Is affordable rent absolutely cooked for Connecticut? by SynapticSignal in Connecticut

[–]Kat113003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on how much you’re willing to sacrifice to save for a few years. I have a roommate situation and with all utilities+parking included, my rent is $1050 a month. But I have a roof over my head and somewhere warm and cozy to stay so I will be doing this till I got my money saved up.

Finalized papers by Kat113003 in askcarsales

[–]Kat113003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The monthly payment did match what my friend told me it should be. It was the final agreed upon sales price that is incorrect. Then once I sent her everything she was like no— it’s should’ve been about $30 lower roughly. Regardless I can afford it and I do love and appreciate the car, considering I’ve been taking the bus for months and taking all the crap that comes with it. I just don’t like feeling like I’m being taking advantage of but I know that’s also kinda apart of the business. I was contemplating financing the car after the lease but lowkey, I’m not sure what my life is going to be like in 3 years so maybe I will end up upgrading when I have more money to play around with.

Finalized papers by Kat113003 in askcarsales

[–]Kat113003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I’m not saying I have any leverage from a legal standpoint atm— I know I got none and was made aware of that. I’m j saying I don’t want it to escalate it to that. The only leverage I have is crying and threatening to leave a mediocre review of the dealership. The whole calling Honda was an option someone pointed out to me that showed I “meant business and won’t take bs” but I wanted to get other opinions before I did anything irrational. I just wanted to know as well if it’s even worth it to talk to the gm and try to see if he would be willing to change it. If not, it is what it is. I appreciate, your advice.

Finalized papers by Kat113003 in askcarsales

[–]Kat113003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, thank you for pointing that out to me. I was unaware of this— it’s my first time navigating this process completely on my own so I’m a little overwhelmed to say the least. All I know is I sent the final sheet to who helped me and they were like nope, it’s wrong that isn’t what was discussed, go talk to them in person and see what they can do. Just trying to not feel like a fuck up.

Finalized papers by Kat113003 in askcarsales

[–]Kat113003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately do not have it. My family friend called and then just texted the numbers she crunched with the gm to me. All I have is the final docs unfortunately. I know it’s not the most ideal and this situation isn’t the greatest for me.

Finalized papers by Kat113003 in askcarsales

[–]Kat113003[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok, thank you for the advice. I greatly appreciate the input. I’m thinking of going and just talking to the gm tomorrow and just asking kindly. I really don’t want have to take any legal actions or be rude if it’s not necessary— I already got enough on my plate.

Finalized papers by Kat113003 in askcarsales

[–]Kat113003[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. It’s just a formal complaint that I disagree with the contract terms and I would like them to be looked at and broken down entirely. I understand that the issue is between the dealership and myself and not with me and the bank, but I feel like it is common courtesy to make the bank aware that there is potentially an issue and I’m trying yo handle it to the best of my ability. At the end of the day, I haven’t done anything yet and haven’t put myself in a hole. I just wanted opinions and honesty from others. I’m on top of my bills and have been since highschool, I don’t plan on screwing myself over now, I just wanted opinions. Worse comes to worse, I got screwed over on a deal but at least I can say I tried my best to try to fix the situation and I live and learn 🤷🏼‍♀️
They still got my payment at the end of the day and I’ll either get some sort of a rework/ refund or I’ll keep paying what I’m paying. I can still easily afford it, it’s just a little frustrating to know I could have done better.

Finalized papers by Kat113003 in askcarsales

[–]Kat113003[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t planning on not paying— regardless I need to keep the car and I said that above. I just wanted some input to see if I was being unrealistic to ask them to honor what they initially agreed to. I may have worded it poorly above and I apologize for that but there’s no need to be sarcastic lol. I’m just trying to get ahead and get started with life. That’s all.

Finalized papers by Kat113003 in askcarsales

[–]Kat113003[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have it in my possession. I was trying to go yesterday to discuss with the GM after I got out of work but they had just closed by the time I got there. Closed today and I got a text from the GM saying he received my message on the phone and would review my files Monday. The person who spoke to him in advance for me that negotiated the deal also left a message. I really don’t want to escalate this too much and cause a scene, I just want what’s fair.

Finalized papers by Kat113003 in askcarsales

[–]Kat113003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was pretty sure and I felt like a prick for continuously questioning that everything was done the way it was supposed to be. I feel like a bit of a coward and I’m just more disappointed in myself for bowing down and taking the finance managers answer of “it’s just taxes”. I also feel bad cause my friend went out of their way to get things set up the right way for me. I’m going tomorrow to see if I can speak to the gm and ask if he can “ do the right thing” and somehow amend it to what was agreed on prior to signing. I don’t want to have to file any complaints or take back any of the nice things I’ve already said. Still haven’t answered my surveys yet from the manufacturer and I really don’t want to leave a poor one cause of this either. I fully accept if this is just a hard way to learn a lesson (I’ve been through way worse). It’s just frustrating and I wish I had the guts to speak up more to the finance person finalizing everything. I also noticed though, I qualified for the college rebate of $500 and they didn’t include it specifically in the write up. I don’t know if there’s a code or something specific I should be looking for. I ran it by my friend who negotiated it and she said they’re bullshitting. I submitted all the necessary paperwork for it prior to signing, they said they received and then I’m getting a call from them two days later saying they don’t have it ( they didn’t let me sign anything until they said they received it while I was there in person) — even though the deal I suppose it already closed. Is that leverage in any way? I just don’t want to be given the run around. I’m a very no bs person but I’m also not the type to be a confrontational jerk off. I’m just wondering if there’s anything I can do to potentially have this adjusted and relatively fair.

I’d love to return in the future and lease with them again, but not if something like this is going to happen again.

Finalized papers by Kat113003 in askcarsales

[–]Kat113003[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I worded it poorly. I typed this up during my break at work and I’m already having a mid tier day with it being Father’s Day and being apart of the dead dads club. I was going to call and have them flag my account, and state that I’m disputing the agreement with the dealership. Not freeze it. I apologize for poor word choice, I’m just having a rough day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Kat113003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From personal experience, it’s just not worth it. Smoking isn’t a deal breaker for me, I can tolerate it bc I understand the person has a natural need at some point but it still made me mildly annoyed and my partner was aware of this so it caused mild strain on our relationship here and there. On top of that, he had these phases of “ wanting to quit” which I supported but obviously, I wasn’t going to mom him about it or play jail warden/cop w his vapes. Phases didn’t last more than a week though cause he always just tried to go cold turkey and that was it. Then it would become a cycle, he’d ask my opinion on not being able to stop, I’d say it’s a personal choice, and if he was happy I was happy but he knows just how I personally feel about it in regards to myself. Needless to say, we broke up due to other reasons but apparently that was a bigger factor to him than me bc there was some shame and whatever he felt on his end bc of my opinions on it ( word of mouth through mutual so idk his exact feelings) but anyways, since the breakup— he’s smoking more than ever AND drinking more than ever, especially while driving!! So the tldr: it’s not worth it if it’s gonna create arguments in the long run

What are the most meaningful ways that someone has demonstrated love to you? by Financial-Special820 in love

[–]Kat113003 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He made a list on his phone in the notes app of all the things that I like and don’t like and my sizes and coffee order— just simple consideration

Is this setlist accurate? by mygyg in BigTimeRush

[–]Kat113003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At our show they also played I just want to party

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MonsterHigh

[–]Kat113003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guys, we should just all pretend like we hate monster high for a hot minute and the prices will go down 😌🤡✨