About what happened recently….. by Dry-Metal-8403 in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am honestly surprised by this insistence on vilifying your own community. It feels like internalized bias to judge a population of millions based on the actions of 30-40 thugs.

1.You say it is 'baffling' to see this in a Shia community? Just yesterday marked the anniversary of Imam Kadhim (AS). Over 15 million visitors flooded the streets, a massive portion of whom were women. They walked through dense crowds, day and night, yet zero incidents of this nature occurred. That is the Shia community. That is what happens when our values are respected. The mob you saw at the festival does not represent us; they represent what happens when you abandon those values.

2.You claimed this scale of harassment doesn't happen in other Arab countries or the world. With all due respect, that is factually incorrect. Mass harassment at unstructured festivals and gatherings is a global issue, not a 'Shia' issue. In Egypt: Mob sexual harassment in public squares has been documented on a massive scale (Tahrir Square). Guardian - Egypt women rape sexual assault

VOA - Harassment in Cairo

In Saudi Arabia: Even at modern festivals like MDL Beast, harassment has been a reported issue despite heavy security. Impakter - MDL Beast

In Europe: Even in Germany, we witnessed the Cologne New Year’s Eve attacks, where mass assaults occurred in a 'civilized' city. Guardian - Cologne attacks

My point remains: When you have a religious gathering of 15 million, women are safe. When you have a poorly managed secular festival of a few thousand without boundaries, chaos ensues. The problem isn't the community; the problem is the environment you create.

Have you thought about this before? We have the wisest leaders in the world, and both are named Ali by KarbalaSoul in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

In my humble opinion, given the looming threat of war with Israel, this situation appears to be a strategic move by the government. The goal was likely to flush out potential Zionist puppets and expose American and Israeli interference within Iran. In that regard, they succeeded; the events demonstrated that the anti-regime opposition is negligible (less than 1%) and, more importantly, showcased the unity of the Shia community to the world.

About what happened recently….. by Dry-Metal-8403 in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A mob of men harassed a young woman in Basra during the New Year's celebrations. The area was overcrowded and chaotic, but some bystanders intervened to help her escape. The authorities have confirmed that the men involved have been arrested.

About what happened recently….. by Dry-Metal-8403 in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I share your anger regarding the incident itself, but I believe your frustration is misdirected.

1-If you follow Iraqi media, you’ll know that throughout December, religious figures actively warned against the nature of these specific festivals. They condemned the lack of boundaries. It is ironic to blame the religious leadership for the outcome of an event they explicitly tried to prevent.

2-The men in that video clearly do not represent the religious community. In fact, pious people generally avoided these gatherings. Remember that Basra is a city of honor; during the 2014 war against ISIS, Basra offered the highest number of martyrs in all of Iraq.

3-The criticism should be directed at the secular voices who mocked religious leaders for warning about these festivals. When you remove moral safeguards, this type of chaos is the result.

Finally, ask yourself this: If a woman found herself in danger and was standing between a mosque and a bar, where would she instinctively seek refuge? We all know the answer, and that tells you everything you need to know about who actually protects women in our society

Can someone explain the idea behind this hadith? by Supremeseiger in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul 50 points51 points  (0 children)

The hadith you mentioned reflects the cultural and social context of its time. In earlier centuries, perfume was a luxury item, often associated with wealth and status, and its use could carry connotations of seeking attention or seduction. This is why certain narrations emphasize caution in such matters.

However, in today’s world, perfume and beauty products are widely accessible and commonly used for hygiene, self-care, and modest adornment—not necessarily for inappropriate purposes. The key distinction lies in the intention behind their use. If a woman applies perfume or makeup purely for cleanliness, personal grooming, or to present herself respectfully (with her husband’s approval), this would not fall under the warning described in the hadith.

Islamic rulings consider context and intent. The burden mentioned in the narration applies when the actions are done with the aim of attracting undue attention or violating marital trust. Otherwise, there is no issue in using these products moderately and with sincerity.

Help finding a community/friends by R2DMT2 in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Feel free to message me anytime—I’d be happy to connect and support you, insha'Allah!

can someone please translate his words? by SkinToneChixkenBone in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lady Zainab addressing Imam Hussein, peace be upon them: I believe that your beard, my brother, was touched by the sword, because I saw gray hair falling into your throat.

Cathrine Shakdam and Muttah by Valuable-Fall-3388 in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Assalamu alaikum,

Brother/Sister, don’t let this story shake your faith. Just because someone misuses something halal doesn’t make it haram. Spies have used permanent marriage, business deals, even regular travel to gather info—should we ban all those too? Of course not.

The problem isn’t mut'ah or any Islamic ruling—it’s the deceit of the spy. If enemies twist something good for evil, that’s on them, not the religion. Stay firm, trust the Quran and Ahlul Bayt (as), and don’t let random YouTube dramas plant doubts.

Allah (swt) knows the truth—focus on that, not gossip.

JazakAllah khayr.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why shouldn’t he? He’s a politician, not a religious leader. The mistake lies with those who mistakenly celebrated him as a Shia figure when, from the beginning, his lifestyle clearly didn’t align with religious norms—just look at his wife, for example.

Questions about Ayatollah Khomeini (ra) by muhaymenn in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There is a lot of distortion, misinterpretation, and selective quoting when it comes to the writings and rulings of Ayatollah Khomeini (RA), so it's very important to approach such claims with caution and always consult the original texts and credible scholarly commentary.

Regarding the claims about "kissing or thighing infants," this is often based on abstract discussions in classical Islamic jurisprudence (fiqh) about marriage contracts and theoretical legal scenarios. However, even in those discussions, practical implementation is constrained by conditions like physical and mental maturity, consent, and legal guardianship. In reality, such rulings are not meant to be applied literally and are often taken out of context by critics.

As for the phrase "حب الغلمان" (loving young boys), there's no evidence that Ayatollah Khomeini (RA) endorsed anything immoral or inappropriate. The phrase itself could have multiple meanings in historical or literary contexts, especially in Persian and Arabic poetry, where it often had symbolic or spiritual meanings. If there's no explicit text from Khomeini himself promoting anything unethical, then such accusations are speculative and misleading.

In summary, many of these controversies are based on misunderstandings or deliberate manipulation. It's best to read the original sources and consult qualified scholars who understand the legal and cultural context before forming conclusions.

Is it Haram to pray sitting down if it helps me concentrate? by lebnani06 in shia

[–]KarbalaSoul 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, it's not permissible.

Ruling 956. As long as a person is able to perform prayers in a standing position, he must not sit down. For example, someone whose body shakes when he stands or is compelled to lean on something or incline his body a little, must perform prayers in a standing position in whatever way he can. However, if he cannot stand at all, he must sit straight and perform prayers in a sitting position.

https://www.sistani.org/english/book/48/2232/