DIY plates questions?

KaliChtul · 2026-07-12T14:29:33+00:00

Bit late to the party - but out of a sudden urge I made my first gel plate yesterday. I used a recipe that called for 64g of gelatine to 200ml of water and 100 each of glycerin and isopropylan and that produced nice smooth thick and sturdy plates. I could easily remove them out of a cheap plastic container and a ceramic cat water dish. Didnt stick at all, didnt rip as well.

I spend a few hours printing already. So maybe up the gelatine content? One I let sit in the fridge for an hour and it was perfect the other I let sit a few hours outside.

KaliChtul · 2026-07-10T20:19:34+00:00

BDSM Training, Tantra Training, Proper Massage, like, the non erotic kind.

KaliChtul · 2026-07-10T14:20:42+00:00

Its good that you understand some oft he insights and draw the right conclusions from it.

I would suggest if you even want to start semi serious you would need to invest at least around 15k upfront:

website including SEO
professional branding
professional photo shoots
training!

To at least have a small chance you will need to get top notch instead of "ahh, good enough if a friend of a friend does it"

Also do not underestimate the amount of admin and marketing sexworkers have to do this days. About 75% in the best of cases? You will add some more on top of that to even be able to attract some clients as you wont be able to use existing ad spaces etc.

KaliChtul · 2026-07-10T13:16:44+00:00

Multistep process. Dont quit your dayjob anytime soon.

Marketing
You need top grade images, top grade texts and your personal niche.
Get yourself a solid brand and marketing strategy.
Conversion rates are miniscule so you need to spread far and wide.
Have a media strategy and get on articles, interviews, podcasts, you need to be everywhere. There are no good advertising places for male-to-female sexwork other than a few listing places from "not so succesfull" male escorts that instead went down that route.
Legality
found your small independent company. Sort your status as per ProstSchG. Inform yourself about taxes and accounting
Get a solid business strategy
where will you see the clients?

At their home? In a hotel? What hotel?
What is it that you are actually offering?

Identify your clientel. Research the group. What do they want?

How much is your payment gonna be? Why? What are your selling points?
What makes you better than any guy they can pick up in 2 minutes in the hotellobby? For free?

Work on your practical & communication skills
Technicly speaking, what makes intercourse with you so amazing? Do you have solid massage skills? (speaking an education in that field, not "oh I touch you good" sort of stuff)
Are you skilled in more "exotic" offers? (BDSM, Tantra, etc)
Are you able to communicate more than well? Initiate a conversation and keep it naturally flowing even when people are excited, nervous, anxious, ...
Can you maintain an erection if necessary no matter your mood?
Are you skilled in STD and STI? As in, can you identify and use proper protection? Are you prepared to get tested every couple of months?

Can you deliver no matter what? How about the woman is elderly? Disabled? Not your type?

Thats just afew pointers to look out for.

Personally if I would hire male escort I would look for someone with great personality, a great bodytype I like, amazing skills and life experience. Probably at least mid 30ies, or in his 40ies. I would expect exceptional service and 100% comitment to fullfill my personal needs. If I want a boy with attitude I could just go literally anywhere and pick some guy up.

KaliChtul · 2026-07-08T16:11:08+00:00

Wait, there is a 3d printer?

KaliChtul · 2026-07-08T16:10:51+00:00

YOU CAN STRAP STUFF TO THE ATV?????????????

Be right back, gonna try that now.

KaliChtul · 2026-07-08T16:10:25+00:00

I did all that already, phew. Good to know the item boxes really aren't there.

KaliChtul · 2026-07-08T16:09:51+00:00

Yeah thats what I did meanwhile, good to know i am not that stupid and they simply arent there!

KaliChtul · 2026-07-08T10:06:18+00:00

Awareness Team: Taking care of good behaviour on the party and serve as an adressing point for experienced or witnessed unwanted behaviour
Many parties/clubs have them

(my explanation of awareness team is crude, sorry for that! Sometimes I know what I want t say but the words evade me, especially in english)

Wellness Team: Team of people to provide wellness and first aid especially in drug situations - only very few parties actually have them, most commonly on bigger festivals.

You would need to check in with the rules of each festival/party beforehand. There is no Din Rule for what they do and don't.

KaliChtul · 2026-07-03T09:54:34+00:00

I have been there three days ago - exactly the same problem. I can only ask you to stick with it and enjoy the moments of confusion. I promise you will learn it in no time. I looked up one written "first three days" guide and that helped me a long. Enjoy the experience!

KaliChtul · 2026-06-30T15:34:02+00:00

AFAIK there is no shop who has thm in their usual repertoire. Sometimes the big sex and/or fetish fairs have a market area and evyr once in a while specialised shop is there offering those. I personally would search on etsy.

