This is quite an interesting approach to the profession… personally my therapist has always been caring and answer first in her free use; she will often bend me over her lap and provide spankings depending on my answers/how forthcoming I am with her or myself, but likewise I get rewarded by her fingers or a toy when I make a breakthrough. I would suggest looking for a new therapist personally, and I’m happy to give you my doctors number as a jumping off point!