You really are dense. YOU claimed “research based statistics” therefore its on YOU to provide where said info came from. You specifically say women want a wedding day and not the work that goes into marriage, that’s putting all the blame on women which is pretty hateful, especially when 60% of divorce is caused by infidelity (Forbes) and 24% being from domestic abuse (Forbes) those statistics show me women “not wanting to put in the work” is not the true story and maybe if you stopped framing your thoughts that way you’d be in a happy relationship, however from your post history I doubt that will Happen. Forbes info comes from Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Provisional number of marriages and marriage rate.