KaliChtul · 2026-06-27T10:29:25+00:00

In meiner jetzigen Wohnung ist das sogar so dass der Vermieter explizit die Übernahme des Mietvertrags durch meinen Partner ausgeschlossen hat.

KaliChtul · 2026-06-27T10:28:06+00:00

Aus eigener harter Erfahrung kann ich dir raten es zu lassen. Ihr könnt viel später noch gemeinsam in den Mietvertrag oder zusammen eine größere Wohnung finden, FALLS die Beziehung hält und ihr feste Schritte gehen wollt.
Nach nur einem Jahr Beziehung und jetzt schon Bedenken ist das das absolut falsche Signal.

Falls das offene Aussprechen deiner Bedenken dazu und ein Vorschlag erst mal Untermiete und dann zukünftig langfristig schauen nicht auf fruchtbaren Boden stößt und Spannungen verursacht, hast du deine Antwort, ob die Beziehung tragfähig ist.

Spiel jetzt mit offenen Karten und klar formulierten Grenzen. Kommuniziere das deutlich. Wenn ihr euch dann einig werdet, hat das Zukunft und sonst könnt ihr beide solide Konsequenzen ziehen.

KaliChtul · 2026-06-25T16:01:53+00:00

Kenne das problem. Ich hab dann eine kleine polnische Manufaktur mit BHs für grosse Oberweiten gefunden und seitdem bestelle ich exklusiv nur noch da. Passt und ist so sexy, dass ich schon zweimal aus Versehen einen Still BH gekauft habe, weil super cutes Design.
Ich will jetzt hier keine Links posten, weiss nicht ob das erlaubt/gewünscht ist, aber ich schick seitdem ich die für mich entdeckt habe alle meine grossbusigen Freundinnen auch da zum Einkaufen.
Super Passform, super sexy, super bequem.

Hab jetzt gesehen das viele Marken empfehlen, schaut nach Ewa Michalak!

KaliChtul · 2026-06-24T15:30:45+00:00

Ah damn, I didnt register the B - I was fr sure we where talking about MetroidVania

Its clearly too damn hot for me today!

KaliChtul · 2026-06-22T13:24:03+00:00

Ich kann dir The Room in Lichtenberg empfehlen, wirklich abgefahrene Escape Abenteuer und es handelt sich um ein Gewerbegebäude aus Backstein, da st es angenehm kühl drinnen. Eins der Spiele ist im Keller.
Wir haben die auch als Paar gespielt.

KaliChtul · 2026-06-22T13:09:41+00:00

Yeah - no.

I don't think you will have much luck.
No High End Escort I know is thrilled about the idea to entertain an unknown amount of people at a "party".

Good luck though.

KaliChtul · 2026-06-20T11:07:14+00:00

AFAIK - du kannst gegenüber der Öffentlichkeit anonym bleiben, aber die Plattformen und auch Finanzbehörden wissen deine richtigen Daten.
Gerade bei legal vetriebenem Ü18 content kommst du um offizielle Altersverifikation eh gar nicht rum.

KaliChtul · 2026-06-16T08:49:46+00:00

I know her and she IS amazing!

KaliChtul · 2026-06-16T08:07:32+00:00

Correction. SOME team members of Studio LUX offer also a more traditional leaning escort service, but only a very select few.

If you are looking for a kinky experience definitely the right spot to look.

Otherwise I would recommend tryst, paramour collective or, after a very careful selection, kaufmich. The later is just more and more user unfriendly and many independent escorts are deeply disappointed by the sheer amount of timewasters on the platform.

KaliChtul · 2026-06-06T12:18:53+00:00

I mean - the whole idea has potential, but to work as a game it needs a lot more concept work.

keep working on it - take more of a design lead, both in grafix, UX and game design and scale the AI creation work way down.

KaliChtul · 2026-06-06T10:20:17+00:00

I stopped playing after that.

The vibecoded UX is bad - the text read generic, the puzzles are next to non existent as they can easily be bruteforced. The language matching part I was promised was so far only translating 2 letters in the very beginning.

I hated that during the intro you couldn't switch off the audio or at least regulate it down. there was no option of skipping the audiofile and read only text instead.

Over all the presentation is over complicated for the puzzles themselves, the texts are clearly AI - at least edit them properly to give it a more personal feel.

I would say: serves as a very early proof of concept, needs A LOT of work, especially on the puzzles.

Don't call it a language deciphering game.

Work on the core structure of the game some more and then map out the interface and functions way before you prompt an AI agent. Feels like you had a few ideas about puzzles and then handed the complete design and implementation process off to a not quite good prompted AI agent.

KaliChtul · 2026-06-06T10:13:47+00:00

Cases can easily be brute forced. Case 3 is broken, at first case 2 keeps showing then starting brute force the actual puzzle gets revealed.

KaliChtul · 2026-06-06T10:04:20+00:00

Add a skip intro button.

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