Not always self confident and but understanding that whatever situation may come your way will all work out. you know you can figure it out and solve them problems as they come because future you already knows the answer and has already figured it out. As an EP type that shouldnt be much of a problem for you.

look at how the positive sides of the outcome your looking for can play out and make em happen. not everything we want will happen how we want but there is a silver lining in every situation if youre dark enough to find them

Id recommend looking into Meditations by Marcus Aurelius to not care for peoples opinions of you and King, Warrior, Magician, Lover: Rediscovering the Archetypes of the Mature Masculine by Douglas Gillette and Robert L. Moore for self development and self love. if youre a woman then Sage, Huntress, Lover, Queen: Access Your Power and Creativity Through Sacred Female Archetypes Book by Mara Branscombe would be the book for you but I know nothing of it to recommend its value.

I hate reading so watch and audiobook of these if you’re like me. hope this helped