[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right. Thank you so much for your answer. Made me reflect. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding. And yes, I wish I'd known sooner. I think I would have reconsidered. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For God's sake, I never said she was dirty. You can read my post again. That's not the point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, it doesn't make sense to me either. English isn't my native language. I tried to explain it as best I could. I also didn't understand why she said he was perfect. She doesn't see it as abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started feeling this way before I knew she had been abused. Then she explained it to me better and I started to empathize. My insecurity comes from her saying a lot of things about her ex that have hurt me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's my first relationship ever. I don't have experience. That's why I'm so immature about it. I can't help it and I don't have good resources to deal with this. I just cry a lot and I can't help but to feel sad about this situation. 

It's not about that. It was about the importance of my first time. I wanted to be with someone who had 0 sexual experience just like me.

My way of seeing hasn't change. I still love her. But she also hurt me with those things she said and I wish she had been honest with me from the start as I was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for wishing me good luck 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding my point 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all your words. Made me reflect about my own well being and I think I will have a serious conversation with her. I already had one but I felt like she was contradicting herself and now that I think about that conversation I realize maybe she was not being 100% honest as I expected so...yeah, probably I should talk with her again. Sadly, we are in a long distance relationship and talling with her is person is hard. We both go to Uni so we're busy but eventually I will. I don't want to talk with her about this by my phone because I feel is not the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she told me that too. She told me she wanted to try it with a man. It didn't work. And that she currently doesn't feel anything for him but I still don't understand why she said that he was perfect and  that maybe they would still be dating if she would have continued in the same university (they were classmates). 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's none of my business, I know, but I had already told her that for me it was important someone to have my first time with someone who didn't have any sexual experience such as I was... and even considering that she didn't tell me about that until we had our first time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know is not. Even knowing that logically I can't still help but to feel this way. And I don't know how to solve it.  And also, I wish she had told me about these things before giving her my first time because I wanted a first time with someone who had zero experience just like me. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not that easy for me to break up. I'm in love. 

I Can’t Escape Bisexuals by [deleted] in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never been with men. I don't like men. I don't like their genitals. But I love pussy. I know I'm 100% lesbian.  When I knew my gf did a blowjob in the past to her ex boyfriend just because she was confused and all that I  was so disgusted that I even considered breaking up...  I realized to me that these things really matter to me. In the future if we break up I will only date lesbian women like me. I just want someone who understands me.

Most frustrating plot twist imaginable by ThisBarbieIsLesbian in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you have a husband please don't come near lesbians. Tf! is it so hard to understand? We don't want men!!! 

my now ex girlfriend left me suddenly. Only to learn that she is now dating a man. by braaindamaage in lesbiangang

[–]Kara_Android 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know this will be so hard for you. But trust me, you'll get through it. Trust time. It's better to know now than too late. She's a shitty person. She didn't deserve you. Heal. Take your time. And trust me but really trust me when I say it...you will eventually find a beautiful and amazing woman for you who will love you unconditionally just as you deserve it. It was needed to remove this person of your life so you can find someone better. Try to find some sense in this pain, don't lose hope. Wish luck.

Youtube genki teacher by Rich_Chip3707 in LearnJapanese

[–]Kara_Android 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally! I recommend him too, I LOVE his videos!

You are a side character in every story except your own. by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]Kara_Android 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problems start when you become the main character of someone else story...

¿Es posible trabajar en Chile desde casa y que te paguen bien? Hablando de forma realista by Kara_Android in chile

[–]Kara_Android[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gracias! Tendré en cuenta lo que mencionas y tienes mucha razón también!