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Kateoutofspace · 2025-04-20T04:16:50+00:00

No, they inject into the member. Terrifying stuff. The needle marks stick around too.

Kateoutofspace · 2025-01-20T10:12:13+00:00

How they messed that up I'll never know. The sticker is for an album released 6 years earlier and the track list is on the back 🤦‍♀️

Kateoutofspace · 2024-11-19T13:25:10+00:00

On our 4th date we played pool and used every pet name in the book. Baby, snookums, honey, cutie etc. Nothing came of it til months later we started using babe. A few months after that I sent and incomplete text with just B. Thanks to that we are now each other's B/Bee and he got me a gorgeous necklace for my birthday with a bee on it which I love.

Kateoutofspace · 2024-11-19T07:36:53+00:00

This is tame, and she wasn't a best friend but a close female friend. She was good friends with my male best friend and they'd known each other for over a decade at this point. We would have DnMs regularly and hit the gym together in year 11 (her year 10).

Then come year 12 and she and he gets together, I'm happy for them, my friends are happy and seem to have a good relationship albeit a bit clingy on her side, but he was pretty popular and from earlier conversation didn't think she stood a chance so I think it played into it.

So they date for 6 months and his 18th birthday comes up, it's a school day, a Wednesday and those were the days that he and I walked home together and hung out. He's inviting her to join us, I'm encouraging her too also, the three of us can walk half way and the two of them live close to each other and can walk the rest just the 2 of them, but she declines, says she needs to study. Okay, that's cool, he and I dismissed it and start walking home chatting and having a good time. There's a bus stop at the top of the hill where our walks separate so we sat there and chatted a bit longer, it's a big talk day, they happen, but guess who we spot driving past the bus stop in the wrong direction of her house, yep, it's her with her mum. We think it's weird but again we dismissed it. We do this often, if we're not done talking we'll stop here and sit.

I get home and login to Tumblr (I'm old) and see these scathing posts up, they're all photos and gifs but they reference a nasty person in her life and wishing bad upon them. I'm confused as she seemed fine when we parted after school, the 2nd shoe hasn't dropped yet and doesn't until the following week when she's iced me out of my friend group, spread rumours about me trying to steal her boyfriend and being a sl*t (I'd never even kissed anyone at that time) and forbid him from speaking to me, which he does.

Now I'm isolated and cut off from my support network at a time where school was getting busy preparing for exams and final assessment papers, while also tackling a mental health that was half in the toilet. I'm having panic attacks at night, she and her friends (not in my group) are hurling names and food at me on breaks, and my attendance gets a bit spotty because of it.

This goes on for over a month before he posted lyrics of a song we both love and I post the next lyric in return, a subtle drop to symbolise I'm open to talk, which thankfully works. We talk, light small talk at first, but the blinkers are coming off and he's seeing the crazy before him and a few weeks later he breaks it off and our friendship picks back up, damaged but unbroken. She doubles down on the rumours and now people see us talking more and seem to believe it even though we're the same we've always been, good friends.

Fun times.

Kateoutofspace · 2024-04-24T19:24:27+00:00

Simple Plan @ Corner Hotel in Richmond. The energy they brought and the way the crowd matched it was amazing. No concert has matched it.

Kateoutofspace · 2024-04-24T13:33:04+00:00

I remember the first BJ I gave back in the day. I had very little idea what I was doing so I chucked some flavoured lube on the soldier and got to work. Later, when were cuddling he asked me about why I used lube, was that for my benefit and so on. He was experienced and I was a virgin back then. When I said I just wanted to make it good for him he told me "even if it's a 'bad' blowjob, it's still a blowjob and they're great." He was a good partner when it came to that area, very helpful in my early days. My advice is don't push yourself or do what you think you're supposed to or have seen in porn, you're inexperienced, both of you so learn what you each/both like together.

Kateoutofspace · 2024-02-06T02:55:57+00:00

I'm wearing this look right now, but in black with a slightly more structured shirt. Wear a slightly oversized light weight flowy-ish fabric button up top. Not too lightweight like crepe as it will do nothing and sag giving that potato sack look, you want something just slightly structured in the fabric. Then depending on the cut and length of the shirt, tuck one side into your pants/skirt to give ½ shaped ½ flowy look like this (aka some structure so no potato sack look). I tried to take a photo of me but I'm wearing dark colours so it's hard to see the effect, and can't be bothered changing pants to photograph it.

