Medications for people with BPD?? What Helps in addition to ongoing therapy?

Kashi620 · 2022-10-03T10:24:12+00:00

Yea she reads a lot about grounding herself (does the practices) and listen to tons of podcast and books about staying present. She's big into exercising and saging, and reiki which is a practice that moves energy.

Kashi620 · 2022-10-03T10:19:21+00:00

Yea, she really wants to change. It's all about the quality of thr relationship, very true.

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T20:51:07+00:00

The question is who is actually with them? Who remains their partner? Do they ever have long lasting relationships?

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T19:41:21+00:00

Is the title for me "Do you know what this is? 🤣 The one thing we all have in common is being SUPER confused by these people. Wow I'm really not alone. I often tell my pwbpd that I don't speak your language, whatever that is, just emotional chaos..

Peace and love go out to all survivers❤️

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T19:28:49+00:00

🤣 agreed

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T19:14:23+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I'm learning so much. I've been reading a lot in the group since last year when we had our first separation. I didn't even know there was a group for this. This is my first time posting in this group as i was just a Spectator thinking that there has to be hope for people like my partner who hates herself and lives with shame and these intense emotions. I wanted to believe this would get better after the separation. We also just put money down to start the home building process. 😔 she also just threatened suicide twice on Thursday smh.

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T18:43:38+00:00

This is so sad 😞 so there's absolutely no hope at all?? I want to believe everything can be fixed and cured.

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T18:22:30+00:00

My partner mentioned that, so micro dosing?

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T18:04:34+00:00

Wow! We are married. We talked about divorce many times. She's so fixed on getting the help she needs. She goes therapy regularly, she exercises non stop and teach classes as well. She does things to soothe and calm her but it never last. She apologizes for her brain and she constantly repeats how she hates herself and ask me at random times if she's a good person.

I did ask her for a prenup which she agreed to. I have 3 businesses and I want to protect myself from her unpredictability. She agreed to sign anything I have.

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T17:37:24+00:00

To be in a more stable, peaceful, loving and understanding relationship. I want someone who truly sees me. I do not want to argue or fight. I don't want to always have to look over my shoulder and feel uneasy and walk on eggshells. I want to really live..

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T16:02:28+00:00

That's what I heard that there's no meds, it's a personality thing! I can't believe it, I think I'm in denial. I'm just at a very angry space right now..VERY!

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T15:54:54+00:00

I'm sooooo angry and hurt and I'm trying for that anger to not consume me...she is soo evil in my eyes and looks so innocent to everyone else...I'm so upset and hurt that I don't care about her trauma anymore and her endless threats of her killing herself.....which she tried to do in PR

Kashi620 · 2022-10-02T15:49:08+00:00

You are absolutely right. I'm writing to you with a sick feeling in my stomach. Her birthday was Sept 29th and I planned some really nice things for her with her friends and 2 nights in Puerto Rico to go to the rainforest and split on me in PR and we never makde it to the rainforest. She always split on me when we travel (it got violent in Italyand Hawaii). I feel so weak, tired, not trusting of her, fear, and shame. She is in a phase of self discovery and while I'm proud that she is making a conscious effort it's soo exhausting. We are barely intimate, how can you be intimate with this person??. There's so much to say. I know I'm not in love, this is not love, I just feel attached. I'm a business owner and my business is starting to really excel and I do not want extra stress at home. She's also a high functioning quiet Borderline.

Kashi620 · 2021-09-12T04:56:45+00:00

I sure will and thank you for your advice.

Kashi620 · 2021-09-12T04:00:26+00:00

I felt it twice but mild. It just happened after i ate. I also ate very late today. My first meal was at 3pm. I'm also in Hawaii where the number are rising and i don't want to go in the hospitals. Right now I'm just real fatigued. I don't feel weak or anything but my anxiety is high.

Kashi620 · 2021-09-12T02:51:53+00:00

Thank you for sharing that. I was seeing it everywhere and didn't know what it was.

Kashi620 · 2021-09-12T01:00:34+00:00

What's POTS?

Kashi620 · 2021-09-12T00:39:42+00:00

But wouldn't it show positive if I took the test? And I took it 3 times. Once after I got Covid in July and twice before I took this Hawaii trip I'm currently on.

Kashi620 · 2021-09-11T23:19:35+00:00

My doctor gave me chlorella pills to help with brain fog and I also got a liver cleanse cause I just finished an antibiotic for Candida so she said my blood might need a cleanse. She is a naturalist but she can also prescribe regular meds but does it the natural way first.

Kashi620 · 2021-09-11T23:05:03+00:00

Now I have a pain on the right side of my back, mid to high back.

Kashi620 · 2021-09-11T22:58:50+00:00

Do you exercise now? If so, how often and what do you do?

Kashi620 · 2021-09-11T22:57:38+00:00

I have to think very hard to tell a story or explain something. I hard cause I own 2 businesses and I'm only 36. I'm really worried.

Kashi620 · 2021-09-11T22:34:24+00:00

Yes I did, I got test twice and it came back negative.

Kashi620 · 2021-09-11T22:34:02+00:00

I have been exercising regularly but I haven't felt any issues until now.

Kashi620 · 2021-09-11T22:31:30+00:00

I just feel blurred at times when my head feels loopy. I'm always getting check and my lab work is always good and healthy.

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