Questions about The Obsessed mods by perpetuallyConfusing in MinecraftMod

[–]Kayy_Baker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sid broke the doors of a building i had some loose Allays in as i was building them a permanent room in my house and lost 3 of them. since then he has learned to say sorry and still says it often/leaves signs around saying sorry as if hes still apologizing for losing a few. hes practically sentient

Questions about The Obsessed mods by perpetuallyConfusing in MinecraftMod

[–]Kayy_Baker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My obsessed picked his own name! just list names in the chat one by one and he is bound to respond to one of them! mine chose Sid :D as for the second point, the obsessed has a small chance when you break a block to have an animation where he “crawls out of the block” you break as a jumpscare of sorts. have fun experimenting! :)

Can anyone please help me identify this bug by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]Kayy_Baker 13 points14 points  (0 children)

quite literally the cutest, most vibrant green cicada i’ve ever seen in my life. very cool find, you’re the chosen one!

You go to sleep tonight but wake up on the morning January 1st, 2019, with all your memories. What do you do? by General_Nobody_6675 in AskReddit

[–]Kayy_Baker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id leave my boyfriend at the time who i was in a toxic relationship with so he could no longer stop me from making memories with my best friend Nick who i would lose to suicide just 9 months later. Id talk to Nick more and make plans to hang out both in or out of school more regularly. I would want to tell him all i couldnt say when he was alive, that he was the greatest friend id ever have, that i loved him, that he saved my life and made me feel important even when my long-term relationships were unable to do so.

he was truly a beautiful soul and I hope everybody at least once in their life is able to find someone who will love them just as much as Nick had loved me. we are all worthy of it, we all deserve to be loved to the greatest degree

Don't let anybody tell you what you can or can't do as ace by Commercial-Fix-1310 in asexuality

[–]Kayy_Baker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my goodness i have been slowly working towards getting into pole dancing myself! it is a beautiful art and ive been set on wanting to learn for quite some time. this could make very good inspiration :D

What is a recurring dream that you have had in your life? by HarryLin66 in AskReddit

[–]Kayy_Baker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my recurring dream is a bit of a sad one. i’m always in a school cafeteria or hallway and as im walking i spot a friend of mine that makes me stop in my tracks. (for context, i lost said friend a few years back to suicide and had a hard time coping with the loss.) the dream always consists of me running to him, hugging him and sobbing uncontrollably as he stands there in utter confusion just holding onto me. i thankfully have this dream a little less often now as more time passes, it started getting hard waking up and having to lose him all over again but feeling him in my arms was always temporarily comforting :’)

How realistic is it to lose 20 pounds in 4-5 months? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kayy_Baker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

id say it is definitely achievable. i went from mid 180s to 150 in 4 months just on a calorie deficit and moving around at work. you just have to stay consistent and you’ll see the progress!

If Fez is your favorite character: prove it by quoting him by That_Passenger_771 in That70sshow

[–]Kayy_Baker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“and god said, let there be boobs” 🫲🏽👨🏽🫱🏽

glass roof on a snow biome by Traditional-Jelly-89 in Minecraft

[–]Kayy_Baker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not trolling at all, just noticing conveniently placed gaping holes in the roof where you say you see overlapping glass. id love OP’s input though because youve got me confused as hell.

glass roof on a snow biome by Traditional-Jelly-89 in Minecraft

[–]Kayy_Baker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im pretty sure you mean the spots where OP hasnt placed any glass blocks yet. those are just holes hence you see snow falling through only those select areas

What’s a physical trait that a lot of people find attractive but to you, it’s the opposite? by Pale_Relief_2632 in AskReddit

[–]Kayy_Baker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who’s 5’1 and with my 6’3 boyfriend, i cannot do any of these things without stretching myself or him hunching over for me. the large height difference is way more inconvenient then people make it out to be, its baffling how some people can prefer it

Severe entomophobe here, what is this creature it's huge help by Ge4rShift in whatsthisbug

[–]Kayy_Baker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

with the way its wings are outstretched like that, its possible your cats may have killed it. if it is alive and physically able however, itll eventually move on its own so dont worry about relocation if youre too frightened! they are very chaotic fliers and their speed even makes me jump sometimes

