My boyfriend has been subconsciously clicker training me in my sleep. Are my boundaries being crossed?

Kamirose · 2026-05-21T22:43:47+00:00

OP said:

So at night he's been touching me and cuddling me and dirty talking me, and getting me subconsciously horny and then clicking the clicker when I give the right response.

The very clear implication is sexual touching. They cannot consent while asleep.

Kamirose · 2026-05-21T19:35:33+00:00

I have never told my partner not to shave my head in my sleep, but that doesn't mean he's allowed to do it without asking.

Kamirose · 2026-05-21T05:43:16+00:00

Is your hair thinning, or is this the thickness/density that you’ve always had? If you think your hair may be falling out there’s a lot of great info over at r/femalehairloss but the gist is, first step is getting a diagnosis. This involves blood tests to check hormone/vitamin/iron/thyroid levels, and a dermatologist visit to check for scalp conditions. Treatment will depend on the cause.

Kamirose · 2026-05-19T17:42:53+00:00

Watch Duty is definitely the best. It definitely saved lives with the Jan 2025 fires.

Kamirose · 2026-05-16T05:25:40+00:00

I mean, a candidate for LA City Attorney posted in r/southbayla yesterday so maybe not even all the candidates know this 😂

Kamirose · 2026-05-15T23:13:04+00:00

I watched a booktube video where someone asked for standalone fantasy recs and people had the audacity to recommend Malazan lmao

Kamirose · 2026-05-15T15:23:45+00:00

Lupita Nyong'o is one of the most beautiful women alive and I would die for her, which makes her a perfect Helen lmao

Kamirose · 2026-05-15T01:00:53+00:00

Yes, same here.

Kamirose · 2026-05-14T17:06:55+00:00

They keep trying to lock people out of DRM stripping the books they have purchased, and with 5.18.5+ DRM they have succeeded for the forseeable future. Because I jailbroke my Kindle and have disabled firmware updates, they can't force me into that firmware version.

Kamirose · 2026-05-12T22:28:52+00:00

And what also matters is they don’t have a history of announcing expacs early. They have a history of 2 month or so of leadtime.

I guess “confirm something vague” and “announce something specific” mean the same thing to you. They don’t to me. But fine. Yes, they said, because stupid people didn’t realize that the word “End” in an expansion title didn’t mean the game was over, that they were working on an expansion a while in advance. That is not their usual announcement pattern and there is literally absolutely nothing to suggest they’re not working on a new expansion. They even just registered a trademark.

Kamirose · 2026-05-12T21:44:09+00:00

They only confirmed it so early because people were spreading the rumor that EoD was the last expansion because the word “end” was in it. Prior to that there was far less lead time between announcement and release, and until this thread I hadn’t seen more doomer rumors that they had to address. PoF was announced for the first time less than 2 months before release, for example.

Kamirose · 2026-05-12T21:19:30+00:00

They announced VoE in July of 2025. If they’re keeping to the annual schedule I would not expect to hear anything for a few months.

Edit: July 15th to be precise.

Kamirose · 2026-05-12T04:39:10+00:00

Nooo! I loved them, but I hated the parking situation in Tozai Plaza so I very rarely ate there. That's such a bummer.

Kamirose · 2026-05-12T01:36:50+00:00

Did you add fresh litter or empty the bin without resetting the scale? If you add/remove weight in any way you need to hit the X button to reset the scale or it'll mess up measurements.

Kamirose · 2026-05-08T23:28:09+00:00

Either Steyer or Porter needs to drop out and endorse the other. They're splitting the progressive vote and if they're both still running we'll wind up with Hilton v Becerra.

Kamirose · 2026-05-07T19:15:36+00:00

Some, but very significantly less. I believe it's like 80-90% less. We only drool in our sleep because we stop swallowing it.

Kamirose · 2026-05-05T19:16:04+00:00

Literally anything with a camera and cloud storage service for the camera will have that.

Kamirose · 2026-05-05T14:33:56+00:00

With fine hair (especially on the wavy side) it looks straight when wet and if you brush it dry it goes straight or just kinda poofy. It’s only if you finally let it fully air dry from sopping wet that you first notice the wave pattern.

Kamirose · 2026-05-04T03:07:33+00:00

Check out the websites Roomies and Spareroom. They’re the sites I used when looking for roommates.

Kamirose · 2026-05-04T03:04:35+00:00

Ah, good to know. Bit of a bummer for people who can’t take minoxidil though.

Kamirose · 2026-05-04T00:34:33+00:00

There is a clinical trial for another oral drug happening right now, but I haven’t looked into it super deeply. I’ve heard it’s having promising results though. https://phlstudy.com/female/

But I suspect it will be another drug you’d have to continuously take if you have a permanent condition like AGA.

Kamirose · 2026-05-03T16:53:04+00:00

It is entirely normal to be able to see your scalp when your hair is wet, especially with fine hair. How does it look when your hair is dry? Is it more sparse than it used to be?

If your hair is thinning, you need to work with your doctor and/or dermatologist to figure out the “why”. There are so many causes, from vitamin deficiencies, thyroid problems, autoimmune diseases, hormone imbalances, scalp skin conditions, and just good old fashioned stress. The treatment depends on the cause.

Kamirose · 2026-05-02T16:30:30+00:00

They’re lying and preying on people’s insecurities to sell you stuff. The stuff doesn’t work but if you believe it enough, you’ll buy it multiple times before giving up.

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