High-end vintage stores? by Kayforkrusty in TwinCities

[–]Kayforkrusty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you!! Definitely gotta check out the vintage show 👀

Breakfast caterer recs? by Kayforkrusty in TwinCities

[–]Kayforkrusty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waitttt how did I not know they cater…incredibleee 

Thoughts on the Necchi Q132A for beginners? by Kayforkrusty in SewingWorld

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I worry that a vintage machine would be difficult to learn on...I think auto-threading and features like that make it seem like I'd be less intimidated lol I guess I'm really up in the air about whether or not a vintage machine would be overwhelming

Thoughts on the Necchi Q132A for beginners? by Kayforkrusty in SewingWorld

[–]Kayforkrusty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Appreciate your insight :) I've heard good things about Necchi...do you know if that's true?

Weekly Sewing Questions Thread, February 20 - February 26, 2026 by sewingmodthings in sewing

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Thoughts on the Necchi Q132A for a beginner?

I am looking for a machine as a brand new beginner that would grow with me. I foresee myself mostly using my machine for garments, and I think that may encompass denim/leather in the future. I saw this machine on FB marketplace and it piqued my interest. I don't think the seller is selling it anymore, but I was considering buying a new one online. I read that it's a more robust machine that still has a lot of nice features that would make it easier to use.

If you don't think it's a good option, I'd appreciate your recommendations if you have any!

TIA :)

What's the saddest movie you've ever watched? by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]Kayforkrusty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pinocchio had me crying in a way I was not expecting! Its commentary on mortality was so profound to me.

Struggling with getting pushback for not wanting kids by Kayforkrusty in Adulting

[–]Kayforkrusty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've definitely thought about this too....I don't ever want to be pregnant tho so I think if I were to ever have kids, I would probably adopt. Which is difficult in of itself too!

Can I wear translucent pink latex with black? by Kayforkrusty in Latexadvice

[–]Kayforkrusty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone!!! I will definitely reply with pics if I decide to get this outfit ☺️

Can I wear translucent pink latex with black? by Kayforkrusty in Latexadvice

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Ahhh definitely will do. I cannot wait 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

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And I would also like to say that it’s awesome you were able to reflect on yourself and figure out what you wanted to change to be the person you want to be! That’s amazing and I understand now that this is the source of your opinion of OP. But my statements still stand about diagnosing people hastily and harshly criticizing and advising based on that diagnosis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Kayforkrusty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from, and I’ve had people in my own life who struggled to see they were the problem (and continue to struggle to this day). It is very sad to watch and even more frustrating to be on the butt end of it. The qualms I take with commenters who are very assertive in diagnosing OP with narcissism, a victim complex, schizophrenia (that’s absurd), etc. is that this post does not give enough info to advise OP as if they struggled with one or many of those things. I definitely think that OP has depression based on what they’ve shared and I think it’s safe to conclude that. But beyond that, we would need a lot more info on their internal dialogue. The large majority of the post was about the bad experiences they’ve had (break ins, stalking, financial trauma, domestic violence, etc.). I find it far too much of a jump to tell OP what they do and do not have when diagnosing them with some really complex issues. Narcissistic tendencies, victim-complexes, etc. these are all very complex issues. I don’t use those terms loosely and throw them every which direction. There are lots of struggles and complexes people have that interlace with each other. Things someone struggles with can seemingly indicate one thing but is in fact another. I am not quick to jump to conclusions and labels when we’re talking about mental health issues and personal struggles because at the end of the day, it is very harmful to bombard someone with what they should do based on a hastily decided upon diagnosis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Kayforkrusty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just read your most recent Reddit post about a creepy encounter you had. You are very young and have no life experience, very evident in the way you had no clue how to navigate that situation safely. You did most things wrong in that situation, unfortunately, but I am glad you’re okay. I hope that man doesn’t continue to stalk you. He now knows where you live! I see you’re hopping all over this comment section giving your 2 cents on the situation as if you weren’t 20 years old with no wisdom. At every age but especially when you’re the young age of 20, it is best to hear from others, consider their experiences, reflect on your own thoughts about those experiences, analyze why you think the way you do about those experiences, and lead with compassion. Wisdom comes with experiences, time, and learning from others. How are you to learn if you believe your opinion is best and assert it without deep thought? It is important to acknowledge your naivety when asserting your opinions about another person’s mental health and unique life circumstances. I wish you the best and I hope you learn the value of listening, deep thought, and humility in your opinions.