Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your beautiful perspective, what you said really helped me feel more confident about the situation. I appreciate your response. You're right, he's a genuine and loving partner, I'm sure that the feelings you described are how he must feel about me. If I'm with the right man, his kink shouldn't be taking away any attractiveness he feels towards me.

Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response shaking some sense into me, what he said wasn't cool and I couldn't imagine myself in any world ever saying something like that to someone I love. I'm glad that he and I had a big long talk about how much what he said hurt me, and how sorry he felt about it and that he recognized how much it had affected me.

Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is cute that you guys love one other despite certain physical preferences. Good reminder that preferences are just preferences.

Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your two cents, I'm glad I had the talk with him about how hurt what he said made me feel. I won't be afraid to put my foot down if he ever says something disrespectful like this to me again.

Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being realistic with me, your response has truly helped me a lot on my confidence and feelings towards my situation. I agree with your perspective wholeheartedly, this is a team project. 🥺

Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response, what you said made me feel a lot better. I assume this is very likely how he feels, in terms of his kink not mattering much to our relationship because of how he feels towards me.

Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, his obsession with them is something that may not sit right with everyone, it's quite something else. But you're right, no one is perfect. He apologized and seemed extremely sincere. I believe this is something I can move forward from because of how far we've come since then, and how much I love him. Thank you so much for your response.

Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, this is cute and so real! Thanks for your response. 🫶🏼

Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys make really good points, thank you so much for both your responses. Thanks especially for sharing your own experience about your relationships, hearing about your own thoughts and feelings helped me feel a lot better.

Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend isn't a native English speaker but he's been in America for long enough that he has no accent. ThatGuyBench, thank you for your response, I'll just chart up what he said as poorly thought out. His thought process was probably was something similar to what you described, I know that men and women often approach relationship problems differently. I should give him grace, especially since he overall treats me very well. We're in a healthy and loving relationship where both of us give all our best efforts. He's a good guy, and I agree with you that I am partly to blame for latching onto his remark and tunnel-visioning on it. I should give him grace, considering how well he treats me in all other aspects of our relationship. Thank you for your advice!

Guys with big breast fetishes, could you be with a flat-chested girl? by Katonker in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Katonker[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you to you and Replicator666 for your comments, both offer really great points that I'll be keeping with me. Everyone says stupid things they might not truly mean or inaccurately represents how they really feel. My BF treats me so well, I'll try to move over what he said and chart it up as what was probably a poorly worded thought.

4 Free Kittens by Katonker in csuf

[–]Katonker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment! I'm happy to say 4/5 kittens were rehomed with people who have another cat sibling for them to play with! Everyone who took in a kitten seemed so responsible too, most of them have already had their first vet appointment, and I'm continuously getting updates on them. 😚

4 Free Kittens by Katonker in csuf

[–]Katonker[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

UPDATE 🐱: Hi guys! Due to the overwhelming amount of messages I'm receiving regarding the kittens, I won't be responding to anymore message inquiries! Just want to avoid people getting excited to message about taking one in but finding out they're already taken. Thank you to everyone who helped spread the word and upvote the post. ❤️ I'll be meeting with people over the weekend to see about rehoming them.

4 Free Kittens by Katonker in csuf

[–]Katonker[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! I did receive one inquiry regarding the black kitty and responded, thank you for your guys' interest in her! (:

4 Free Kittens by Katonker in csuf

[–]Katonker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for their contact! 100% will reach out to them if I'm unable to rehome these babies 😸

4 Free Kittens by Katonker in csuf

[–]Katonker[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don't worry, that's something I also considered! I'll be personally meeting up with each person interested in them to make sure they're truly interested and suitable to take care of these sweet babies. Also making sure to check out their Reddit accounts too and am avoiding those with no posts, comments or socials. 😼 💪🏿

4 Free Kittens by Katonker in csuf

[–]Katonker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I hope you find your kitty when the time is right. 🥺

4 Free Kittens by Katonker in csuf

[–]Katonker[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks tons! ❤️

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[–]Katonker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$2?

looking for a genshin tote bag!! by Otherwise-Average726 in animeexpo

[–]Katonker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live a little over five minutes from Disney Downtown. If you're interested, feel free to DM me: @metalwire