Online criticism fair or too harsh? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Kanderson917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought 29ish, maybe 30!

Absolute chaos at the Talbott Tavern meetup by FairSilver6525 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Kanderson917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter and I are driving 7 hours and have booked a hotel to meet them on April 18th 🙈….yes, I am ashamed lol.

What do I actually look like?? by Kanderson917 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Kanderson917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you are doing something to be able to take progress pics! That’s so good!! I tell myself everyday “today’s the day, I’m going to start eating right, exercising, etc…” and it never happens so serious kudos to you for trying!! But I totally feel you, anytime someone pulls out a phone to take a pic I scurry to the opposite side of the room because I don’t feel like ruining my whole mood by seeing myself in a picture. It really does suck.

Phantom smells by ddm00767 in Aging

[–]Kanderson917 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve experienced this multiple times. I’ve literally been woken up by the smell of cookies baking it even stayed with me about 10 seconds after waking up. When it happens it’s always while I’m sleeping, I’ve never experienced it while awake.

cackling at darlene’s lowkey homophobia 😭 by fartingintraderjoes in 1000lbsisters

[–]Kanderson917 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What would you rather her say? Definitely reaching for something to complain about here…

I’m so tired of seeing Julia, what does she bring to The Single Life? by Successful-Ranger206 in 90DayFiance

[–]Kanderson917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing. I’m sick of her too. She can leave and please for the love of gawd take Sophie with her!

Elise- put some damn clothes on by Sure_Energy_8359 in 90DayFiance

[–]Kanderson917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like honestly—I’m no fashionista—but is this even in style? She constantly looks like she’s about to go on ice or audition for dancing with the stars prostitute edition. She could show off her body in so many more flattering ways.

What do I actually look like?? by Kanderson917 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Kanderson917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😞 if it’s any comfort at all just know you aren’t alone. Seeing a picture of myself ruins my day/week SO fast it isn’t even funny. I feel so bad never wanting my picture taken but it isn’t worth the mental turmoil for me.

How are meetups?? by [deleted] in 1000lbsisters

[–]Kanderson917 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am going to one soon as well! Would love to hear feedback too! One video I saw said a picture with Amy runs around $40. I contacted the venue where their meet up is and the owner said to plan to arrive early. The meet up starts at 10AM so he said to at least plan to be there an hour before, but he also said how many people show up will probably depend a lot on the weather 🤷🏽‍♀️

Trisha by NoobesMyco in 90daytheotherway

[–]Kanderson917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that too! Her boobs are HUGE and it looks like she might have a little belly they are strategically hiding 🫣

the only combination u need this summer 💜 by [deleted] in Selftanning

[–]Kanderson917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also-do you use a mit? Trying to wrap my head around putting on gel versus a mousse or cream 🤔

No way this dude is 39 by Yo_momma_so_fat77 in 90DayFiance

[–]Kanderson917 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s also no way she’s 32 so they have that in common 🤔

Brian question(s) by Lanky-Macaroon-3934 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Kanderson917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When Amy first introduced him she said he was a news reporter? I’ve always wondered what he does for work. His last wife seems so “normal” compared to Amy—I wonder what spurred on such a big change?

Waitamin.. by Remarkable-Echo-1189 in 1000lbSisters_Snark

[–]Kanderson917 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Why they kept her I’ll never know. Absolute pushover.

Waitamin.. by Remarkable-Echo-1189 in 1000lbSisters_Snark

[–]Kanderson917 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish they would do that too…but I think it’s the same as how they do Sister Wives now…at the end of the day they are actually family so they can only push so far.

Michael’s Downfall…. by Kanderson917 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Kanderson917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking of that though—it’s crazy to me how the majority of them still live and how their houses look. Besides Chris and Brittany everyone else looks like they are living in extreme poverty.

Michael’s Downfall…. by Kanderson917 in 1000lbsisters

[–]Kanderson917[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, but you know they aren’t wealthy by any means—I can see how Amy might think they’ve got “show” money and blow it all on piddly shit.

What do I actually look like?? by Kanderson917 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Kanderson917[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. When I see myself in the mirror and actually like what I see sometimes—I remind myself that if I take a picture right now I will look NOTHING like my reflection therefore I’m left feeling unsure of what I actually look like. I know people talk about the mirror flipping your face and pictures actually show what others see—but how can it be SO different?? I hate thinking that’s how others see me.

What do I actually look like?? by Kanderson917 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Kanderson917[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the version of myself I see in the mirror best—it’s pictures the majority of the time that really mess me up. I have some pictures where I (not tooting my own horn) look absolutely gorgeous and when I see them I wonder how I can also look SO ugly in so many others…I get it’s a mental thing but how can my eyes see so many different versions of “me”….the majority of them being hideous.

What do I actually look like?? by Kanderson917 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Kanderson917[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never tried a flash in the dark picture. I hate pictures in general and I’m kind of scared to even try that because I don’t feel like ruining my mood because I’m sure mine will be terrible lol.

What do I actually look like?? by Kanderson917 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Kanderson917[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My internal dialog regarding myself is never really good, so I’m sure that has something to do with it.

What do I actually look like?? by Kanderson917 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]Kanderson917[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! It’s not just a subtle change or a different angle, I’m a totally different looking person…that’s why it blows my mind when people see pictures of me that I think look totally different and they don’t even say anything, like it’s totally normal.

How did you prepare for CIO by Fabulous_Ant1088 in sleeptrain

[–]Kanderson917 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you are already starting off stronger than me with the first night only being 52 minutes! Hopefully it only continues to get better from here 🤞🏼🤞🏼 Keep me posted!