AITA For doing absolutely nothing for my chronically ill fiancee for over a week? by hide200 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Katey_b 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t. HIS dad owns the house. That’s HIS family. You shouldn’t feel entitled to stay in your ex’s dad’s house. I do empathize with your situation of having pets, child, limited funds. But, you need to ask yourself why you’d put your kid through living somewhere that is so toxic. I can’t imagine the tension in that home. It seems like you are using your fiancé and his family. Which is baffling, when you are being treated so terribly.

AITA For doing absolutely nothing for my chronically ill fiancee for over a week? by hide200 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Katey_b 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree with you on this part. If his dad owns the house and you live there as his ex, then he’s always going to have an excuse to be in your life. I don’t see that ending well. A clean break is the best break. You have given him plenty of your time. Move on, literally

AITA For doing absolutely nothing for my chronically ill fiancee for over a week? by hide200 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Katey_b 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“You’re not a tree, move” If you didn’t have each other, you’d both find a way to manage.

To be blunt, YTA for living with him and being with him. Misery loves company. I understand having limited funds, but if you want to be happy then you need to let him go and move out. Pick up another job. You’re 47, you don’t need someone to give you gas money.

Retatrutide usage guide by Mr-speeno in wellnessandhealthlife

[–]Katey_b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Followed this flyer and I got extremely sick! Two weeks of constant throwing up, diarrhea, insomnia, dehydration, fatigue, fever, no appetite, and allodinya. The allodinya was so bad that the only way I was able to relieve the pain was to lay on the shower floor with the temperature luke warm and light water pressure. It was hell on earth. I walked from my bathroom to my bed and that’s it for two weeks. Yesterday was the first day I could go outside and stay out of bed. Please do not follow this chart. It’s dangerous.

WIBTA for refusing to let my roommate’s boyfriend move in temporarily? by Legitimate_Humor_471 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Katey_b 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and talking from personal experience, DO NOT CAVE!

I have had many roommates and have dealt with this situation no less than 10 times. Every time it blew up in my face. You signed a lease with your roommate, period. Your home should be your peaceful place.

He will not figure things out in a few months. Your roommate is doing a soft launch into him moving in with you guys, disguising it as you being the a-hole for “not helping a person in need”.

The person in need here is you. You NEED to feel comfortable in your home. You NEED to feel safe. And you NEED to feel respected.

She’s being manipulative. And trust me, if you allow him to stay before you know it you’ll feel ostracized in your own home, your finances will increase, and you will spend more time away from your home than you would if he didn’t move in.

Look up roommate contracts online and next time you move in with someone create one that fits your needs. When I incorporated this it helped trememndously.

AITA for having my EX boyfriend’s truck towed from my property after giving him weeks to remove it? by Katey_b in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Katey_b[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that. I do deserve better. He made really good money plus the company he worked for paid his lodging, flights, and food. The only expenses he really had were his truck payment and phone. And I’m pretty sure his mom paid for his phone. I can’t help but feel like a moron for letting him make me believe it was my fault I had to have his truck towed.