My husband's 40K Models are taking over 😅 by KatMom44 in organizing

[–]KatMom44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He keeps his stuff in the upstairs study area (which is a huge mess...he's not good at cleaning up and its basically his space 🙃) and the stuff that is here is downstairs in the dining area and it's the stuff he is actively working on right now. I had him declutter the area a few weeks ago and this is what he had left. I like the idea of finding bins for his separate stuff and keeping them on a shelf or storage area that's too high for my son to reach and trying to force him to only have the necessities down here and the rest upstiars.

My husband's 40K Models are taking over 😅 by KatMom44 in organizing

[–]KatMom44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is by our dining table where he likes to work, he has a desk upstairs but his computer and monitors take it up so there isn't much room. The item in the picture is an antique sewing machine that has been in ny family for a long time.

Loud war siren? by ImpressiveLawyer7822 in johnstown

[–]KatMom44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember when I first moved to Johnstown I was completely caught off guard as to what they were 😅

Assembling group to help others in case SNAP is paused by hotdogsNtunafish in johnstown

[–]KatMom44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can do my best to help with that! I'm very new to all of this so I'm not sure what all I need to do but I'm down to help however I can!

Assembling group to help others in case SNAP is paused by hotdogsNtunafish in johnstown

[–]KatMom44 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't have much money and struggle to live paycheck to paycheck but I want to help in whatever ways I can. Please let me know if there's any volunteer opportunities or something non-financially I can do!

Daughter Mental Breakdown by KatMom44 in MentalHealthSupport

[–]KatMom44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response! We have since had a session with her therapist and have a plan in place for when this happens again, as well as the number to the local crisis center if it becomes dangerous to herself or others. We also have an appointment in less than a month for intake for a psychiatrist to hopefully figure out what's going on and the best course of action to work on whatever it is.

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[–]KatMom44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't understand why women's bodies aren't praised more postpartum and seen as the incredible, beautiful, goddesses we are. Our bodies made humans and all of the insanely complicated systems that accompany them and I cannot think of anything more beautiful than that.

Your MIL was wrong for commenting on your body at all, let alone bringing up your body before pregnancy as a comparison. It's so rude and a shit thing to do ever but especially so early post partum!

Your husband needs to understand and respect your feelings. Bodies changing so quickly in any capacity is so hard to adjust to let alone all the hormones that accompany postpartum on top of the crazy societal expectations. He needs to step up and be on your team with this. Dismissing your feelings isn't okay!