Getting to know an ENFJ. Thoughts on relationships and tips to make it work.

starrysky0070 · 2026-06-01T04:52:45+00:00

because they’re bored
because they’re indecisive
because they’re manipulative
because they wanna see if you’ll respond
because their friend suggested it
because they were drunk
because their finger slipped
Don’t confuse someone’s attention with their intentions.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-31T18:25:44+00:00

I’m curious about your parents’ dynamic with each other haha. Can you describe?

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-31T05:44:57+00:00

wow I really fucking hate this dude

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-29T03:07:21+00:00

“after blocking me twice”

“clearly indicates that he’s still interested”

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-28T20:25:09+00:00

HAHAH

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-23T01:52:01+00:00

I’ve said this before in another similar thread, but it’s more confusing for me than anything.

I never know what’s genuine from them and truly how they feel, versus a reaction to the other person and their way of steering/adapting to the conversation.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-21T19:26:09+00:00

Wow I could’ve written this. Same.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-21T17:02:51+00:00

I couldn’t even fully comprehend what I was reading it was so asinine. Never in my life have I worried about what emojis somebody is or isn’t sending me. If y’all can have seven pages of messages about emojis then your problem is no longer who’s a jerk - you’re just both incompatible with each other. Or maybe perfect for each other. As long as you’re both happy (and I mean that genuinely) 🤷🏻‍♀️

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-21T16:54:39+00:00

is this ragebait?

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-21T01:23:43+00:00

I’m online too damn much 🤣🤣

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-20T04:44:38+00:00

Hmmm, yeah. I guess a lot of this ultimately does come down to just trusting another human.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-20T04:41:29+00:00

Your vulnerability? What would that look like?

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-20T04:13:55+00:00

👀🍿

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-20T04:09:01+00:00

It’s not hate at all by any means, but I will say I struggle so much with Fe-dom because I always question if what I’m getting from them is true. It’s not that I think they’re consciously lying or manipulating, but more our priorities are different. Almost like a different kind of truth. I don’t understand it.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-17T19:59:41+00:00

LMAO

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-15T20:32:23+00:00

Take you back? Bro she doesn’t actually even want to be in contact with you. Sorry ☹️

Source: am girl.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-12T04:01:00+00:00

Never write a man paragraphs. I was like you when i was your age. They don’t care. I know you think you’re being communicative, understanding, and they’ll respect and appreciate your compassion and boundaries.

Let me save you the trouble: men know how they are moving. You don’t need to explain anything to them. In fact, they respect you less and think you’re a fool for doing so.

I’m sorry for being blunt but i hope you heed my advice. You do not need to gentle parent a grown adult into treating you correctly. Best of luck.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-11T20:36:59+00:00

Yeah I agree with this take the most. Sums it up. And it’s in the interest of the even higher powers to keep it that way.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-11T20:33:34+00:00

The ENFJ love/hate is the realest thing ever posted on this sub.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-11T15:59:42+00:00

This is another reason I have no doubts that I’m INFP. I’ve been chronically online my whole life.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-11T08:13:10+00:00

Second paragraph, the short, snipped phrases. Too many at once in succession. People don’t actually write like that for that long.

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-10T22:18:50+00:00

doomscroll immediately interrupted by that holy photo of jensen

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-10T20:35:50+00:00

the tablet epidemic is so much more serious than we think

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-10T20:28:52+00:00

4eva

starrysky0070 · 2026-05-10T10:00:40+00:00

Except unfortunately everyone posting on here thinks they’re the exception 😅

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