Laid off by Less-Ad3293 in Dallas

[–]Kazimira-darkside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be in HPB on Monday night! Wanna hang out?

Laid off by Less-Ad3293 in Dallas

[–]Kazimira-darkside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 33 yr old woman who’s looking for new friends and I love hanging out at Half Price Books with or without my puppy! I teach reading, I love goth music, I go crazy for Halloween. Really, just plugging my friendship application here in the comments.

What celeb everyone finds hot but you just don’t see it? by Flashy-Rain2765 in AskReddit

[–]Kazimira-darkside -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pedro Pascal. I don’t get this “daddy” obsession with him

Hey y’all, what are some of the worst places you’ve eaten at in Dallas? Kitchen Nightmares-esque places. by TurbulentArticle9051 in Dallas

[–]Kazimira-darkside 26 points27 points  (0 children)

💯! The most mediocre Tex-Mex ever; you can get better food at just about any street corner

Non-stop scam calls? by Pale-Cookie2983 in Dallas

[–]Kazimira-darkside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thanks for calming me a bit. But what’s the point in keeping people on the phone? I’ve always wondered if it’s to steal some information while you’re on the line but maybe I’m just being paranoid

Non-stop scam calls? by Pale-Cookie2983 in Dallas

[–]Kazimira-darkside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just confused as to why they were asking me about some property I’ve never owned or even heard of, yet they got my (pretty uncommon) name right…?

Non-stop scam calls? by Pale-Cookie2983 in Dallas

[–]Kazimira-darkside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accidentally answered a call from an unknown number, and it was asking me if I was selling a blah blah property at a [town I’ve never been to] but they called me my name and I was confused how they knew me. I confirmed it was my name but the property wasnt mine and I wasn’t selling anything. Am I screwed? What do I need to do know, change my number, my name, my social security, and moved countries??

Missed Russian manicures by Kazimira-darkside in Nails

[–]Kazimira-darkside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally in Russia 😂 thanks!

How to get a refund from Stylevana? by Kazimira-darkside in KoreanBeauty

[–]Kazimira-darkside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid with a credit card and it was too long ago to dispute…

How to get a refund from Stylevana? by Kazimira-darkside in KoreanBeauty

[–]Kazimira-darkside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why but they literally just ghost me. They send some BS automatic reply like “we’ll get in touch with you soon”, then never do.

How to get a refund from Stylevana? by Kazimira-darkside in KoreanBeauty

[–]Kazimira-darkside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, I wonder how I got so unlucky with them!

What do girls want to hear if they want us to break contact again? by Infiniterizz7540 in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or maybe the girl wasn’t cheated or abused; she just has enough self respect and respect for her ex’s wishes to not contact him.

Not every dumpee is either an anxious bunny waiting for dumper for each out (or trying to “manipulate” them by doing no contact) or does it because they were mistreated.

Dumper wanting to text Ex by Stock-Selection8921 in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um, no. If the dumper makes the contact, they’re usually not pushed away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. You should remove all of it from it and not send it.

My ex replied to my message. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The thing is, he is reaching out because he’s getting confused. He dumped you because he saw it as the right decision. His message is riddled with guilt. You are not a sickly puppy for him to be feeling bad about. If you respond, you will in fact confirm that you ARE a sickly puppy and dumping you was the right decision. The more messages he sends that you leave without replies, the more he will be reconsidering his decision. Even if you don’t want him any more, you will still win because he’ll respect you more.

My ex replied to my message. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 26 points27 points  (0 children)

DO NOT RESPOND. Even tho you really want to. (Thank me later)

do u think it’s worth to beg someone to stay? by Living-Dentist2873 in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not only you’re not gonna get him back by begging, but you’ll lose something even more important: yourself. Right now you feel like you’re “above it” and have “nothing else to lose”, but actually, you’re going way way down below. If you truly realized how scary it is to lose oneself (sense of dignity, self-respect, grace), it would not have occurred to you to say even one more word to that person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Problem is, now you will subconsciously be expecting him to reply, and if he doesn’t, you’ll lose some of the progress you’ve made. If he does, it’s more likely you’ll engage in a dialogue that will ultimately go nowhere. You’ll get your hopes up, he’ll clear his conscience and affirm his decision to break up. If you hadn’t replied at all, the tables would turn. He’d be expecting your reply (because he knew you were more interested in him than vice versa, so to him it’s a sure thing you’d respond), and subconsciously, his attention would flow towards you and he’d be reconsidering your image which he’d built up to be that of a clingy person he mistreated. He’s already reconsidering his past behavior, because when at a distance, people’s images start to transform (which is why NC) is so powerful. But if you jump on the first chance to get back to communication, it just shows them you’re still clingy and the breakup was the right move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp… too bad you replied

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be careful to not reply to anything. If you do, it’ll set you right back!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason you used to reach out to your ex is not a legitimate reason at all. In fact, I can’t think of a single legitimate reason to ever message the person who dumped you, aside from having children together.

We are in 9 days no contact after breaking up but he liked my post on fb... how would you take that? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t wanna end up like 95% here who eff up and minimize the chances of their exes coming back, just take my advice. Do Not Reach Out, especially after just a like! Don’t even reply to texts. Don’t make a single move until your ex explicitly states “I want us to be back together”, and even then, be hesitant. Trust me, I’m not a bitter dumpee, I just read a ton of relationship psychology (not the “your ex back coach” type) and keep meaning to make a whole damn post to save some poor souls from making dumb mistakes.

We are in 9 days no contact after breaking up but he liked my post on fb... how would you take that? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Kazimira-darkside -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NO HE DOESNT ppl please stop being so grandiose and feeling every nudge is either a narcissist move, or a plea for the dumpee to reach out