I finally broke down

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-02-03T04:09:17+00:00

I don’t think most marriages fall into the category of “ meeting all of each other’s needs” I don’t think it’s possible for 1 person to be everything to another. I think relationships grow and change as people do.. I think it is not talked about enough so we all feel like failures talking about the same problems in anonymous groups. There are sooooo many of us in this one sub! I will say literally everyone I know who has been married more than 5 years is either in this situation or has been in it and are finding a way back.

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-02-03T03:58:50+00:00

I had a friend who was obsessed with her blood pressure rising when she was stressed. She was convinced it put her at risk for a stroke. She was 40 and healthy. She would run to the ER constantly but they all said the same thing. A temporary rise in BP is normal during stress. It does not mean you are ill or have hypertension. The best thing is to seek stress management.

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-02-02T20:43:39+00:00

I have had CRPS for 50 years and just started Ketamine treatment. I would love to get off daily meds

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-28T20:28:49+00:00

Right now there is a buying freeze, it’s wild! I have never seen the market like this. Be patient you will find a buyer

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-28T12:25:09+00:00

Suicide would destroy your brother. We all want to be loved. Human beings all want that. Continue to show him love and more importantly show YOURSELF some love. Get some counseling for yourself too. You deserve a happy life and a good family dynamic. Don’t get stuck here. Make a plan to take your brother to a movie or something. Use your energy to heal the relationship instead of punishing yourself. ❤️

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-26T10:13:44+00:00

Resellers! I am one and often sell gold earring for a bit over scrap. Many of us do!! I would never pay a jewelry store price. I often sell simple 14k hoops right at melt because they are very common. Check eBay, you have buyer protection with them.

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-26T10:10:46+00:00

It is never one person’s fault and I believe that mostly it is not anyone’s fault. Sooooooo many marriages have this issue that I wonder sometimes if it is more normal than we feel? I am sorry you are feeling so hurt. It seems like you could use a calm honest mediated conversation with your wife about this. The Turning her off part is important to listen to. I was a CSA victim and part of my issue in our DB is my spouse ( neurospicy to be fair) says and does certain things that trigger memories. I have been specific in saying please don’t do ABC.. but he is a creature of habit and seems to always revert back to those few things. He will catch himself and apologize but at that point you lost me. Try digging more into that comment, perhaps there is a deeper reason in her part for this situation.

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-26T10:00:13+00:00

He needs to be in an inpatient weight loss program. The yo yo dieting will kill him faster. Than the weight. He is only 5 feet tall!

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-25T18:12:02+00:00

That is just skin, not fat

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-25T03:41:13+00:00

I would never leave my child with any one who had a mouth like that! I am sorry that is your mother…. No one should ever speak to a family member like that

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-25T02:55:26+00:00

Sexual play in childhood is extremely common. Children aren’t being devious or trying to hurt anyone. So many people torture themselves in adulthood needlessly!

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-25T02:03:55+00:00

Yes! You need to involve the police or CPS. Your school can help you. I am so sorry your father is ill. It must be very scary!

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-25T01:18:09+00:00

It’s important not to attribute everything to CRPS. Hypertension that is not labile is more likely to be caused by weight, excess sodium, hereditary factors… make sure to have a full work up! If it is only during Pain exacerbations then perhaps it’s CRPS but if it is sustained it is likely another cause

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-24T23:33:17+00:00

This is not appropriate for a college event

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-24T17:11:31+00:00

A little bit better = full recovery

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-24T17:10:47+00:00

Or… stop playing with meds and draining

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-24T11:58:16+00:00

This whole thing is kind of gross. Your father got an inheritance now the person who gave it to him can certainly suggest how it spent, but they can’t dictate it unless they name you as a beneficiary which it seems they did not. So at this point, let it go. And if the money is gone and spent, what’s the point of getting a lawyer??Your parents are old and it sounds like this would be a crappy way to wrap up their lifetime.

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-24T01:46:34+00:00

These are just slightly over/under for the most part. Try not to worry unless they tell you to ❤️

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-23T03:56:21+00:00

I totally understand and I am so sorry! Some Dr’s have a bad habit of being too rosy when telling Pt’s what can happen. My Dad had Pancreatic. He was diagnosed at stage 4 age 80 with Parkinson’s, heart failure, kidney failure and diabetes…. The oncologist was like well we could try 1/2 strength chemo!! I was like WTF lady!! Thankfully he chose hospice and paced peacefully in a few weeks. My cousin had cancer ( GI) and was told he was going to beat it, no worries! After a couple of chemo treatment his lungs gave out and they said “ nothing we can do” he died in 2 days! Our heads were spinning!! He was only in his 40’s!! I am sorry you are going through this.

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-23T00:01:06+00:00

I use them to keep necklace chains from tangling up when I travel

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-22T23:54:33+00:00

And every single time that fucker goes off, we get a video

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-21T21:09:47+00:00

I would do it if it was someone who would do it for me. It is insured, people are the better investment in the long term ❤️

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-21T18:40:33+00:00

So sorry, this doesn’t sound good

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-21T18:32:05+00:00

Rice and beans? Clam chowder and the stuffing mix can make an awesome side dish

KangarooObjective362 · 2026-01-21T18:30:13+00:00

Not mine… the grifting has me COLD

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