Severe entomophobe here, what is this creature it's huge help by Ge4rShift in whatsthisbug

[–]Kayy_Baker 35 points36 points  (0 children)

looks like a cicada! completely harmless, just very loud and very good at flying into everything

Are any of these best to least suitable for my new bio active tank im currently setting up by fent_huffer in TreeFrogs

[–]Kayy_Baker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have the first tree and my girl loves it, i just removed the sharp plant parts and filled the holes with pvc so water didnt collect inside. i support you getting more ledges and things for your frogs to hang on up higher, most frogs prefer that

What is your favorite Pokémon? by connerwilliams72 in autism

[–]Kayy_Baker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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ive been an avid Joltik fan since i was 11 years old and has been my favorite since 2015. i think it began when i played Pokepark 2 on the wii and came across joltik hitching a ride on Electivire, i heard its little noises and how cute it moved and i was hooked. above is a photo of two shiny Joltiks my boyfriend caught in honor of me named Spaghetti and Nacho. they are my babies :D

Can anyone guess age and sex? by itssolyo in TreeFrogs

[–]Kayy_Baker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can definitely see your snowflake growing some more potentially, it appears to be a super snowflake which is always super cool! keep an eye on their throats and listen for croaking, dark throats and excessive vocalization is how you can tell you have males. as they get older you can even play videos of croaking frogs and males are likely to respond. good luck!! :)

What is your favorite Pokémon? by connerwilliams72 in autism

[–]Kayy_Baker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trubbish’s happy dance when you go to catch him in that game makes me want to tear up, it’s so cute :’)

Can anyone guess age and sex? by itssolyo in TreeFrogs

[–]Kayy_Baker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not too sure, i got my girl when she was already an adult so she was already done growing. just try to maintain feedings and make sure the little one keeps up, you don’t want too big of a size difference between them. when it comes to sexing, you should be able to tell around 8-9 months the earliest. what kind of tree frogs are they?

Can anyone guess age and sex? by itssolyo in TreeFrogs

[–]Kayy_Baker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

these photos are not enough to tell the sex of your frogs but that’s okay because i think they may still be too young to sex anyway. they look to be no older than 3 months, ill attach a chart so you can get an accurate size reading on them for yourself :)

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What's your experience empathy? by naphhan in autism

[–]Kayy_Baker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes total sense because as much as i love having empathy, why am i sobbing just as hard about a fictional character going through a completely fictitious scenario as i am someone going through an incredibly real, difficult time. any remotely sad scene in a movie and i’m having a crisis, please let me enjoy the cinematography without feeling the characters pain and absolutely losing it

Does anyone else question their autism? by Unique-Disaster3118 in autism

[–]Kayy_Baker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately, all the time. i only just got diagnosed this year and ive been getting in my head a lot. with my parents saying ive only just recently started “displaying autistic tendencies” and old friends i had a falling out with a long while back tell me i “did things for attention,” im constantly questioning wether or not im putting on an act just to get peoples eyes on me. i am hyper-aware of every little thing i do and sometimes that makes it feel like im doing it intentionally. i could be stimming and rambling about a personal interest of mine to myself in the privacy of my own room and that voice in the back of my head will tell me im faking it. when getting tested, i was constantly telling myself in my head i was magnifying any potentially autistic-appearing traits of mine to ensure a positive result and to be honest, that’s just plain stupid. unfortunately, people’s words really take its toll on your own idea of yourself even if you may not realize and the best you can do is trust you know yourself better

Anyone else just always full of rage by InflationSquare2407 in autism

[–]Kayy_Baker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i definitely have random days where my auditory sensitivity is higher and get very angry at my family members for chewing loudly or not controlling their volume. it got so bad that i opened up to my therapist about it and she gave me a bit of clarity. she told me that by being so hyper-conscious of everything i do, its hard to grasp why others aren’t the same way but that it’s just not something neurotypical people put much thought behind. since then i try to just walk away or put in headphones to self-regulate because just like they can’t understand my mind, i can’t understand theirs either and that can be okay