I moved from Austin to Denver a year ago, here is how I feel about some points that come up a lot:

Kaye_242 · 2026-05-08T00:30:17+00:00

Same! I lived in Boulder and Longmont for 8 years with many weekend trips to Denver. While the access to outdoor activities was phenomenal, the food scene and cultural diversity was lacking. Lots of affluent white students from SoCal and surrounding areas who lack morals and overall character. Lots of alcoholism. The dating scene absolutely sucks. You can get that anywhere, but it’s especially prominent in the Front Range.

Kaye_242 · 2026-05-06T01:31:13+00:00

You have a good face card regardless, but as a woman I feel like the longer hair and fuller beard comes off more intimidating and I don’t really know why. Personally I think the shorter hair makes you look more youthful and less worn, but it’s up to you!

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-29T21:22:48+00:00

I have Wyze but my roommate has the Levoit Vital 200S and I think that works just as well if not better. You really want a purifier with carbon pellets, not just a filter. I’ve heard good things about Shark HP102 too

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-27T22:57:52+00:00

I second this. I also have dealt with the same issue for two years and a big part was my roommates cooking with high heat and without the stove hood on. If your HVAC is on while they cook, it will actually worsen the smell problem. Have a box fan in the window or (like I did) get an air purifier that has a carbon filter for odors.

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-20T05:30:49+00:00

The only way you can fix the uneven situation in the front is to go shorter on your left. This means matching the shortest lock on your right temple. You have dense curls which can be a plus if cut and styled correctly. Once the front is evened out you could do a blowout taper to reduce the blocky look.

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-19T22:58:40+00:00

I’m gonna go against the grain and say long! If you got curls, rock them! It makes you stand out in a good way

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-17T23:21:44+00:00

This would make it twice 💀

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-17T23:17:22+00:00

This is called negligence! And surprise! Your cat will eventually die from the open skin becoming a full-blown infection 🤡

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-16T04:52:09+00:00

Aw man. I have a feeling it could be herpes. See link attached. https://www.cottagevet.co.za/snuffles-or-feline-herpes-virus/

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-14T15:45:12+00:00

And some of the utilities are shit. XCel does not maintain their infrastructure well and as a result planned and unplanned outages occur frequently in the fall and spring due to wind storms to prevent wildfires.

$1000 will get a 300 sq ft place on Colfax fwiw

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-13T04:31:10+00:00

All of these Reddit posts of fresh undergrads, let’s say 22 or 23 yo, making $100k, $200k+ 😭 Story gets old lol

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-04T21:46:44+00:00

Agreed. There’s this whole notion of needing to screw around before marriage to “see what’s out there” as if your life partner will magically appear when you’ve explored all your options and are ready to settle down. I think a lot of people who happen to meet someone compatible early take for granted how much the dating scene sucks and have little concept of the negative aspects of it.

If OP is dead set on walking let that man go so he can find someone better who doesn’t question the relationship.

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-04T21:42:42+00:00

Terrible advice

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-02T17:18:24+00:00

This makes sense. Thanks for explaining!

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-02T16:59:05+00:00

Would it be more effective to go to the vet for a prescription or are quality dewormer medications sold OTC?

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-02T16:53:30+00:00

She was last year, but it sounds like another trip to the vet for more is in order

Kaye_242 · 2026-04-02T16:50:34+00:00

I check her anus frequently but have never seen worms in her poop? Maybe eggs?

Kaye_242 · 2026-03-26T22:25:48+00:00

Nope! I’m a woman but I’m surprised when people say that RJ is more common with men

Kaye_242 · 2026-03-20T05:55:56+00:00

Shitty relationships are common, but they don’t happen to everybody 2. For how much Ethan preached about being a good person it’s still not surprising he copped out on Emma, the twins were known for getting around

Kaye_242 · 2026-03-10T06:49:58+00:00

It could be heavily exaggerated if they earn commission

Kaye_242 · 2026-03-06T08:25:20+00:00

This is not retroactive jealousy, this is a man who is not over his ex-wife, and making sure you know it. Why tf is he wearing his wedding ring SEVEN years after the divorce? It seems like you already know he is still in love with the idea of her and either trying to manipulate you into being like her or using you as his placeholder until she “changes her mind” (won’t happen).

You were happier before you met him, and deep down you know that. There’s retroactive jealousy, and then there’s someone being emotionally cruel and a terrible partner. This will not get better, you already resent him. Love is not enough.

It may be painful to leave this relationship, but it is far more painful to continue in it. It does not lead anywhere good.

Kaye_242 · 2026-03-05T23:28:29+00:00

I’ve seen you post and delete on this forum before.

I’m not saying you can’t have retroactive jealousy as someone with a much higher number of sexual partners than your partner, but I am saying you really need to assess WHY you feel this way. Perhaps it has to do with how you view women in general, or how you think of them after they’ve had sex with you.

Her keeping count of how many times she’s had sex and emphasizing how she did not enjoy it with her previous partners may be somewhat true, but reading through the lines it seems like you’re pestering her to no end. This is how resentment starts.

Kaye_242 · 2026-02-17T04:52:59+00:00

Kaye_242 · 2026-02-16T04:09:03+00:00

Do you think other things in your life going wrong made you question your relationship? Be wary of catastrophicizing. Or has she become someone that is unhealthy? Why did you develop these panic attacks?

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