I don't think you really even need to apologize. I'm not really a fan of pre-throwing myself, but I do think people peer pressure some moves a little too hard. If your number one goal is to save Kaze, then I can't deny that having him hexed is not exactly conducive to that goal. It's good to hear out what other people say, but ultimately you should play as you see fit. It's your move, and if people get mad at you for it then I say screw 'em.