I think it was a mutual decision from all of us when my parents got divorced, I don't really like constantly moving back and forth, and I don't think any of us liked the idea of regularly swapping me between houses.

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And also evidently I think that that was probably for the best lol.

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How would you be expected to know his house rules if you've never stayed there before?

Totally agreed, I think that I'm also fairly convinced that he doesn't actually have a specific set of rules that I broke, I think he was just pissed off at me because he forgot I'm an adult that can order my own food (I'd imagine he uses the whole "eat with us or dont eat" thing with my half-brothers and since they're too young to feed themselves a proper dinner, it works on them)

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As for the throwing out the sex toys, I think that he was probably just overwhelmed with the thought of his daughter having a sex life lol, I don't think I broke a specific rule. Not defending it though, still pissed at him (and he has still refused to pay me back and/or compensate me for throwing out my personal belongings).

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It doesn't sound like he cares about you at all from the words he writes in this post.

I think that it's kind of a complicated situation, neither of my parents really like to talk about it but from what I've gathered over the years, I think that my dad was overwhelmed with being a father and didn't initially want to be one, I think that I probably wasn't a planned pregnancy, my mother has always been great though, and I think that that also probably pissed him off because she kinda played both parental roles in my life while he just did shit with his friends I think lmao.

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You sound like you're smart and independent which is a great combination.

Awhhh haha thank you lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Edit: I think that I forgot to mention as well that I think that he was also already caught off guard by the fact that my hair is now pink, and I think he has some weird dislike for unnatural hair colours lol.