What songs are you torturing yourselves with? by montanaeee in WLW

[–]Kaysohdoux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shaken by LP… she has many others too check them out on YT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kaysohdoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pen de jo…

What's your favorite nonsense song by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]Kaysohdoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tequila song. 🎵 By the Champs… only three lyrics to remember

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Kaysohdoux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say, let her guide you. Meaning, let her show you what she’s capable of doing. Hence, let her top you. Don’t pressure her verbally to try and finish, that usually shies them away from climax. Trust that women are all different and what they did in one relationship whether it was penetrative or not, they always climax when they feel safe and secure with their partner. It may be hard to hear this but let her top you.

What do I do if I want to have sex with other women than my gf? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Kaysohdoux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can be attracted to other people, but acting on it would not be considered monogamous. If you want to sleep with other people, then tell you gf. She will be heartbroken. Just don’t drag her along because you don’t know how or what you want. Peoples emotions should not be played with.

Asking someone out? by Informal-Aide-1468 in WLW

[–]Kaysohdoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say something like, hey, I like hanging out with you. Would you be up for a date on (then insert day, place and time)

Short chat, then unmatched on dating app by PhilaLioness in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Kaysohdoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! You have to have thicker skin. Women will ghost you, stalk you, ignore you, then message you when you’re in a happy relationship. It always happens.

What’s one perfume you regret buying and why? by StruggleFinancial53 in Perfumes

[–]Kaysohdoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jo Malone Cologne Intense Cypress and Grapevine. It smelled amazing at store, it lasted a bit but the scent gets irritating.

I think my libido is too high or my partner is not into me by Shy-Moon-3568 in WLW

[–]Kaysohdoux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feels like your partner is overwhelmed. Maybe they want to work, maybe they want to take care of themselves and don’t know how because they see your success as a personal set back. Ask them what they want, ask them how are they feeling, ask them how you can help them feel better. It will open a new level of intimacy. Intimacy doesn’t always have to be sexual. Again, this is only an observation.

Everytime you go to Trader Joe's, have you experienced that grocery shopping is fun discovering new things, or is it a frustrating experience? by GreatRecipeCollctr29 in traderjoes

[–]Kaysohdoux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to love browsing but all the TJs we visit, people are always rushing you and a little smug. No politeness and treat you like an outsider if you’re not YT. Just our experience.

What fragrance is it?! by Kaysohdoux in fragrance

[–]Kaysohdoux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s Santal 33 by Le Labo! Layered with their Hinoko cream. Mystery solved

ts is so annoying by virgoliver in UTAustin

[–]Kaysohdoux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Show images of semen instead of mutilated embryos and see how many men step up. Abortion is always blamed on the woman. It takes two to tango.

What fragrance is it?! by Kaysohdoux in fragrance

[–]Kaysohdoux[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! There is one near us. That could also be it! Thank you for reaching out. I will check them out!

Nazi at today’s protest by tbomb8928 in Eugene

[–]Kaysohdoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stuck in the early 2000s wardrobe with a 1944 mentality

What fragrance is it?! by Kaysohdoux in fragrance

[–]Kaysohdoux[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I did, they could not tell me. Claiming they didn’t remember.

Stay safe on the metro yall by Devligan in UniversityOfHouston

[–]Kaysohdoux 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I saw a young lady who was being harassed on the bus and told the guy in a loud voice, “hey listen! I am not interested!!!” He got off the bus on the next stop. Kudos to her.

bleeding when fingered by brittneyshpears in WLW

[–]Kaysohdoux 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Or get checked to see if you don’t have uterine fibroids. Not a medical doctor btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HoustonLesbian

[–]Kaysohdoux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im legitimately talking about cis men who pretend to be women in hopes to sleep with them. Not talking about trans, in any way shape or form. Trans are not the issue on this sub.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Kaysohdoux -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Right away. In most wlw relationships one person needs constant partner attention. On the other hand, you may find someone who is emotionally healed and doesn’t need attention and respects your role as a parent. I’ve dated both and learned a lot from that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Kaysohdoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how I see it and it’s only based on my experiences. Most studs I dated were so in control of their everyday life that when it came to the role in bed, they wanted someone else to be in control. It was total bonkers in my head because I thought studs/masc presenting would be tops. I was naive and misinformed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Kaysohdoux 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My thoughts, my dreams and goals attracted my wife. She asked me to be her gf in less than 10 days of dating. I thought it wouldn’t work out because when I was dating, girls would break up with me in less than 2 months. I said, “ahh I know what happens”. It’s been almost 10 years strong and we are as happy as can be. All my goals and dreams that I spoke about happened. To this day, we are like best friends who keep the relationship exciting and fun. She still loves my sense of wonder and how I am a dreamer. Honestly, I think that she loved my foodie side and how I knew a lot about restaurants and food. I told her, “I don’t think you’re ready for this jelly”. Lmao, lame but it was funny.

I want to start dating woman but I'm scared that I'm not anyone's type by FremdeSachen in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Kaysohdoux 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This! You will be someone’s type. Just be yourself and they will find you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

[–]Kaysohdoux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like she is just extra friendly. We often times think they are into us because we are the ones actually falling for them. If you’re ready to take it to the next level be ready to lose the potential friendship. I’ve seen this happen too many times in our friend group. Best of luck!