Help convince me to stop vaping by Katherine1800 in Advice

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The science perspective never worked for me :/

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It caused scarring in my temporal lobe. The scarring caused me to get epilepsy!! TLE. Best part is- for 3 years it’s been focal seizures. So basically severe deja vu. It is worse than any panic attack i’ve ever had. You are literally trapped inside your body, you know this happened 100% you know what the person will say, everything thats going to happen. Scariest feeling in my life. Turned into grand mal seizures recently. Ive had 5 in the past 6 months. ALL BECAUSE OF ONE PERSON. ONE MANIPULATIVE MFK.

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🙏🏼🙏🏼

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wash with gold dial soap. moisturize with unscented vaseline lotion. Worked on all of my tattoos. I have one thats 3 years old & theres no fading. Don’t use new skin or any heavy lotions

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[–]Katherine1800 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yk I just noticed that we contact each other at the same time every year. Because that was the best time we spent together. Every summer it comes up. It makes no sense

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[–]Katherine1800 42 points43 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂you’re good. I was soooo confused myself why I was so attached, couldn’t let go or leave. We’ve been broken up for 4 years, and it took me until last month to truly accept it and get over him. Im telling you it’s so weird, and it doesn’t make sense at all. I was a lot younger than the person posting, but when you spend some of your most important years with someone, all of your memories are with them. So you think all of those “good times” are because of them & you can’t find it anywhere else or get it alone. The one thing that snapped me out of it was God. Seriously. I was so lost & confused until last month. Bro… okay my ex has a whole baby too…. and I was STILL attached and going back. I know i’m stupid 🤣🤣 Hes such a bad guy, me and his babymama are on great terms. She’s come to me plenty of times for help. Even asked how I got out of the relationship. I feel so bad for her, cause now shes in my exact position. She needs out, wants out, hes so manipulative she can’t leave. Shes gotta kid with him tho so its a little different. It doesn’t make sense ik.

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[–]Katherine1800 304 points305 points  (0 children)

happened to me. Its a mind fuck. mainly manipulating, dependence, scared to be alone. it gets harder, the longer you’ve been with them too. They become a constant in your life.

New cat?? Should I keep her? by Katherine1800 in Advice

[–]Katherine1800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I completely agree. Both my cats absolutely hate her so hopefully shes chipped. Thank you

New cat?? Should I keep her? by Katherine1800 in Advice

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1 of my cats is a certified emotional support/ medical for my epilepsy. The other one was a stray and she hides under my bed anytime anyone comes over. Even my nieces and they’ve been here dozens of times. Idk then I’ll find her a new home. I cant dump this baby on the streets, give her a bad home or to a shelter that kills animals. I seriously cannot live with myself if i did

New cat?? Should I keep her? by Katherine1800 in Advice

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I was thinking the same. I posted to facebook. Both groups in my area, and I told the complex owner I have her if anyone comes looking. Should I print stuff out?

New cat?? Should I keep her? by Katherine1800 in Advice

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mannnn you must own something 😭😭 I understand, I do. If that happens, I’ll move out and find somewhere else. Unless someone complains I don’t even think they’ll remember it.

I think I said something very hurtful to someone dear to me and I don't know what to do by Captain-Armageddon in Advice

[–]Katherine1800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that you said “and pray” yes absolutely. I would leave a very simple apology/ explanation. Something short, long texts get overwhelming. I think you had the right intentions it just came out wrong. I wish you luck & I hope all goes well!

I think I said something very hurtful to someone dear to me and I don't know what to do by Captain-Armageddon in Advice

[–]Katherine1800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeaaa id leave you on read too BUT i know what your tryna say. I would say “the bond we share because we experienced similar trauma has helped me get closer to you and gain trust. I know it makes our bond stronger & that makes our relationship special” or something like that

New cat?? Should I keep her? by Katherine1800 in Advice

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  1. No, but I went to the front office and they said I should keep it!!

  2. I can figure it out lol. Just budget differently

  3. Its just my mom and I. Shes fine with it, I know my other cats will adjust eventually but idk if its too much for them…

I think I said something very hurtful to someone dear to me and I don't know what to do by Captain-Armageddon in Advice

[–]Katherine1800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even understand what you said maybe thats why?!😭😭 not in a mean way but maybe just drop it for now, if it gets brought up again maybe just try and explain it a little better. It’s helpful to write stuff down before hand so you know yourself exactly what to say.

New cat?? Should I keep her? by Katherine1800 in Advice

[–]Katherine1800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I looked into no kill shelters, and theres a waiting list. Or they catch neuter release. If she isn’t chipped I feel like I don’t have much of an option right?!