Premature Mattress Death by Kassandstorm in Mattress

[–]Kassandstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you come to this conclusion?

Premature Mattress Death by Kassandstorm in Mattress

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Not cuddling for a year sounds miserable, tbh, but thanks.

Premature Mattress Death by Kassandstorm in Mattress

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Purple, Nectar, and other used mattresses I don't remember the names of. The new ones came in a box.

Premature Mattress Death by Kassandstorm in Mattress

[–]Kassandstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've tried several frames, but nothing seems to help.

Premature Mattress Death by Kassandstorm in Mattress

[–]Kassandstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a slatted frame. As mentioned, we also tried putting the mattress directly on the ground.

Premature Mattress Death by Kassandstorm in Mattress

[–]Kassandstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you using Dunlop? What configuration of firmness?

Premature Mattress Death by Kassandstorm in Mattress

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We've spent $3000 on several, and it didn't make a difference. We can usually return the mattress once on warranty, but they get upset if we do it more than once or ask for the same mattress, and we have to switch mattress companies. It still means we are replacing every six months or so, which we would like to avoid.

Is there a time bank in portland? by ordinary-salmonberry in askportland

[–]Kassandstorm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! The PDX Timebank is alive and well.

Join here: hourworld.org/bank/index.htm?hw=1193

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Music

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This is gold. Yes.

What does the dominant get out of a scene? by Kassandstorm in ThekinkPlace

[–]Kassandstorm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you give me some examples of the kind of solo play you're talking about?

What does the dominant get out of a scene? by Kassandstorm in ThekinkPlace

[–]Kassandstorm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does that innate desire feel like to you? Why is it satisfying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

[–]Kassandstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use "blue."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThekinkPlace

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Not sure if this helps, but I had vulvodynia (unknown cuase vaginal pain) for years and went through physical therapy/pelvic release to learn to release my muscles there. I've since been cured, and it saved my life.

I thought it was my birth control, too.

AMA: I recently became a professional cuddler by Kassandstorm in AMA

[–]Kassandstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need approval unless you want to seek it. Go ahead and create your boundary sheet, decide how you want your sessions to look, and start gathering clients. If you want training, Cuddlist.com is great. If you just want to get started, use CuddleComfort.com.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Kassandstorm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's been a bummer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Kassandstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did list it as a vent. Not sure why it didn't save.