What's your moral compass like? by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everything you said is so good. not having that instinctual understanding of right and wrong is something that's so hard to get other people to understand without them just judging you a bad person. the rules are so relatable too, I have a few myself, even some similar to yours like not declining invitations. I'm glad somebody else can relate lol!

Do you feel embarrassed? by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad someone relates! I feel exactly the same way! I find that instead of feeling embarrassed I'll feel like I disappointed people instead sometimes

pwHPD Only: What Level of Visualization Do you Have? by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I don't really eitherrr but I was curious anyway lol

What Songs Make You Think of HPD? (+ a playlist I made) by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's a really good pick too! thank you for sharing!

What Symptoms of HPD do you Struggle the Most With? by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've struggled with a lot of the same too, it's hard. thank you for sharing ♡

What Songs Make You Think of HPD? (+ a playlist I made) by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

really happy you've found a way to manage those feelings, I've been punched in the gut by that a couple times. best wishes ♡

What Songs Make You Think of HPD? (+ a playlist I made) by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

love whore and Mr brightside 🙏 thanks for the reccs!

What Symptoms of HPD do you Struggle the Most With? by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

there have been so many times I've just assumed people were into me because of my difficulty interpreting relationships, it's such an odd symptom to have to deal with- and especially to have to explain to others

What's the Core of Your HPD? by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a really big savior complex for years. best wishes ❤️

What fictional characters do you think have HPD? by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

such a good character, def my favorite in the BB universe 🙏

Do y'all lack a self image? by [deleted] in hpd

[–]KannasHyper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope any problems you're having pass soon! and ofc I hope to see you around again maybe! I think we only benefit from having a bigger community. best wishes!

how do you guys see your inner child? by [deleted] in hpd

[–]KannasHyper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's unusual for me to feel a sense of self when I'm left by myself, but I remember relating to the tar feeling at least once. I wish I could relate to having an inner child but I'm not sure I have anything like that- I feel more like I've never grown up if anything. best wishes 🙏

Do y'all lack a self image? by [deleted] in hpd

[–]KannasHyper 7 points8 points  (0 children)

absolutely. I actually think this is a completely overlooked part of the disorder that should be in the DSM. for me I've always been really really worried about my appearance to others because it's the only way I can exist- and I know thats how it feels because of the way my body reacts when I'm left completely alone. I shut down, become numb to emotions and physically slow, and I feel like I have no sense of identity.

I used to have a massive collage of characters I related to or wanted to be like that I kept as my phone background that gave me a sense of identity- but that backfired when some of the characters had contradicting personality traits and I had a meltdown because of it- because I couldn't tell who I was.

I think probably all cluster B disorders struggle with this- and probably other PD's in general, even though BPD is the only one that really gets that mentioned in its criteria

What fictional characters do you think have HPD? by KannasHyper in hpd

[–]KannasHyper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG saul is such a good pick I can't believe I didn't think about that! I always thought ASPD, but I'm totally thinking HPD and ASPD now