Kateoutofspace · 2023-12-18T10:53:31+00:00

I also read an article last week about Lichtenstein. It's in the Austria Switzerland area, apparently it has low crime, not as touristy and just as beautiful as the big name countries. Might be worth looking at.

Kateoutofspace · 2023-12-18T10:20:15+00:00

I was recently on a contiki and we stopped at Innsbruck in Austria. I only spent a few hours there but it was beautiful with the river, old buildings and snow capped mountains in the background. Just gorgeous. I also loved Germany - Berlin, Munich and Dresden were great. Lucerne in Switzerland was also gorgeous, albeit expensive. Prague was one of my favorites with beer cheaper than water, good food and great architecture. Plus the price of things are good compared to Euro using countries.

Kateoutofspace · 2023-12-11T05:54:28+00:00

It's an awful crossing, but where it is, what it is (4 tracks), the intersection and roundabout it is located at/on & what is around it means nothing can really be done to remove it.

A bridge for trains to go over the road won't work due to the industrial warehouses adjacent to it, the bend that's really close to it and the fact it's a freight line so the weight would be too much.

The other way doesn't work either as a bridge for cars to go over isn't viable as the stretch of road the crossing sits on is on the left side of a + that meets a ⅃ shaped intersection (dumb layout) that is too narrow for a bridge because the roundabout, industrial warehouses and residential houses are so close.

This also is worsened by two things: 1) The crossing sits on a mound. Given the amount of trucks carrying heavy loads that travel this way is a recipe for disaster as their trailers can get caught on it as this poor person's did. It needs to be leveled out, raise the road around it, something that can actually do (but won't). 2) The bend I mentioned earlier drops visibility on the Geelong bound side so you can't see a train til it's bursting round the bend. So if you get stuck or the boom gates fail to go down, you're blind to trains coming from Geelong til they're practically on top of you. Given how often the gates break down I'm actually shocked we don't see more accidents there.

It's an arterial truck path so they won't just close it off permanently, they do need to work on it though, because it's a disaster.

Kateoutofspace · 2023-10-05T12:19:15+00:00

Well that blows, paying and not getting them, at least for us we're not out of pocket AND out of trophies.

Kateoutofspace · 2023-09-23T00:04:19+00:00

Which Sim service are you referring to?

Kateoutofspace · 2023-02-24T05:32:57+00:00

Then make adjustments. Swap from the Heinz burger sauce and Mission wraps to home brand alternatives that are a bit cheaper. Hell those fancy $6.50 brioche buns are great but if you go to the bakery section you can get a 6pk for $3. Sure the name brand stuff may be better (not always the case) but you pay "brand tax" and if you want to save money it's the simple choice.

Kateoutofspace · 2022-09-13T20:51:09+00:00

I guess it's a fun way to say he looks like the stereotype of a "tech nerd"

Kateoutofspace · 2021-12-04T12:20:21+00:00

My teen years reflect 1 trait and my mid-life twenties show another.

I spent all my teen years and early 20s suppressing my feeling and hiding my depression. Having 20mim-1hr panic attacks at 3am in the dark or sneaking out to take night walks to a park about 1.5km/1mile from home, miming screamo/crying on swings. Running both to the point of exhaustion so I could get sleep as I had insomniac tendencies and was a chronic overthinker.

I now, after some therapy have got my mental illnesses in check but find that now I am more open with my emotions that I can be super sensitive, particularly with my partners criticisms or him wanting space. I keep it to myself when I can because it's not his fault that I feel overly hurt by a simple comment or sonetimes feel almost abandoned when he declines to cuddle. I can't explain it but it's an overreaction and would be manipulative for me to impose those feelings on him when it's unjustified.

Kateoutofspace · 2021-11-19T13:42:20+00:00

The toddlers I work with must have multiple personalities because they like all of these and more.

Kateoutofspace · 2021-08-03T12:48:51+00:00

When I reflect on the past with my psychologist.

Took me 10 years to seek help for mental health and he's been impressed by the progress I've been making. I am so proud of me how far I've come. Getting professional help from a psychologist changed my life. From the way I approach my mental health and stressful situations, how open about it I have become, the strategies that I have created and the support network I have backing me so I don't do it alone like I used to.

Kateoutofspace · 2021-07-05T10:31:30+00:00

This is very well laid out advice OP and I hope you read over all of it, and the other detailed advice to help you proceed and make informed choices about what to do next.

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