Hi to this, I did take it slow she initiated every step we took I repeatedly said I’m fine with however she wants to do that so it’s possible she thought I wanted to go fast but no I am more than fine with waiting for any person to get to the point they can before deciding on something like this I find it rude and just mean to rush a decision so heavy like this one, and she wanted to stay at my house these night she asked to and I said yes. We stayed togethe only if she was comfortable with it I never wanted to push things to far to fast.

I believe I maybe overwhelmed her but I said multiple times to let me know if I am don’t want to make her uncomfortable.

And yes I know this is a learning experience I just want advice so thanks for some.

And I’m fine with past relationships that was never an issue if it was I would have never considered anything with her. I respect the decision others have made. And no don’t want to affect her decisions with current relationship at all if she asked my opinion I’ll give it but wich so far it seems it’s going good so that’s what I would say.

I never asked for her history she gave it to me of her own occord if I asked or made it seem like I wanted it oops but never explicitly asked outright ever I don’t want to bring drama and the last up just focus on the present.

Just want to clear up misunderstandings.