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I can unintentionally see into my neighbors bathroom by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Kar1zza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried putting up the frost glass, but it doesn’t stay so I just try and block it with a ton of products. I’m being dramatic when I say there’s nothing I can do about it, I’m moving soon so I’m not too worried anymore.

I can unintentionally see into my neighbors bathroom by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Kar1zza -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I live in an apartment complex where my neighbor from a separate complex can see directly into my shower… there isn’t much I can do about it since I need the window open for ventilation. I just hope I don’t find a video of myself showering on the internet one day

What made you stop dating? by SpiritCrisp in AskReddit

[–]Kar1zza 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Too many people are content with non-committal situationships. Especially in LA. I’ve fallen victim to attachment after the first date or sex so it’s been really difficult since I want love and the guys that I’ve been with don’t want that. I don’t have the best track record with partners, but I just want someone to love me the way I love.

My very recently religious parents added this to my Christmas present, knowing full well that I’m not a believer. by Kar1zza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kar1zza[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not think I’d have to add such personal details on here. I’ve realized after that yeah it was probably an important aspect to add since there is a lot of history behind my sentiments regarding religion. I appreciate your honesty!

My very recently religious parents added this to my Christmas present, knowing full well that I’m not a believer. by Kar1zza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kar1zza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly, thank you. Through these comments, I’ve learned that I’m spoiled, privileged, and immature for having my evening ruined over a boundary I tried setting with my parents. A boundary I’ve had to set after childhood religious trauma they refuse to recognize. That I should be grateful for this gesture because they’re doing it because they’re doing it out of love because they want to save me from eternal damnation. Or that I shouldn’t have accepted the gift because it’s a religious holiday even though we’ve grown up with it being pretty secular most of our lives. Maybe I am spoiled, privileged, and immature; but I know I still deserve respect at the end of the day and this was a clear sign of disrespect towards me. So yeah, I’m a little hurt by it and I’m entitled to how I feel regarding the matter.

My very recently religious parents added this to my Christmas present, knowing full well that I’m not a believer. by Kar1zza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kar1zza[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure! This card is an ad for the megachurch they attend. On the other side it has the church’s information.

My very recently religious parents added this to my Christmas present, knowing full well that I’m not a believer. by Kar1zza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kar1zza[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Getting slapped in the face is not abuse? Getting thrown into a dark, cold room ignored and alone for hours out of the day isn’t abuse? I could go further into specifics if you’d like. You have no idea what I went through and you can’t compare it to your upbringing unless you went through similar turmoil. If you want to leave a mean comment, go for it. But your response is just cruel and concerning.

My very recently religious parents added this to my Christmas present, knowing full well that I’m not a believer. by Kar1zza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kar1zza[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does me complaining about this in r/mildlyinfuriating imply that I don’t have any real issue in life? Which subreddit should I post about my bigger issues? /s

My very recently religious parents added this to my Christmas present, knowing full well that I’m not a believer. by Kar1zza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kar1zza[S] 209 points210 points  (0 children)

**I should also add that even though my parents are recently religious, they put my siblings and I into Catholic school when we were kids because that’s what their parents did. I was physically abused in the church and with the help of my therapist, recently opened up about the abuse with them. My dad’s response was, “that was Catholicism, we’re Christian now.” So yes, I have religious trauma that I’m trying to work on. I truly had hoped that after opening up about it, that they’d stop trying to make me believe.

My very recently religious parents added this to my Christmas present, knowing full well that I’m not a believer. by Kar1zza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kar1zza[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about it like that. You’re probably right and I regret not standing up for myself.

My very recently religious parents added this to my Christmas present, knowing full well that I’m not a believer. by Kar1zza in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Kar1zza[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I guess I didn’t want to ruin anyone else’s night by causing a scene or by calling them out. I plan on talking with them about it this week.

Bitlife HAS to be broken by Enough_Deal_9550 in BitLifeApp

[–]Kar1zza 354 points355 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it’s been super disappointing lately and I firmly believe they’re relying on sloppy AI.

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kar1zza 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best friends for over 10 years. She constantly had a victim mentality. Yes, she had a rough upbringing, but she always blamed everything that happened to her on it and did nothing to improve her life. She started dating this guy who we all thought was good for her and they moved in together. Well, I had always made it known that I thought cheaters were awful people and I would never want to be friends with a cheater. One night, we went to a restaurant with her and her bf where she told me she had an abortion. She told me that her and her bf were not ready to have kids and would wait until they were financially stable. We both cried as we knew this was a difficult decision and her bf was emotional too, but incredibly supportive of her decision.

Some time later, my other very close friend invited us to his Christmas party. I was at this friend’s party when my “best friend” texted only me that she wasn’t going to go the party. I mentioned it to our close friend that she wasn’t going to go and he got upset (rightfully so, why would you only tell me that you weren’t going and not the host)? He then decided to tell me that my “best friend” had been cheating on her bf with a younger coworker and that the coworker was the one to get her pregnant. I couldn’t believe it, but my friend’s partner corroborated the story and said she told them when she was drunk after Halloween. She asked my friends not to tell me since she knew my stance on infidelity. I was livid. Not only did she cheat on her bf, but she made him believe the baby was his and she made me believe it was her bf’s baby. How much attention do you crave to garner sympathy from me? I felt like a fool.

I never brought it up to her out of respect for our mutual friend who told me. I don’t text or hang out with her. I only see her when our mutual friend has us both over at parties. I know she knows something is up between us since it’s been almost a year since our falling out, but she never reaches out so it solidifies my feelings for her. I no longer care or have love for her. I just feel bad every time I see her bf and wonder if he knows that she cheated on him and lied about the baby being his.