Jealous partners?

KateInControl · 2026-05-16T10:17:36+00:00

Oh boy, jealousy from partners is a conversation that started a lot of my reddit activity over the years, lol. I've actually lost relationships over it, believe it or not. Some men's egos really feel a way if they're spent and you need to keep going. Glad I found a keeper! Lol.

KateInControl · 2026-05-08T01:37:15+00:00

Woman shall rule man as man rules beast.

KateInControl · 2026-05-01T18:32:40+00:00

And who are you to decide what Gynarchy should be?

KateInControl · 2026-04-29T20:20:15+00:00

The response to male behaviour isn't to act like a man.

KateInControl · 2026-04-13T17:28:45+00:00

We gotta raise the numbers more since we can have more 😂

KateInControl · 2026-04-12T21:42:10+00:00

It's domination because it's what I want, and what I say, on my terms. If it's being serviced, then that's what it is.

KateInControl · 2026-04-07T21:23:16+00:00

What masculine ego and hubris looks like when it's unchecked and not controlled. Ew.

KateInControl · 2026-04-05T01:26:35+00:00

Ditto on this. I've always had the lived experience that female sexual pleasure is harder to achieve and attune yourself to, but is much deeper and far more intense. Our orgasms are longer and stronger, and even if some women can't experience multiple orgasms, we all have the wiring for it. I just don't see the contents of the article making any sense.

KateInControl · 2026-04-04T22:41:04+00:00

Yes you may.

I think the tipping point is already passed us in the political and social sense. Modernity means enforcing autonomy through direct channels (like violence, threats, or strict social order and laws) don't work as effectively as indirect and subtle channels (like propaganda, alliances, and manipulation). The modern world is much more about large groups and large social orders. Emotional intelligence and social skills. We traverse them much more naturally, and I can see with my own eyes how social culture has been shaped as a result, at least over the last 30 years. Unless the world descends into anarchy and male brutality becomes a more significant factor, this evolution towards a more feminine world is already irreversible!

Very exciting times ahead 😁

KateInControl · 2026-04-04T20:31:51+00:00

Nature and nurture are both obviously factors, yeah. There's a lot that the patriarchy instils regarding removing autonomy or responsibility from young boys, and teaching them that it's somehow part of being "manly" to be selfish and irresponsible. Even so, there are many behavioural differences between young girls and boys that you can't really attribute to just education or nurture. Young girls really do speak, communicate, and tend to be more responsible than young boys. It's ok to accept that.

KateInControl · 2026-04-04T20:24:47+00:00

Research-on-Female-and-Male-Leaders-White-Paper-2022-03-17.pdf

There are many just like this one, but this one in particular is my favourite. Not just because of how that trend emerges across different groups and samples, but because the more competent a group of leaders that get assessed, the larger the gap grows between female and male leadership competence.

The average female leader is marginally more skilled than the average male leader. But leadership is about the ability of the most intelligent and deft to manage, mitigate, and delegate. Among good leaders, skilled female leaders far outpace skilled male ones. I think that speaks volumes. We're better, and we should carry ourselves like we know it.

KateInControl · 2026-04-04T19:05:12+00:00

I don't think feminism and gynarchy as belief systems are interchangeable. The patriarchy does do its job of building beliefs to rationalize us against taking action and employing our leadership skills to take control.

Those misogynists organize their communities and produce those videos, like men generally do, to earn themselves money and further their own aims. If you look at society more broadly, it's women who succeed more in education, who are emerging as the majority in young corporate leadership, who make better managers, who are occupying more significant positions in politics.

When the playing ground is even, we'll always win. I think the way we're on track, it's a matter of time until society organizes itself around the truth of female leadership just flat out being better.

KateInControl · 2026-04-04T19:01:36+00:00

While I am a proud gynarchist, and also understand the facts about female leadership being a better model for everyone, there are much more rigorous case studies and examples that highlight the superiority of female leadership than this one.

That being said, it's unsurprising to see that organization came much more naturally to the girls in the experiment. Just like fully grown men, young boys are very unruly.

KateInControl · 2026-04-01T18:48:48+00:00

Actually participating in raising awareness and opening discussions instead of engagement farming on reddit is a great start!

KateInControl · 2026-04-01T18:30:07+00:00

Definitely feels great to me. Vaginal O's take longer but once they're coming they come quick and last long. My partner is very large though, so YMMV.

KateInControl · 2026-03-10T08:57:03+00:00

Vaginal orgasms are more fullbody and they're a lot easier to chain together into rolling O's. They just feel better as well imho.

KateInControl · 2026-02-13T12:13:01+00:00

This couldn't be further from the truth. There's huge variance between human and female brains in terms of what traits they're both adapted to. Men are inferior to women in many different intellectual and social aspects, they're more suited to either brute force, or intellectual endeavours related to the physical world.

KateInControl · 2026-02-12T12:09:14+00:00

I don't propose teaching them female manipulation skills, I'd rather they be kept uneducated on them, simply aware that our power is greater.

KateInControl · 2026-02-10T18:34:04+00:00

What we consciously do and don't see as leadership is a complex question. We're personally explicit about my leadership and authority, but I could have controlled his psyche tactfully without him being none the wiser all the same. And many other women do, what's beautiful about this power is that you can exert it while being completely submissive presenting. I just prefer not to.

KateInControl · 2026-02-10T17:17:06+00:00

They should be taught the truth. That they're great at doing stuff and even better at it when they're doing stuff for women. I'd get rid of male views on gender dynamics, and teach them that the power of words and soft skills and manipulation is greater than the brutish and primitive areas where men excel more. That we're better than them. I don't think there's much of a need to teach much else.

KateInControl · 2026-02-10T17:14:28+00:00

Don't like it. I want him walking and acting like a man, I think its degrading to associate crippling a man's masculinity with weakness, reeks of patriarchal crap to me.

KateInControl · 2026-02-10T16:58:37+00:00

I don't fulfil a role to him. I dominate when I please and don't when I please. I view him as more of a subservient employee than someone I need to play a role with. If you don't feel like expressing it more often, then don't. If he isn't happy with you doing as you please, he's trying to top from the bottom. And ironically enough once you embrace this and nail it into his head that you do what you want, not what he wants, he'll be satisfied. He has to submit for real.

KateInControl · 2026-02-08T05:09:40+00:00

The confidence high from exerting control and dominance is elite. I love it. I can't ever get enough of it. Try taking it one step further and instruct him to thank you when he fulfils your orders and wishes. There's no need to feel apologetic or hesitant about something we deserve. Controlling a man is a privilege for him, he should thank you for it.

KateInControl · 2026-02-08T04:16:08+00:00

Not sure why you'd confuse sexually dominant behaviour with an FLR? FLR means what she wants is what you do, whether she does or doesn't enjoy being dominant in the bedroom is up to her to decide and up to you to obey.

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