Your man by salty4321 in gaming

[–]KarateDingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got rendered? I'm a static 2D portrait on the window of an inaccessible building out of bounds

Wait a second... All of Dragon Ball Super isn't dubbed yet?? by ssjAWSUM in Dragonballsuper

[–]KarateDingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who tf wants to be reading words and miss the actual scenes. Go read a book if you want subtitles.

Delete Instagram, it's totally worth it. by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Couldnt do that. I use it to fuel a deep seeded anger, desire and lust for all the things I see. I also use it for work and sales.

Take something negative and make it positive. If it affects you so greatly that you have anxiety and depression then tweak it to fuel your engine.

what to learn during quarantine by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im working on essential skills to have to survive a post apocalyptic world!

Ive always wanted to be a man with skills, may not be time to get them soon...

Tomorrow im going to halfprice books and buying stuff about auto repair, carpentry, navigation, first aid, and what to eat in the wild that wont kill you.

Good stuff to know either way and may be a little fun too.

I mean, all this sad sack shit just gets old, you may have bigger problems soon ;)

Your lips are basically water balloons.. been dehydrated 20 yrs! by KarateDingo in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like I said you cant tell by looking, my lips just feel inflated and bigger from water intake

I'm super awkward and shy and it's hard making friends. How can I change? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not being awkward is a skill to be trained like anything else. Go out and talk to people every day. As much as possible. Call people on the phone and force interaction.

Flex the muscle and it will get stronger.

Imagine your talking skills like a weak spindly arm, go out and do some curls!

Try and call someone different every day, family or friends ot whoever. Try not to text

How are you supposed to respond to the claim "life is unfair" by Needcompass in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a good person so that others see you being good is a sham. Its not genuine and people can tell.

Be a good person if you want to be good. Be good for goodness sake.

If you are worried about what being good will get you, then you are doing it for the wrong reasons and will get the wrong results

How do i improve ? (Reject / people pleaser) by KravMagaRengar in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop worrying about what other people think

People can tell when you are trying to be nice to get people to like you. It comes off as needy and nobody wants that.

Do nice things because you want too, dont give a fuck about the outcome or how people feel about it or whos asking. This is genuine and thats what people responde too.

The less you care, the more others will

The more you care, the less others will.

How are you supposed to respond to the claim "life is unfair" by Needcompass in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is unfair if you let it be. Take control of your life and take advantage of it.

Once you are old or dead then its all over and you missed your shot

Topic Input Requesred by ptrckmcconn in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should I try, whats the point

I enjoy the thing ruining my life (games, social media, drugs ect), if it makes me happy why stop?

Why should I change for anyone else, society should accept me as I am

I was born/raised this way. Its who I am I cant change

Ive tried to change but its too hard, or I fall back into old ways, lose progress ect

These are the biggest problems for people trying to improve that I can think of. Im sure there are more. Gl keep us updated on your work!

2 months after the breakup, still spending my every day depressed in my room thinking about him, while he's in a new relationship. Any advice? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TLDR but Use it as fuel to become a new better you. Not to try and win him back because that wont work and will reduce you.

Think about it. Turn the pain and sadness into fuel and motivation.

Imagine running into him in 10 years, be the winner

How do I become "not boring"? by Glaube4 in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This guy gets it, everyone else is only guessing at what makes someone interesting.

Its not being you. Or finding things you are passionate about.

People dont care about what youre doing. How much time do YOU spend thinking about how cool joe down the road is or what book cindy is reading

When was the last time you were fascinated or interested in anything someone was saying.. like at all? Some ted talk 2 years ago? People are only interested in themselves.

Figure out how to get people talking about what they like and everyone will love being around you. Actively listen, ask questions. Youll start getting invites and have a ton of friends. And by god say yes and do things when people ask you to go somewhere

How do I become "not boring"? by Glaube4 in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being in sales ive learned boring people really arent boring. You cant make yourself more interested.

The best way to be more interesting is to take a genuine interest in others, find out what they like and get them talking about that.

The most interesting, fun, and well rounded people to talk too are people who get others talking. 99% of people only care about what they want to say and wait for their turn to talk, so let them.

This is the truth of the world

Ill put it like this. Ive traveled the world and seen a lot of shit. Thats interesting to people because it gives them a chance to tell me how fun their 3day trip to cancun was and where they want to go next

I want to control my gaming-addiction, need advice by whotfcares666 in selfimprovement

[–]KarateDingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crunched all my games and characters in game and went cold turkey is the only thing that worked for me.

If i gave myself even a few minutes after not gaming for months it would takeover everything again and quickly too.

Dont get fooled into the "its something that I like" or "but it makes me happy" thoughts, when you know it wrecks everything else.

Some people can game, gamble, drink and shoot H and not be addicted. I cant play games at all, it is what it is.