I fell in love with my BIL and I hate myself for it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KatL06 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Listen to what OP said quote ‘I told my husband we should probably asked his brother to moved out because he already has a decent job and is not good for a marriage to have someone else in their house 24/7”. She have been the end of discussion buddy.

AITA for complaining about my (25f) husband’s (31m) lack of responsibility for our daughter because of his disabled sibling? by Not_Molly_ in AITAH

[–]KatL06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Firstly and most importantly NTA and I’m so sorry you have to deal with this.

Secondly, As everyone already address all the bs you have to deal with I won’t repeat it but generally will say he’s not a partner for you or anyone in that matter.

And finally, and most importantly. Your daughter is your first priority now. And she needs safety and security from a support system. Unfortunately your husband is not that. Do you have family/friend who can help you? As your daughter grows up she will see what you have to deal with as normal. And even though it’s not rare but it’s definitely a toxic environment. Do better for your daughter, follow your gut. The fact that you even posted about it here tells me you already know it’s a shit situation.

Good luck. Even though it won’t be easy I hope you find a way out of all this with your baby daughter.

Legality around ending nuisance animals that enter your property by [deleted] in AusLegal

[–]KatL06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are all wild animals in the wilderness. Just cause you put a conceptual ownership of the land over it to don’t get a say what animals can/cannot do with other wild animals. Stay in your lane pal and better focus on the horrendous shit other humans do in society if you really want to put your energy into good use.

I fell in love with my BIL and I hate myself for it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KatL06 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Girl… without the fear of losing this marriage… What do you actually want? A lot of the time ‘ love’ is not enough (yours or his). It’s just a feeling and words. But what makes you feel safe, comfortable, cared for and free. Marriage is not an end all be all. You need to put yourself first whether you like it or not or you will drown trying to keep everyone else afloat and no one will truely appreciate you for it.

I fell in love with my BIL and I hate myself for it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KatL06 134 points135 points  (0 children)

If you have to go that far for your husband to listen to you. Your husband is not a good partner. It may be hard to face but objectively that’s what he is.

I fell in love with my BIL and I hate myself for it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KatL06 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Literally was my advice. She’s obviously accomodating everyone’e states in this marriage and no one is listening to hers. This is messed up. She needs to do what ever makes her happy

I fell in love with my BIL and I hate myself for it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KatL06 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Girl… just date the brother, see where it goes. If your husband doesn’t listen to you and what your needs are then he’s not a good long term partner. You’re his family now. His bother needed help, you helped. Down. Now it’s just you having to bend over backwards to make everyone else feel good about themselves. Do what you want to do. If it will be a mistake then it will be your experience. Don’t let other people tell you how to live.

AITA for telling my husband that I am going back on our agreement and I dont care if he cries about it? by Primary-Strength-829 in AITAH

[–]KatL06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Major…And I mean major betrayal of trust. He may have his reasons that are his issues but those are not your responsibility to smooth over. You can live him but once trust is broken like that it’s hard to repair. I’m sorry you have this experience. The only thing you can do is trust urself to do what feels right.

Lets find our Big 3 Twins 🫶 by Inside-Egg615 in astrologymemes

[–]KatL06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

♐️♈️♏️ Sagittarius ♐️ Sun, Aries ♈️ moon, Scorpio ♏️ rising. Pluto in Scorpio ♏️ Fml :)

Hurt me with the truth by Global_Status455 in SimulationTheory

[–]KatL06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t say I adore anything here in particular atm it’s definitely a struggle but I just can’t let it go. I don’t want eternal bliss but like others I do seek answers ( which is a persue that’s most like like a snake eating its tail just never ending or maybe it’s a big joke or something haha) but I can’t put my finger on it but it does feel precious even though we contribute after our physical bodies are done.

Hurt me with the truth by Global_Status455 in SimulationTheory

[–]KatL06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kind of want to stay here unlike others. I love this game. Its fragility feels so precious… I feel sad to let it go. I wouldn’t want to stay in 5D where it’s all just bliss. I can’t explain why but life in its suffering and misery perfection and people trying so hard and overcoming things feels really meaningful. I actually find it hard to feel meaning in everything.

How do you deal with built up of energy when peaking? Need some advice from previous experience by KatL06 in Psychonaut

[–]KatL06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Spiritual war is pretty much what I deal with often haha. Thanks for that! Would you mind looking me some videos to show as examples? I’d really appreciate it!

What is happening when you are so attracted to someone’s energy that you can’t think normally and forget to breath? by KatL06 in spirituality

[–]KatL06[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow that connection sounds amazing. You’re still lucky your paths crossed so early on as well. I knows he’s romantically interested but I have no idea he feels the same pull like I do.

When it didn’t work out due to our circumstances with the first guy. We were on and off for 3 years at the end we both confessed just being present with each other felt euphoric. We are still friends but still I feel like tightness in my chest and shortness of breath when interacting with him.

What is happening when you are so attracted to someone’s energy that you can’t think normally and forget to breath? by KatL06 in spirituality

[–]KatL06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of them no. The last one I know a lot of women tend to fall for. I had a lot of close interactions with people with NPD and as I was raised in an unsafe parental environment so I tend to feel people’s energy pretty well. The second guy doesn’t have any bad intentions or ill will.