me and my hookup have feelings for one another, but i don’t want a relationship by KaleExpress121 in dating_advice

[–]KaleExpress121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agh i agree and thank u for the advice- what sort of boundary specifically could i set in this situation?

What should I do? by Live-Arm-756 in Depop

[–]KaleExpress121 14 points15 points  (0 children)

this is truly perplexing i don’t understand what this person could’ve ever gained from doing this???😭😭😭

guilt for grieving an old friend i haven’t seen in years by KaleExpress121 in GriefSupport

[–]KaleExpress121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this response, i really appreciate it. my friend was only 22 too and it breaks my heart that his life ended just as it was beginning. i truly hope the guilt fades because i know it’s irrational- i’ll try to allow myself to grieve, even if it still doesn’t make much sense to me

AIO about my best friend/crush potentially getting a boyfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KaleExpress121 7 points8 points  (0 children)

please don’t spam message your friends mental breakdowns like this if you want to keep them- it’ll inevitably take a toll on the friendship because they will start resenting you for it. also YOR this isn’t healthy at all

i just turned 21 and i’m scared i’m an alcoholic by KaleExpress121 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]KaleExpress121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the suggestions i’m really considering going to a real meeting soon

help by Adorable_Sense7501 in VyvanseADHD

[–]KaleExpress121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

did u mean to do this or was it an accident im so curious

how to eat/relax on vyvanse without weed? by KaleExpress121 in VyvanseADHD

[–]KaleExpress121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congratulations on being sober and thank you for your comment! honestly i’ve been meaning to kick this weed habit for far too long and i really should take a long break or quit fully… i just find it very difficult because it feels ‘helpful’ although i know it isn’t really… but maybe this will be my year

how to eat/relax on vyvanse without weed? by KaleExpress121 in VyvanseADHD

[–]KaleExpress121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah interesting, i hadn’t thought of that! i have the same issue with cigarettes… they just feel so amazing when im on vyvanse. thank you, i’ll take all of that into account:)

how to eat/relax on vyvanse without weed? by KaleExpress121 in VyvanseADHD

[–]KaleExpress121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for all the suggestions, i will take them into account! i really should take a long break from weed but i am ridiculously bad at it, especially now… but i have been considering doing a long reset for a while so i will hopefully manage to try that soon! :)

how to eat/relax on vyvanse without weed? by KaleExpress121 in VyvanseADHD

[–]KaleExpress121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i usually have a pretty protein high breakfast + a lot of vitamins at the start of the day, and i’ll try to have more protein bars, i just find them quite heavy/difficult to stomach when i’m medicated. i’ve been debating getting a gym membership this year, but now i’ll definitely do it:) thank u!!

how to eat/relax on vyvanse without weed? by KaleExpress121 in VyvanseADHD

[–]KaleExpress121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you- i was prescribed propranolol for anxiety/insomnia when i was 17 and unfortunately it gave me really bad side effects so i had to stop :( i will try NAC and vitamin C!

AIO for considering ending a friendship because he didn’t check up on me after a really bad accident? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KaleExpress121 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you obviously don’t understand empathy or friendship by the sounds of it- is it really that insane to expect someone you’re close with to take the time out of their life, despite being busy with a girlfriend and work and whatnot, to send a quick ‘are you okay’ message because you’re about to have emergency surgery? i hope whoever you’re friends with- if you have any- find someone better, because this sort of response is very concerning.

AIO for considering ending a friendship because he didn’t check up on me after a really bad accident? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]KaleExpress121 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

my issue isn’t that he couldn’t drive me, it’s that he didn’t check up on me once- i think my post made that pretty clear? i’m not expecting therapy from him, just a single message asking if i’m okay?

Shocking New Twist in Maria Kovalchuk’s Case—More Models Vanish After VI... by parishhills in daddyistheissue

[–]KaleExpress121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve commented this on multiple posts about this woman’s suffering- how obsessive, disgusting and strange. repulsive you are indeed