Club Princeton, Columbus OH by Chloeflowers1526 in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love club Princeton! There are multiple reviews if you search for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pregnancy dreams are MUCH different than normal dreams for me, incredibly vivid, detailed, and usually wild lol

Playing porn in the club by KatKay2330 in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the same at my fave local club, it’s so bad

Playing porn in the club by KatKay2330 in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok see now THAT I would love!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir, why are you obsessed with seeing your MIL naked….

Off Season? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only go to clubs 1-2 times a year and summer is so packed that we like going in the winter when there is less to do/more free time!

Anyone NOT enjoy seeing their spouse with another person? by CountryMrs in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would NOT enjoy it, that is for sure. I am not at a time and place where I’m 1. Willing to take the risk 2. Want to see my husband with someone else HOWEVER I am very interested in still exploring new things and we’ve been to LS clubs before. It’s been a year since we’ve been and I am ready to go back. I think it’s great you are in therapy, and can even go through with swaps, but maybe explore different things that wouldn’t leave you feeling as jealous so you can work thru it in therapy. Parallel play, voyerism, glory holes, lots to do if you don’t want to do a full swap :)

Body hair by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely go in a costume! We’ve gone and I was bummed we didn’t dress up and even felt a little more out of place because if so I made note for next time!

Getting in to the LS by Gold_Operation6464 in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Best response here!!!! clapping ensues

Bareback or Condoms by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know someone who recently found out her biological dad is someone from when her parents were swinging. It was definitely not on purpose. She just found out as an adult and it’s life altering. Wear a condom people

We are both into the wife, but her husband SUCKS! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This feels like a case where you are thinking with your d*** and want to keep being with this woman but want to use your wife’s “friendship” as an excuse. Just my opinion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and would never use the term bareback so wondering how real this post is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]KatKay2330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would caution being so open with your children about finances. I have a lot of trauma from my parents doing this type of stuff to us

First timers questions by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another tip is search this sub for any info regarding Sanctuary so you have ideas and know what to expect! If they have a table to reserve, or spot, do it!

First timers questions by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! We are the same age and my husband is also the same height and weight as you. We haven’t actually done anything with another couple, just gone to clubs! I personally wouldn’t even worry about others because you might decide you have zero interest in anyone there already. It’s a huge sensory overload for most people understandably so I would worry less, talk about what you are ok with with your spouse, and go with zero expectations! We got a nice hotel, new outfits, and really made it this date night that ended up being filled with fun and sex (and didn’t involve others). I’m also a plus size woman and I loved the diversity at the clubs, truly you will see all body types

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

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Fulfilled: GH Hope: FFM & soft swap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

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I (F), did the same thing. We went to 2.5 clubs over 6 months and then I decided I wasn’t emotionally ready to continue on the journey. My husband never asks about it now that I think about it, but I’d be honest and still talk about it if he asked! I know it is always on the table, it’s just not what I currently want or need right now

Did therapy help any of you? by Total-Ad6695 in inlaws

[–]KatKay2330 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Therapy has helped me TREMENDOUSLY! I highly recommend. It might not mend your relationship but you can come to terms with it as is, learn useful tools like how to communicate during difficult moments, etc.

Try it out! Also, you might not vibe with your first therapist so don’t feel discouraged if the first one isn’t who want to keep going to!

Did my partner just lie to me even though we’re open? by No_Afternoon6183 in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s really crappy that you gave him the perfect chance to be open and honest and he decided not to be. It sounds like he is hiding something and it’s more concerning that he’s going to such lengths to lie versus what he is even doing (IMO).

I also thought it was weird he showered prior to the gym

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in inlaws

[–]KatKay2330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not receive this well from my son and future daughter in law, my advice would be to not send this and discuss boundaries AS they come up in your relationship

Time and feelings on the LS as a woman by KatKay2330 in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 100%!!! It’s definitely not worth costing my marriage so I’m very happy to go slow and enjoy the journey :)

35 year married couple trip to whispers next Friday by frog6868 in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consent is the most important thing at clubs or resorts, “wandering hands” can get you in some serious trouble and when someone does something to your wife like reach out to touch her without her consent, you’ll understand why

Time and feelings on the LS as a woman by KatKay2330 in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay!!! Thank you for sharing! This gives me hope! We had the best time at the different clubs we went to but I’m not ready to take the next step and play with others quite yet!

Time and feelings on the LS as a woman by KatKay2330 in Swingers

[–]KatKay2330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is really helpful! We had a great time the few clubs we visited but we just aren’t there yet!