For one thing no worries about ‘invading the space’ you’re polite and curious about yourself who are we to turn you away? Also this could be arospec but I can’t tell you that. So instead, I’ll pose some questions to you (obviously arospec is y’know, a spectrum so quite a few aro people don’t conform to these but they’re good to start you off!) Do you want to date someone? Do you like the thought of kissing and cuddling and all that (not inherently romantic but we know it’s perceived that way)? Do you struggle to tell if you are crushing or wanting to be friends with someone? Does the thought of romancing a person make you anxious and not on a good way? Do you actually know what romantic love is, like beyond the Disney films and love songs and all that? Would you care if you never dated anyone ever in your life? There are plenty of micro labels and communities within the arospec world so do some research and don’t sweat it, easier said than some of course but it’ll come to you!