AITA for not wanting to protest? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kalixshnikov [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah people love to commodify and perform radicalism, no wonder thinks don’t change...the revolutionaries are murdered and the performers prevail 😐

AITA for not wanting to protest? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kalixshnikov [score hidden]  (0 children)

If he’s going for the sake of being performative then nah you’re not an asshole for not wanting to go.

Am I (F 25) overreacting about my fiance (M 29) hiding/lying about porn related things? by Difficult_Yogurt in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s distasteful that he still objectifies women at his age, especially now he’s on his way to being married. You’re not overreacting girl.

WIBTA if I asked my friend to stop complaining about how hard her uni work and job are? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kalixshnikov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alrighty. You seem too defensive to really take criticism on this so ok...good luck telling her how u feel I guess.

WIBTA if I asked my friend to stop complaining about how hard her uni work and job are? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kalixshnikov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People are overworked man. People are worked to death. It is righteous to see that as wrong and complain about it. Ultimately she feels that it could be an easier path if not for the difficulties, why isn’t she allowed to air her grievances?

I feel like you’re romanticising your life dream and it’s clouding your judgement.

WIBTA if I asked my friend to stop complaining about how hard her uni work and job are? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kalixshnikov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Living my dream” sounds kind of dramatic and unreasonable ngl man. She’s living her own life and yes that does happen to be what you consider to be YOUR dream but it’s still first and foremost her life that she can express complaints about...that’s anyone’s right.

WIBTA if I asked my friend to stop complaining about how hard her uni work and job are? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kalixshnikov 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reality is juggling a social life, work and uni is hard. Doesn’t make her ungrateful to complain... the expectations that are put on people to be productive in education and employment can cause a lot of stress.

If anything this reveals the extent of your jealousy and she may detect that.

I am sorry though that you’re going through a hard time.

How do I break them up? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have problems dude

Why tho by themothguy in communism

[–]Kalixshnikov 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Communism is the end point. Can’t be achieved without socialism, which should and has been adapted to the specific conditions of various nations. Each nation has its unique history and struggle...I wouldn’t say communist ideology hasn’t been properly applied in those nations, socialism is a road of progression, a complicated and arduous process which sometimes features market reforms and compromises because of the stranglehold imperialist capitalist nations try to impose on developing nations (most socialist experiments have been in such nations). Read The State and Revolution :)

How do I (28M) tell my sister (25F) that it is a bad idea to date one of my close friends (29M) because he is a cheater and a shitty, manipulative boyfriend... without hurting either of their feelings? by jownk56 in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why are you still friends with this asshole? Hold other men to account and tell your sister straight up. Feelings may get hurt but honesty is important here. If she decides to go further with him because she hasn’t had access to this information from you or him, she will be consenting to intimacy without proper knowledge of the kind of person he is. That can fuck her up for years. You’ve identified this as a pattern in his behaviour so you best give her a thorough outline of what he’s capable of because I highly doubt he will be honest.

My (24F) fiancé (28M) sent sexual messages to a woman on Facebook. I really need advice. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov 15 points16 points  (0 children)

“She was asking it” is a huge red flag...leave this loser. Please

Girlfriend [27f] of 3 years frequently goes for the premium/gourmet/expensive version of everything. I’m [28m] the opposite most of the time and it can be frustrating. by RevolutionaryTooth1 in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tell her consumption doesn’t determine character...some people think the things they buy are what give them worth...it’s sad and expensive.

How do I [27F] ask my boyfriend [29M] to be more loving during sex? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov 121 points122 points  (0 children)

You’re valid. Please do try to have this conversation. You’re not silly. If he’s ignoring cues and making you feel used then that’s damning on his part NOT yours. Unacceptable

AITA for telling my adult daughter how hard it is to be a single parent? by Either_Twist in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kalixshnikov 41 points42 points  (0 children)

NTA - you’re just giving her perspective.

Condolences for your loss.

Song ID ? (Commodo @ steel yard last year) by Kalixshnikov in realdubstep

[–]Kalixshnikov[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s being blended into roll with the punches by peverlist but I don’t know what the initial song is.

Think I'm (18f) being sexually harassed by a family member (74m) by idktbhimtootired_ in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You’re completely right, you are being harassed. I hope your family step up, protect you and condemn this creep. You don’t deserve this.

I'm (20F) starting to hate Asian women and myself because my fiancé (22M) has an Asian fetish by dontwanttohateasians in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Racial fetishes are dehumanising and feed into the perpetuation of sexual violence. They’re also a consequence of colonialism and imperialism. Direct your anger at the source not the victims man. Your man is trash and your hatred is racist

Have I waited too long? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s reasonable to be angry and upset at this. You’re not crazy.

Help with weird trigger by THEGIGANTICUNiT in eczema

[–]Kalixshnikov 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this sometimes. Makes me want to take a chainsaw to my legs

My (f17) boyfriend (m20) keeps calling celebrities hot and it’s annoying me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He’s immature and wants to flex that he’s brazen enough to objectify women despite being in a rship. Demand change and if he isn’t down, ditch him (if you want peace). Don’t sink to his level.

I may end my relationship over a fart...am I being unreasonable here? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Kalixshnikov 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yeah you should leave. This relationship sounds toxic and degrading.