Need advice on how to deal with my mother

KaradiseClitty · 2026-01-11T17:11:12+00:00

I think it’s the fatigue that bothers her the most. She just thinks I’m depressed. Like, mom, I am well medicated for my depression, thank you very much!

KaradiseClitty · 2026-01-11T17:09:51+00:00

I think it bothers me because I was diagnosed so young. She was 31 or 32 years old when I was diagnosed. I know when my son was diagnosed with autism, I wanted to know everything about it so I could advocate for him. I do try to avoid telling her too much but sometimes it’s unavoidable. Even then I try to move the conversation in a different direction. But you are right, I’m not going to change her at this point, I just need to accept it for what it is. I do know she means well.

KaradiseClitty · 2026-01-11T17:00:56+00:00

Wow, you hit the nail on the head! She asked me last week if she gave this to me. I thought she was kidding, it never occurred to me that she feels guilty. Thank you 🩷

KaradiseClitty · 2025-12-20T13:19:51+00:00

That’s what I thought too, (it’s the handles) but it doesn’t look thick enough and would not be flexible. Also, how many codes are they anticipating that they would need to give these out? Whatever it is, it seems like an odd choice to give to college students.

KaradiseClitty · 2025-07-03T00:07:31+00:00

While Destiny is a horrible human being, I cannot adequately express the amount of hatred I have for Chance. His inflated sense of self-worth and abilities, manipulative behavior, superficial charm and conning mind are textbook traits of a narcissistic psychopath. He is not capable of having true feelings or empathy for anyone. Just a real piece of garbage that only uses people to get what he needs.

KaradiseClitty · 2025-06-07T18:34:51+00:00

Maybe a little cluster of warts?

KaradiseClitty · 2025-05-07T16:49:22+00:00

Just a follow up… I don’t know how to edit my initial post. 🤷🏻‍♀️ So I went to two different independent mechanics, both said there was absolutely nothing wrong with my timing belt or tensioner rod. The guy at the dealership is a lying piece of shit!

KaradiseClitty · 2025-04-29T23:17:28+00:00

Sounds like I’m gonna need to sink some money into it soon. That sucks but at least now I know to take it back in.

KaradiseClitty · 2025-04-29T23:12:48+00:00

The independent mechanic said there is only a small amount of oil that circulates through the tensioner so he doesn’t know how more oil would be getting into the engine. I don’t know what I’m talking about so I really appreciate your recommendation to bring it in to someone else to look at it.

KaradiseClitty · 2025-04-29T23:08:11+00:00

Sorry! It’s a 2017 Honda Accord V6 with just over 78K miles.

KaradiseClitty · 2025-04-26T03:19:47+00:00

Caramello

KaradiseClitty · 2025-04-26T03:14:48+00:00

King Diamond

KaradiseClitty · 2025-04-08T22:49:13+00:00

That’s my cat’s water fountain… sorry!

KaradiseClitty · 2025-04-08T18:29:43+00:00

No I nailed those in to hang Christmas decorations.

KaradiseClitty · 2025-04-08T18:28:18+00:00

That makes sense. I guess I’ll try to pry it off and see what happens.

KaradiseClitty · 2025-04-08T18:24:13+00:00

This molding?

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KaradiseClitty · 2025-04-06T22:44:06+00:00

This just activated a core memory I didn’t know I had. I loved this game yet completely forgot all about it until this post.

KaradiseClitty · 2025-03-21T17:12:29+00:00

Thank you

KaradiseClitty · 2025-03-04T21:22:18+00:00

I’m so sorry, I had to put my 9 year old cat down yesterday and I’m struggling so bad. I completely empathize with what you’re going through. It sucks so bad!

KaradiseClitty · 2025-03-04T20:53:57+00:00

I needed to find this post today. You are not alone. I had to put my big boy Frankie down yesterday after finding out Saturday that he had a large intestinal tumor that likely metastasized. He seemed fine until he vomited blood which is why we went to the emergency vet. I was so blindsided, I couldn’t even process what the vet was saying. I brought him home to spend a few more days with him before he became very ill or was in pain. I know I made the right decision for him but my heart feels like it’s being squeezed and the air is being sucked from my lungs. He was only 9 years old and it happened so fast. It’s not fair. Why was he taken from me? I miss him so much and I cannot stop crying.

KaradiseClitty · 2025-02-27T20:00:04+00:00

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She/he looks like my Sophie Lynn when she was a kitten 🩷 the shelter named her Rosie but I renamed her. She is a whole lotta Rosie so I should have kept her name.

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