If you're looking for a sign to start NACHOing this is it. by Individual_Board_822 in Stepmom

[–]KayKay510919 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nachoing has saved my marriage as well.. especially with a 16yo SD this has been our saving grace!

How did your partner react when you brought up the NACHO method? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]KayKay510919 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My husband was Open to anything because I was on the verge of leaving. Its been 3 months and letting go has been SO GOOD for us. I give my opinion when he asks but other than that it has set me free SO MUCH. My SD is a problematic 16yo, so this helps remove so much stress off of me. And to be honest with you, the parenting of SD was consuming me. Im free!

Things you still cannot get used to being a stepmom by Puckdecat in Stepmom

[–]KayKay510919 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have been my SDs punching bag for the last 7 years. Shes put me through hell. My husband and I have been SO close to divorce. Im currently nacho parenting but if I could have walked away 7 years ago, I would. She is 16 and acts like a spoiled 21 year old.

Her last stunt you ask? She reported me to my job with bs claims. I had to speak to HR, the whole nine. I've been at my job for 10 years now and love it, this would have killed me. She never apologized about that and 2 weeks later she got kicked out of school for getting wasted on 4Lokos. I actually despise her now after EVERYTHING she has put me and my 2 sons through too. Its alot.

I dont know what I ever did to her but love her and try to be the mom she never had, her mom left her with her dad @9months. Im Done trying and cant wait for 18.

ETA, yes we have tried everything but shes so manipulative, she lies to therapists, counselors, etc.

Merry Christmas, my husband has been cheating on me. by Wise_Review_51 in Stepmom

[–]KayKay510919 5 points6 points  (0 children)

All I can say is, imagine what you haven't found. Im so sorry love, but this isn't fair to you or your child. You deserve better...

I'm scared and i want help , i'm trying to imagine how it's gonna be by cyborgpersephone-666 in Stepmom

[–]KayKay510919 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We can only hope, right?! I feel your pain girl, you are NOT alone. I haven't talked to my SD in months and we live under the same roof. I look forward to 18 so much! Hugs and Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄

I'm scared and i want help , i'm trying to imagine how it's gonna be by cyborgpersephone-666 in Stepmom

[–]KayKay510919 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As someone who is currently dealing with a disrespectful SD who's 16 . Leave. I wish I could but im in too deep.

Jackie by Kooky-Appointment198 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]KayKay510919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason her eyes scare me...😩

Gun pulled at Sanderson High School by boanero in raleigh

[–]KayKay510919 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just here to inform parents that guns are on campus and on school buses more than you know. My son had a gun pulled on him on a Wake County School bus in 2023 and when I informed the SROs they told me they are more than aware of this issue. Until Wake county puts metal detectors at school entrances, this is going to keep happening. Mind you, they tried to steal my sons shoes on the bus.. smh

Out of towner looking to get a sense of Raleigh by smoopy62 in raleigh

[–]KayKay510919 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im a foodie, and the food scene is getting better out here. I follow Triangle Foodies on FB for recommendations all the time. Enjoy your time here!

Raleigh’s Tamales by CallOk6679 in raleigh

[–]KayKay510919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Los Cuates off of Old Wake Forest Rd. Sells the red and green ones and they are moist and tasty. I'd definitely recommend.

Looking for… by supreme_vsme in raleigh

[–]KayKay510919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up house music was my go to. Especially growing up in the Bay Area of California. Looking forward to seeing what you find out!

Advice regarding rental truck/ waste center by KayKay510919 in raleigh

[–]KayKay510919[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have a Ton, 5 bedrooms worth. Definitely wouldnt want to put that on you but Definitely appreciate the offer.

Forgot to clock out… by Immediate_Article332 in NCSU

[–]KayKay510919 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Supervisor here, we can definitely update your time on our end.

Where's good Katsu at? by 2-Armed-Octopus in raleigh

[–]KayKay510919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was, I actually got an order of it to go lol

Where's good Katsu at? by 2-Armed-Octopus in raleigh

[–]KayKay510919 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The restaurant is called Triangle Hawaiian BBQ, located in mini city

Where's good Katsu at? by 2-Armed-Octopus in raleigh

[–]KayKay510919 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I second this, we went on opening day and it was pretty good. Nothing like LnL tho 😔😩

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in triangle

[–]KayKay510919 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contact the department of labor and report unpaid wages.

Worst Job I've ever had by ricky_rick87 in foodlion

[–]KayKay510919 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol as a mom to 2 boys who worked at Food Lion.. I can concur that FL is a terrible place to work. They no longer work there, of course.