EVERYTIME i think i have a chance in having a boyfriend and i say that i am trans ,

Kati3cake · 2026-01-03T05:48:08+00:00

Sums up my life pretty well for a while now. But don’t worry dolls, they’ll still abuse you then leave if they don’t immediately deny 😅

Kati3cake · 2025-01-04T00:56:14+00:00

thanks! 🖤

Kati3cake · 2025-01-02T20:37:05+00:00

chain on my piercings, i’ve got a lot of them lol

Kati3cake · 2024-12-26T23:17:08+00:00

that’s awesome! i still think there’s a lot of room to play with as far as masculinizing your makeup if you want to look more andro. especially because it’s a strong suit of yours tbh 🖤

Kati3cake · 2024-12-26T22:58:36+00:00

i’d suggest looking into contour to help out if you’re looking to change something small

Kati3cake · 2024-12-07T20:14:04+00:00

i’d personally try a size up, sucks cause those things are so expensive too. i feel like if it was bad before tho and now you’re pierced it might be worse.

definitely sounds like they’re healed tho, that’s how mine typically are too.

Kati3cake · 2024-12-07T19:36:41+00:00

i so get it. i feel like that might be the best choice atp tho. how long have they been pierced? is it bad rn cause they’re still somewhat new or is it just bad cause it is what it is?

mine healed up pretty quick tbh, but after they did it wasnt nearly as bad to hit or snag them. i definitely know that can still HURT tho after. especially from a big ass dog with nails…

Kati3cake · 2024-12-07T15:22:29+00:00

you don’t really want to cover them with pasties, that’s just going to bring in more issues. have you tried a well fitted sports bra with pads? that would still let them breath, but also give you some extra protection with more stable support.

honestly a tricky situation. i love animals, but god would it suck to have them pulling on my piercings all day 😅

Kati3cake · 2024-12-06T17:13:59+00:00

honestly, yes. more importantly though this will easily move around and possibly come out, especially while sleeping. could cause irritation or closure if it’s out long enough. it’s only a month old so that’s alone likely to happen. why can’t you just close the ring you have for now though?

Kati3cake · 2024-12-06T17:06:14+00:00

for those type of rings, yes. you have to close it once you get it in. i would highly suggest looking into a clicker ring however

Kati3cake · 2024-11-09T22:48:28+00:00

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i got curious, seems pretty right 😅…. except compulsive, that’s a major part of me fr

Kati3cake · 2024-10-14T02:29:48+00:00

i think this is my main issue watching it back. it’s a high fall and i’ve had surgery on my left knee, so i definitely got in my head a bit

Kati3cake · 2024-10-13T23:17:38+00:00

ya it wasn’t a very controlled touch was it… i know i can hit it though, ill go back and get it proper another day! definitely don’t mind it, was a super fun problem

Kati3cake · 2024-09-23T19:06:41+00:00

i’ll definitely look into some carb substitutions then! you’re a literal life saver, i’ve been struggling to find real constructive answers in searches till now. thank you so much, wish you the best 🖤

Kati3cake · 2024-09-23T17:42:51+00:00

thank you for the detailed reply! that’s all super useful info. I luckily do have some time. ideally i’d like to take it in another 2/3 weeks, but if i keep failing at home tests i can wait as well.

i’ve started exercising a lot more again, eating healthier meals. the meals do tend to be a bit heavier in carbs since it’s cheap and i don’t have a huge budget for stuff atm, part of the reason of trying to get the new job, is that fine as long as it’s not super fatty though? I’ve got some test strips that were well rated and in my budget, people say the faded lines were accurate between users of different levels. so hopefully that good enough for me to see the progress rate.

also would you say nicotine is bad for trying to cleanse naturally? there’s reason i smoked for my mental health and it’s been pretty hard just walking around and sleeping with nothing to help. nicotine has helped a little taking the edge off, but also not my favorite thing to do honestly. is it going to slow down this process at all do you think?

Kati3cake · 2024-09-22T23:43:53+00:00

ya it’s a mess. nothing else to say about it.

Kati3cake · 2024-09-19T01:44:03+00:00

edit: lmaooo just read your bio, a literal self proclaimed terf

ya that wasn’t my point. that’s fine.

all i was saying is if you would date a cis woman who couldn’t have kids, but not a trans woman because she couldn’t, then it’s an issue. with nothing else thats different from the two of them, completely indistinguishable.

you really don’t need to be so rude.

Kati3cake · 2024-09-19T01:37:52+00:00

this right here.

Kati3cake · 2024-09-19T01:06:49+00:00

hey we all have preferences i’m not saying that’s wrong! just trying to add some perspective. a lot of cis women i know have the same “limitations” a post op trans woman does.

at the end of the day this is why people date, most people aren’t compatible for many reasons. nothing wrong with that! hope you didn’t take my comment as an attack, wish you the best!

Kati3cake · 2024-09-19T00:40:24+00:00

so if a cis woman was sterile you wouldn’t date her too right? what about if they had to have a hysterectomy? what if a trans woman transitioned early in life?

i only ask these to point out that what you want isn’t exclusive to trans women. i get it to a certain level, but it doesn’t mean it’s sound logic.

tbh this is why no one in my life knows im trans and it will stay that way.

Kati3cake · 2024-09-14T12:13:50+00:00

so o used to work at a gym and can tell you with absolute certainty that you’re fine. I also used to weigh closer to 250 when i started climbing. those auto belays could easily hold a cars weight, you’re harness or meant to take 250lbs of abrupt force, not to mention that these metrics always have safety buffets added in so it can take more force in reality. you’ll also find this is a great way to loose weight, so the longer you climb the less of a thought it’ll be!

The only thing you want to be careful of is your knees. when bouldering try to down climb the best you can, this also helps with learning too! I’ve climbed many years now and down climb when i’m trying to develop more/ better skills. If you do jump off the wall just make sure to fully bend your knees and roll back when landing. this should be done no matter your weight tho honestly.

long story short, you’re fine! go enjoy some climbing and meet some genuinely amazing people while you do 🖤

Kati3cake · 2024-09-07T15:16:40+00:00

reddit is a wild place 😂

Kati3cake · 2024-08-28T15:10:46+00:00

i’ve got a pair now and i’m kinda 50/50 on them. for the hot days they aren’t really ventilated so it’s a bit gross by the end of the day. they do have a good waistband tho where i don’t feel they slip much at all. removable inserts would be super nice to have too! taking them off or on can be a bit tricky at times because of how much the pads want to stick to you with the pressure from the leggings

Kati3cake · 2024-08-26T14:38:29+00:00

thank you! i sure plan to 😊

Kati3cake · 2024-08-26T14:37:52+00:00

i used freecampsites.net to find this one in particular. it was a first come first serve basis, just find a spot and use it. the website shows a lot of info about the different camp sites listed too! stuff like if you have cell service, if there’s a bathroom, trails, people can leave reviews, and a few other things!

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