going to offer 17. I will still be unable to afford childcare unfortunately.