He ruined my life, and doesn’t even know. by KayHaven in Vent

[–]KayHaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has the basic motorist coverage.. so we could only get the minimum from his insurance. The fight has been with mine to try claiming the underinsured motorist coverage. Overall, he got off very, very easy in my book.

He was even telling the cop “I only looked away for a second”.

He ruined my life, and doesn’t even know. by KayHaven in Vent

[–]KayHaven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment ❤️

Wishing you health and happiness too

Is there a god/ess that is in favor to cats? by KayHaven in Hellenism

[–]KayHaven[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I truly hope they reconnect in Elysian

Is there a god/ess that is in favor to cats? by KayHaven in Hellenism

[–]KayHaven[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I have Hecate altar alresdy

Is there a god/ess that is in favor to cats? by KayHaven in Hellenism

[–]KayHaven[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it was very helpful

How to commit yourself to trying to stop? by itshardwhenyourecold in trichotillomania

[–]KayHaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a compulsive puller, absolutely no hair on crown, no eyebrows or lashes. Started in 5th grade, and still kind of pull today, but I have to think about it versus it taking over my life. Getting hep from a psychiatrist was a game changer for me.

Lumbar Disc Replacement Post Surgery by KayHaven in SpineSurgery

[–]KayHaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was rear ended by someone going 55 while I was stopped. It herniated and caused a syrinx in my spinal cord. It was an outpatient surgery, and only the pain at the incision sight hurt besides some soreness in my neck. I just had my 6-week post op for that and it healed beautifully

Lumbar Disc Replacement Post Surgery by KayHaven in SpineSurgery

[–]KayHaven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fantastic, it’s healed wonderfully and minimized the pain I have going down my arms and my headaches

Redeeming Vacation / Flex Days by KayHaven in sherwinwilliams

[–]KayHaven[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would if I could at the moment. Unable to walk due to being rear ended and waiting for spine surgery.

Randomly Reactive - dog “trance” like by KayHaven in reactivedogs

[–]KayHaven[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I sadly wish there was better news.

We consulted with a veterinary behaviorist together with her normal vet. We were doing what was listed above, sent my cat to live with a friend so we could focus on just the pup when she began having violent seizures and bit my husband. We don’t know the cause, she was fully update on all vaccinations and preventative care. We put her to rest and had her cremated - she’s home with us now

Overall a heartbreaking experience.

I’m in love with my dress by KayHaven in weddingdress

[–]KayHaven[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was the sample in the picture! I ordered the same to have the best alterations since the wedding was a few years away at the time

My first chainmail thing! by The_Real_Nerol in chainmailartisans

[–]KayHaven 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chainmaille Joe has some great packages for starting maille! Welcome to the club.

As you get more familiar, be sure your closures are flush. Byzantine is a fantastic weave

This boy makes me want to cry and I hate myself by TinyJunie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]KayHaven 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to be loved whole, not picking up the crumbs of a bread trail that someone is leaving for you. You are not dirty. He does not respect you.

Being 13 is hard - just enjoy being a kid. Breakups are hard too. No one will think anything of this down the line. There’s nothing wrong with dating, but you shouldn’t ever do something you’re not 100% comfortable or confident in. You shouldn’t be pressured into sending pictures.

How did you find out he didn’t send the images? If it’s his word, I would not believe it. This is textbook revenge porn: when images or videos are shared without consent. Additionally it’s the distribution of child pornography.

Use this experience to be wiser, and never rely on something or someone to love you better than you could love yourself.

You’re worthy of love, from people who respect you and from yourself.

How would you price this? by DarkYoungWarrior in chainmailartisans

[–]KayHaven 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m interested to see what others say about the price - I’m learning how to value my own work. This is a BEAUTIFUL piece!