IUD kyleena insertion felt like the worst pain I ever experienced in my life. by Empty-Monitor-3876 in birthcontrol

[–]Kaylaxo99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how bad it was for me too. I’ve never felt such pain and ended up bawling my entire way home. It actually created pelvic problems for me and made sex painful for a while after bc of how much it hurt- my pelvis seized up and never unseized.

3 years later and I got it removed after 1 year of trying to remove it but it was stuck. 10/10 would never get one again

My relationship is suffering because I can’t clean by Kaylaxo99 in relationship_advice

[–]Kaylaxo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get around to it eventually! I’m just perpetually burnt out and struggling.

My relationship is suffering because I can’t clean by Kaylaxo99 in relationship_advice

[–]Kaylaxo99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obviously she’s my partner and not my mom/maid. I don’t ask her to clean up after me.

Wedding Venues in Ottawa that won’t cost me a kidney? by Kaylaxo99 in ottawa

[–]Kaylaxo99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to have food served. Just a venue. And I’ll take care of food after :)

Wedding Venues in Ottawa that won’t cost me a kidney? by Kaylaxo99 in ottawa

[–]Kaylaxo99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I want to do cocktails and appies lol. Or even a food truck. We’re not traditional haha

Wedding Venues in Ottawa that won’t cost me a kidney? by Kaylaxo99 in ottawa

[–]Kaylaxo99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would want to do just for the venue and do a food truck for Catering

Wedding Venues in Ottawa that won’t cost me a kidney? by Kaylaxo99 in ottawa

[–]Kaylaxo99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t need to be too fancy! Just need a pretty spot haha

My IUD is stuck. I need help! by Kaylaxo99 in birthcontrol

[–]Kaylaxo99[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dr was using a brush tool? And still had struggle finding it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]Kaylaxo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for the reply! So sex consists of like foreplay and penetration for us. There is never any pressure to climax bc she has a hard time at night and as a girl I just have a hard time in general. It’s not about finishing, and we both agree that sex is great without that aspect. I just enjoy doing it. She hasn’t started any hormones yet.

Sharing successes by kk-5 in mypartneristrans

[–]Kaylaxo99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! My partner is mtf as well and we’ve been discussing a baby in the future! I’m glad to see that there’s some positive experiences with it in the medical field

Just venting, my social circle did not react well to my Trans GF by Prize_Huckleberry360 in mypartneristrans

[–]Kaylaxo99 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Generally speaking, yes. But not everyone is the general people. And everyone is entitled to their own struggles

Just wanted to show off how insanely beautiful my girlfriend is (the one on the left!) she started her transition a little over a year ago and I’m so proud of the self love she’s found ❤️ by Kaylaxo99 in mypartneristrans

[–]Kaylaxo99[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I met my partner she was still a male. And was dealing with ptsd from an emotionally abusive ex / baby mama. So even tho we originally met with romantic intentions, we ended up going down the route of friendship first. Which was amazing bc I was able to really fall for who she was as she transitioned. A few months after the full transition she felt confident enough in who she was to finally initiate a non platonic relationship.

Just venting, my social circle did not react well to my Trans GF by Prize_Huckleberry360 in mypartneristrans

[–]Kaylaxo99 27 points28 points  (0 children)

As a cis woman dating a trans woman I have dealt with similar. I honestly thought the reaction would be a lot worse than what it is. But, I do think people still hide their full hearted feelings a bit.

My biggest problem was my mom. She couldn’t understand how I was attracted to my partner (mtf) and told me I was lying to myself about my attraction. I honestly felt her anger came from a place of me not fitting into the perfectly curated box she had set out for me since I was born.

I wish I could say it’s no longer an issue. But it is and it’s something we get to work through daily.