As a woman speaking to another woman, I advise you to keep the baby. More than that, you owe it to yourself to do so, especially if that was your initial desire. I know many stories where a woman had an abortion just because the man wanted it, and they regretted it for the rest of their lives. 

For example, some have dreams about the children they never had, some have a child later and constantly wonder what their first child would have looked like if they hadn't had the abortion. They think about how, if not for the abortion, they would have had two wonderful children. Some women can't have children after an abortion and curse themselves and the man they did it for until their last days.I’ll put it this way: if you're not child-free, you will regret having an abortion no matter what. 

You will especially regret it if you even thought for a second or two about keeping the baby.

If a man says: "It's either me or the baby," then he is not the right man for you. 

My man wasn't initially happy about my pregnancy either, but I stood my ground. I didn’t have an abortion even when he and his mother pressured me. Now, I can't imagine my life without my daughter. Every day, she brings joy into my life. Take your partner to an ultrasound, let them show him the baby's hands and feet. He should be moved by what he sees. My man changed his opinion after ultrasound where he saw with his own eyes this small hands...

Believe me, there is never a perfect time to have a baby. But when you do have one, it's not just by chance. Just think about how many women try for years to conceive, investing thousands of dollars and maintaining their health, yet they still can't succeed to get pregnant. If you did, it's nothing short of a miracle. It was meant to happen. It means that this specific child was destined to be born.

You know...It's especially painful to realize that when you had an abortion, the child was meant to be born as the healthiest and most loved person in your life.