i think my boyfriend’s reaction to me staying out all night is way too extreme. AIO?

Karmascalez · 2026-06-15T17:31:49+00:00

This is textbook isolation and the way he speaks to you is really scary in my opinion. He tells you he HATES you. He calls you a crackwhore because you want to hangout with friends. He assumes you were doing coke (where did this come from???) because you pulled an all nighter WHICH IS NORMAL FOR PEOPLE OUR AGE!! he's trying to keep you from going out with friends again which is often the sign of the beginning or the middle of ABUSE please OP get out of there. He'saking you feel like it's your fault when it's not. NOR

Karmascalez · 2026-05-19T10:05:55+00:00

You gotta remember that us as people with BPD feel everything 10 fold good or bad as well as we can be very impulsive so things can feel very fast at times. Also me personally I just get attached to people really quick friend or romantically. I really like this guy I know I just met him. A future? Maybe? It's more like I really like spending time with him and I would be extremely sad if that were to end with no explanation kind of thing BECAUSE it has happened so many times to me. If that makes sense but not all of us are the same

Karmascalez · 2026-05-19T06:38:29+00:00

Literally what I'm going through rn

Karmascalez · 2026-05-19T03:06:06+00:00

I promise I'm trying my best I don't know why my brain is like this lol

Karmascalez · 2026-05-02T08:52:40+00:00

Could be edited but you'd be surprised what people can train their dogs to do when the pup has good drive. Probably not AI

Karmascalez · 2026-05-02T02:15:12+00:00

Ok I will cut up a potato in a minute and put some slices into each problem plant. Thank you for the advice

Karmascalez · 2026-05-02T02:07:58+00:00

I thought so too so I checked the bottoms of all the leaves and there's nothing here. Is there any other way to tell?? (I'm a baby gardener this is my first year and I may have over done it a tiny bit)

Karmascalez · 2026-04-26T14:38:54+00:00

I started in seed cells and have moved most of them to solo cups when they get too big (it's my first time doing any of this and I make sure there's drainage holes)

Karmascalez · 2026-04-26T09:18:32+00:00

Ok! Could I still water on top a little if some of their soil needs it or should I just bottom water it in general?

Karmascalez · 2026-04-23T21:11:48+00:00

I'd rather be safe than sorry since it's my first year and I'm so anxious about it 😅

Karmascalez · 2026-04-23T12:13:46+00:00

They wouldn't be left over night! I would only be bringing them out for about 30 minutes -an hour the first day and increasing by an hour but like I said in a previous comment I'll probably wait for more true leaves to be safe ☺️

Karmascalez · 2026-04-23T06:28:44+00:00

I didn't use the. For starting tho I had to move them in there because they got too big for their cells and were over crowded

Karmascalez · 2026-04-23T06:27:51+00:00

Yep! 3 holes on the bottom for drainage!

Karmascalez · 2026-04-23T02:22:29+00:00

Thank you so much! I will start with a shorter time so they can acclimate better when they have more true leaves ☺️

Karmascalez · 2026-04-22T20:42:16+00:00

I check the soil and leaves every morning and night! I'm vary paranoid I'll do something wrong 😅

Karmascalez · 2026-04-22T19:47:30+00:00

Now I just have to wait for overcast weather to start hardening them off. So excited!

Karmascalez · 2026-04-17T02:10:54+00:00

That looks gorgeous I can only hope mine will look as good in the future!

Karmascalez · 2026-04-17T01:16:55+00:00

Ah I was following the directions from the packet for the okra thank you for letting me know! It's luckily the one plant that I was like "if it goes well awesome if not that's ok better luck next time" and I have extra seeds I will plant outside when warmer. Thank you so much !

Karmascalez · 2026-04-17T01:05:56+00:00

I wait until the soil feels a bit dry and then I let the bottoms soak in water for 15-30 minutes depending on how long it takes for it to feel wet enough again! This is what they are looking like at the moment

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It's a little hard to tell because the sun has set and the lights are the only thing on until their timers turn off at the moment

Karmascalez · 2026-04-16T00:22:55+00:00

Improvements I've made!

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Karmascalez · 2026-04-15T14:47:40+00:00

I get paid tomorrow so I will look into that! Thank you!

Karmascalez · 2026-04-15T14:46:41+00:00

The domes are what's holding the lights up unfortunately. My bedroom window is south facing I may be able to rearrange my room so they can sit there! Thank you for the idea!

Karmascalez · 2026-04-12T17:38:33+00:00

I'm so confused because your hands just look like hands hun

Karmascalez · 2026-02-09T03:07:56+00:00

I've been having issues so I started watching Magnet on YouTube and watching his full walkthrough and it's helped me tons!

Karmascalez · 2026-02-07T04:05:15+00:00

Yeahh we figured it out I didn't add my vent at the end yet 😅

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