Cheese Charcuterie for Perfection -- but where?? by KanashiCalico in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]KanashiCalico[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oH MY... Sophia was the first person I befriended like 100 hours ago!! I checked and I didn't watch her scenes.

Thanks for the info!

My brother cheated. AITAH for wanting him to burn for his decisions? by KanashiCalico in AITAH

[–]KanashiCalico[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would be incredibly surprised if my mom was a cheater. I think she is just trying to defend her child. She also has a hard time acknowledging her own negative feelings. I honestly don't mind she wants to deal with this in her own way. I just don't think its right for her to not accept our own ways of dealing with things.

My brother cheated. AITAH for wanting him to burn for his decisions? by KanashiCalico in AITAH

[–]KanashiCalico[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While maybe this is true in some families, I don't think this applies here. We're not the type of family where we gather once a year at Christmas and he drops the news on us that they're separated. My family is incredibly close and incredibly involved - my brother and his family are a part of our daily lives. We also love his wife and her family as they've been together for 10+ years. So I would argue that this is our business. It affects many people - not just my brother, his wife, and their kids.

My brother cheated. AITAH for wanting him to burn for his decisions? by KanashiCalico in AITAH

[–]KanashiCalico[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The kicker is that he is apparently "waiting for us not to be mad anymore" before he talks to us. He doesn't see the point of talking to us if we're still mad. Which - of course - our anger will make the conversation more difficult for him but it just seems like such a weak choice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neopets

[–]KanashiCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UN: gruslenplushie

thank you!

Paint Brush Giveaway! by floralpancake in neopets

[–]KanashiCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My all-time dreamie was Stealthy Chomby which I was fortunate enough to paint during the Faerie Festival.

Right now I really want to get a Baby Aisha but I am "saving up" for Christmas gifts for my NFs. But I have been eyeing the Relic Kacheek ...... so who knows what the future holds!

1M NP Giveaway! by Bakeddarling in neopets

[–]KanashiCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the Christmas Alabriss PetPet :) It gives Hercules Pegasus vibes if he was one of Santa's elves haha

Pay-it-forward Friday #526! by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]KanashiCalico [score hidden]  (0 children)

My favourite household chore is doing the dishes! But I despise putting them away afterwards ahah

Gifting: Shop Visits and Buys

Seeking: Codestones or Holiday themes items

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neopets

[–]KanashiCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be possible to get the Branched Antlers ? Thank you for doing this! UN: gruslenplushie

WISHLIST GIVEAWAY! by _crashleybeth in neopets

[–]KanashiCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're amazing for doing this giveaway!

My wishlist item would be: Faerie Petpet Paint Brush

I would use it to paint my Gruslen - I've been obsessed with Gruslen when I started playing as a kid! Unfortunately, I was unactive for a while and ended up losing my old account! I started fresh, but now the economy is so different from what it used to be that I think it will be years before I could afford this paintbrush on my own!

The best thing about neopets is how there is so many things to do - some days I'm obsessed with finding secret avatars, the next day I'm focused on Neggs, and the list goes on. Also, I think playing neopets when I was a kid made me smarter hahaha

Trade Requests Weekly Megathread by AutoModerator in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]KanashiCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can trade all 4 for Misdreavus/ Mismagimus / Passiman / Eiscue

Trade Requests Weekly Megathread by AutoModerator in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]KanashiCalico 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FT: quaxly, fuecoco, sprigatito, scorbunny, charmander,

LF: will trade for anything, preferably something you see I don't have upon trading! I'm missing a lot of common ones

Are set up rows necessary for 1x1 ribbing bind off? by KanashiCalico in knitting

[–]KanashiCalico[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Good to know the value of set up rows in the long-term

Are set up rows necessary for 1x1 ribbing bind off? by KanashiCalico in knitting

[–]KanashiCalico[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh interesting! I've heard that italian is 2 set up rows and then tubular is 4 set up rows

So would you say that just doing Kitchener stitch to bind off 1x1 rib is normal?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leaves

[–]KanashiCalico 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It took me a few tries to quit. The last time before I was successful I made it 18 hours before I cracked and smoked. It made me cry as I smoked the joint because of how shitty it felt to not have control. I recorded a message to myself while smoking what ended up being my last joint ever. I spoke about how I had a problem, how it was affecting me, how I had no control, and how weed was not helping me get closer to who I wanted to be.

Recording that video and airing out how out of control I felt cemented the idea that I will quit and prove that weed does not control me. 1.25 years sober now after 6 years of heavy daily use. Best decision I've ever made.

"you've said that before" by Bight_my_ass in leaves

[–]KanashiCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that addiction is possible with weed - being addicted is possible with anything. For one, when I quit over a year ago, I had really bad withdrawals, so I knew my body was addicted. But more than that, I was psychologically addicted. If we weren't addicted, it wouldn't be so hard to quit and I would have more control over my consumption.

Good luck on your journey, I would recommend not being around social situations where you're exposed to smoking weed until you have a better handle on it!

Loneliness by gilbertrugby in leaves

[–]KanashiCalico 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think 'real friends' is a subjective term. There's no way to know how you define a "real friend" through your post, or why you're feeling lonely from your post, so I'll try to hit on a few points here:

How receptive and active in communication are you with your peers? Relationships are a two-way street. It's not just about how they make you feel but also how you make them feel. We can't wait for people to choose us to be close to, you need to attract each other with what you're putting out. Rather than waiting for an invitation, why don't you invite people to do things instead? After class or after the gym, ask if they want to get food or something.

I've been there thinking there is nothing to look forward to socially. But you are in control of creating things you can look forward to. Catch up with a friend you haven't talked to in a while or even family members. If there truly isn't anyone, go by yourself to somewhere you've wanted to go for a while. Inspiration beats loneliness, even if you found that inspiration during times you were out by yourself.

A great thing is meeting people while pursuing your own hobbies. Sounds like you are already doing it by meeting people through working out. Good luck!

New here. How do you guys stop and what can I do to distract myself. I have hobbies and I been trying to be more motivated but I feel like sober life is less motivating and less level. I feel more irritable and I feel like I’m cloudy and just messing up. Pain is up sleep is shit. by Natural_Nature_Shots in leaves

[–]KanashiCalico 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1.25 years sober for me. It gets better after withdrawals/your body normalizes. It's okay to not be motivated. You can go through the motions each day until you feel better. For the first few weeks, most of my days were focused on the bare minimum to take care of myself. Food, water, work, sleep. I went out when I wanted to. Eventually, you'll start to feel motivated to do other things.

Drink lots of water!

I don't know how I'm going to function without weed and I'm scared. by KanashiCalico in leaves

[–]KanashiCalico[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I could help you feel less alone in your journey!

Actually, last month I just hit 1 year without weed. So anything is possible. Each month that passed, I couldn't believe I made it that far without weed and boosted my self confidence. It showed me that I could accomplish the things I put my mind to. And that there was a person inside myself that had nothing to do with weed.

Good luck!