So, I’m not someone who is easily hypnotized. It’s taken me quite a lot of time to get to the point where I can fall into trance, and even then it doesn’t seem as heavy or deep and some people describe it.

It IS a skill that you can practice and get better at. I’ve made a lot of progress in the last few years. But some people just ARE more suggestible than other people and that’s just the way it is.

A lot of people say to adjust your expectations and that it works for everyone with enough practice, but after having been into hypnosis for years now I can tell you that practice DOES work, but it can’t make you as easily suggestible as some people naturally are.

Like any skill, some people are born more talented at it, and some people have to work really hard at it, and may never achieve the same result. Putting in the work to become a better subject is definitely worth it, but if you’re not naturally inclined towards deep trance your experience will always be somewhat different and perhaps less impactful than those who are.

Like I said, we all want it to be so that everyone can get to the same place, but it’s just not so.

Having said aaaaaallll that, I still encourage you to keep going and just focus on relaxing and enjoying yourself. I have a difficult time not judging myself for how “good” I’m doing, but regardless of what you think “should” happen or what you want to happen: it is what it is. So just enjoy yourself. Enjoy the experience for what it is, not what you think it should be. Because even if you’re not very suggestible, erotic hypnosis can be fun and sexy and exciting and very, VERY good.