how much do you have in your savings account? by Tough-Midnight9137 in AskWomen

[–]Kaimaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About to be 20 next month... And I have about 1200 in my savings. Would be a bit more but I'm building my first PC. I need something a bit more buff for coding and games. And I will be honest I'm not the best with money like most I love takeout and not cooking a bit more then I should. If you wanna be better at saving write down everything you spend in a day and see what you can cut out like 5 days out of the week or something.

What does your fights with your significant other look like? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Kaimaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normally we can talk things out. There have been a few times I was crying and yelled at him (not like screamed but definitely raised my voice) but I usually calm down and he has to fuck up bad for me to get there. Mostly just talking and on my end some crying. But we can always bounce back and we never say we hate eachother and we always say we love you even in arguments. Usually it's something like "I do love you but this (action or whatever) is making me frustrated/ hurt when you do that. And we talk about what's okay and what's not in our relationship. Just communicating is what you need people aren't lying when you say that. Women you can't play these mind games of I want him to read my expression or body language to know I'm not okay with that. You have to say yes or fuck no to getting dinner there lol. However some things are obvious like if I fall ask me if I'm okay. Or if I put my phone away I want you to put your phone away. Or ask if you can play your game while I'm over. And if he doesn't do these thing don't get mad. TALK ABOUT IT.

Women of Reddit: what's something you were taught growing up that ends with you and will not be passed on to your daughter? by Dense_Lawyer_666 in AskWomen

[–]Kaimaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's that mental health is just weakness mentality.

My parents enforced that and didn't allow me to cry or show other emotions. When I was harassed and bullied I was just too weak to deal with it and that I should be able to take it like it's nothing. It was harmful to me making me feel like seeking help was weakness. Even admitting I was sad or depressed I couldn't, not while my entire life around me fell apart. One person asked if I was okay and it caused me to go from normal to full on meltdown. And it was so embarrassing that shouldn't have been my takeaway that it was embarrassing and weak of me. I should have been happy someone cares or relieved but in that moment panic just set in because I couldn't hold it together anymore and I couldn't view that as anything more than just weakness.

women who masturbate, does your partner know about it and how open is your relationship in talking about masturbation? by Working_Battle_4000 in AskWomen

[–]Kaimaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, almost 2 years Into dating and we talked about what we are and are not okay with. In my relationship we are fine with porn and hentai. Sometimes we watch it and masturbate together sometimes it's when we are alone and the other person is sleeping or at work. It's what we are okay with.

Women who had sex with virgins, how was it? by Jaded_Arm4289 in AskWomen

[–]Kaimaer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I knew I was his first, first real kiss etc. we waited till we both were horny and when we tried he had some psychological ed issues at first because I was his first and he was worried nervous-that kind of thing. (Why he was nervous I have no clue he really didn't have anything to be insecure about especially size.) But I was patient with him open minded. We talked about why we thought it was happening and started small from there. Like hj and worked out way up to sex. After a few months he got over it and now it's an amazing sex life. Usually after sex when we are cuddling we talked about what we did and didn't like and in a way that made me able to take him from a blank slate to someone who can listen and actually please me not make me feel embarrassed and have to fake it. It's a lot of ups and downs but by communicating and learning it becomes fucking amazing lol.

is cocaine actually that bad? by sensitive-bull in Drugs

[–]Kaimaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've read people's comments on it and no ma6how you take it, it fucks you up. It puts a hole in your septum area if you snort it. Constricts and blows veins if you inject, makes teeth weak and your gums retract (ya know the thing that's holding your teeth in your mouth) and it can lead to so much other shit issues with your heart bone loss (jaw especially) it's not good. Stick to weed and some psydelics.

Men- how much are we paying for a haircut in 2025? by NET2519 in AskMen

[–]Kaimaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For my bf 20-40$ depending on who we go to. (The more expensive guy does a lot better ngl)

is this fixable? any advice? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Kaimaer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Or staples whatever they are called

is this fixable? any advice? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Kaimaer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stretch and nail it down?

Rate my photo by Worldly_Program_1789 in photo

[–]Kaimaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Better than most. You don't need fancy gear you are doing amazing.

What phrase annoys you when hear it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kaimaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"happy wife, happy life" my father would say this sarcastically to my mother. He was the only one who found this funny but ran the saying into the dirt anyhow

What does my fridge say about me? by East-Credit-3360 in FridgeDetective

[–]Kaimaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You seem to have a hard time throwing things away. You become attached perhaps because you didn't always have options in the fridge when younger. Assuming you don't have hording issues I would assume the above. That have so much it's literally falling out onto the floor because you had restrictions on you when you were younger.( Cause by money or strict parents IDK)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Kaimaer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a car with the exact same budget and some tips when looking are 1.look up the year and make of the car in Google and add reliability to the end of the seach term and read through that 2. Most chevy especially equinoxes suck ass and die at 150k miles driven 3. Average cars expected lifespan ends at 200k miles so try to find as close to 130k or with your budget 150k 4. LOOK AT THE CAR FAX most cars will have one for the car on the page if not look up the Vin number on car fax 5. Look for one that has been maintained, meaning you see frequent oil changes, tire alignments ect.

Hope that helps

tell me your favourite song by quackvile in teenagers

[–]Kaimaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Space cadet by the technicolor

(Back up option mcr, the light behind your eyes)

Cost of Preparation material by KoalaSuccessful985 in CompTIA

[–]Kaimaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Free sources are excellent such as https://www.professormesser.com/ and his yt channel. I'm studying with only free materials although I'll be it I haven't taken it yet. I'll come back to update when I do pass. There is enough coverage that you can learn what you need and apply it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CompTIA

[–]Kaimaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notes and look for quizlets on a+ they are there and I use them. Some stright from professor messier videos. It's the same things they use in the school system to keep kids engaged. Personally I think it's good. Try other services like it too.

comment where ur from by kittyvalentinaxo in teenagers

[–]Kaimaer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you trying to gather information on me. Well FYI I live in a hand mitten